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Topic: I've never met a woman on the internet that didn't have some
DebbieJT's photo
Tue 06/10/08 01:34 PM



i dont get what the op is talking about, can someone please explain??flowerforyou
he thinks we all need help hun...laugh


why??? whats he saying??
i dont know do you need help...i dont lol...

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Tue 06/10/08 01:35 PM




i dont get what the op is talking about, can someone please explain??flowerforyou
he thinks we all need help hun...laugh


why??? whats he saying??
i dont know do you need help...i dont lol...


i dont want help either. so is the op saying everyone he meets as issues and need help??

carold's photo
Tue 06/10/08 01:36 PM
I've thought the same of men tell you one thing learn another

DebbieJT's photo
Tue 06/10/08 01:36 PM





i dont get what the op is talking about, can someone please explain??flowerforyou
he thinks we all need help hun...laugh


why??? whats he saying??
i dont know do you need help...i dont lol...


i dont want help either. so is the op saying everyone he meets as issues and need help??
yep lollaugh laugh

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Tue 06/10/08 01:37 PM






i dont get what the op is talking about, can someone please explain??flowerforyou
he thinks we all need help hun...laugh


why??? whats he saying??
i dont know do you need help...i dont lol...


i dont want help either. so is the op saying everyone he meets as issues and need help??
yep lollaugh laugh


what a duh thread laugh

DebbieJT's photo
Tue 06/10/08 01:38 PM







i dont get what the op is talking about, can someone please explain??flowerforyou
he thinks we all need help hun...laugh


why??? whats he saying??
i dont know do you need help...i dont lol...


i dont want help either. so is the op saying everyone he meets as issues and need help??
yep lollaugh laugh


what a duh thread laugh
yep lollaugh laugh laugh drinker

Sir_Galahad's photo
Tue 06/10/08 01:52 PM

Hello there, May I dare to say that needing to be rescued so to speak, apllies to both male and females. It seems when some guys find out that I own my own home and acerage, that they are ready to move in, and set up house. U know rent free. I am a single mom and I work 2 jobs to take care of my kids. Their deadbeat dad doesnt think he needs to help. So there, u go my friend. Neediness, is equal opportunity.


If I don't want to own my own home, why would I want someone who does already? I'm very NON-materialistic.

grkboy's photo
Tue 06/10/08 02:06 PM

HELP ME!!!


I feel your pain brother.

Just remember the Crazy/Hot scale. laugh

http://youtube.com/watch?v=kYrZSjpiIK4


seriously, I've met a lot of women but I always find the ones that want to be helped in some way - or they find me!


Again, I've been there. The problem I found is that I attract those types because I am a good guy to women, but I also like to feel needed, hence why the "damsel in distress" would catch my attention. It's natural to feel needed, but I've learned it only brings me headcases.

You need to first make sure you never go too fast with a woman. Get to know her and let the issues come out before you get close. One can only put on a phony "stable mind" act for so long. Let her break down one night about the guy who destroyed her 5 years ago, or the father who never loved her. Then you'll see.

This also sounds cold, but you also need to learn to LAUNCH a girl when you see the issues come out, not stick around and help her. Yes it sounds mean, but I've come to learn that while some people have a problem hit and need the help of a friend, many more people just roll around in their problems every day, looking for attention more than actual help or a solution. Worse are when those very women then friendzone the guy who was there for them to chase the guy who won't be there for them.

Do yourself a favor. Don't help these girls. Just move on.

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