Topic: F***** up or friendly???
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Tue 06/10/08 10:12 AM

There is a difference in innocent flirting on here in open and actually deceiving somebody. If this person said the other person didn't mean anything and invited you to meet him, and then tells this other person same thing...that is a PLAYER..that is not innocent flirting.




totally agree

flowerforyou

lilangel2's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:13 AM


OMG its not my PECCY is it! He wouldn't flirt wiff nobody...would he??? :angry: :angry: :angry: bigsmile
Like I said...communication! You know very well what Peccy and I flirt just as buddies...and I THINK he knows I flirt with you as a buddy too. laugh laugh noway noway laugh laugh

(((Flirt Flirt))) girlfriend! love love


Peccy wouldn't be Peccy if he didn't flirt...neither would I be lilangel. But, we keep it in open and on boards...if it went anywhere else that would be where I would draw the line.

foolproof's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:13 AM
I wonder now...does his new "flirt" friend know that he could be doing this to her as well? Asking to meet and talking to her like she is the only one?

tanyaann's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:14 AM
If he was flirtous when you first started talking to him, then it could just be his personality or online personality. Talk to him about it and see what his response is and go from there.

I am seriously talking with someone, I still flirt on here, but not as much. However, if I get an email from someone I am clear that I am already taken.

Anytime you have questions about someone's sincerity online, take time to see if that is a valid concern before going any further.

good luck!

auburngirl's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:14 AM


ORRRR

They could be doing some "SERIOUS flirting" with more than one person and leading everyone to believe they are the only one they are interested in.


Well, he did state that he was interested in the one person, I think, based on the earlier posts. Ultimately, if it's unclear, just ask. Too many fish in the sea and all that to waste your time.


IF he stated that he is only interested in getting to know YOU, and not someone else, and invited you to visit, then he should not be flirting seriously with other people. We all joke, but you can tell when it is serious flirting. At least anyone with a brain can.

lilangel2's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:14 AM

I wonder now...does his new "flirt" friend know that he could be doing this to her as well? Asking to meet and talking to her like she is the only one?

Perhaps you should tell this other person so she knows. Dogs should be exposed.drinker

auburngirl's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:16 AM



OMG its not my PECCY is it! He wouldn't flirt wiff nobody...would he??? :angry: :angry: :angry: bigsmile
Like I said...communication! You know very well what Peccy and I flirt just as buddies...and I THINK he knows I flirt with you as a buddy too. laugh laugh noway noway laugh laugh

(((Flirt Flirt))) girlfriend! love love


Peccy wouldn't be Peccy if he didn't flirt...neither would I be lilangel. But, we keep it in open and on boards...if it went anywhere else that would be where I would draw the line.




((((((TWIN))))))) Now I know why I love you so much! You're one smart chicky! flowerforyou

No1sLove's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:23 AM



OMG its not my PECCY is it! He wouldn't flirt wiff nobody...would he??? :angry: :angry: :angry: bigsmile
Like I said...communication! You know very well what Peccy and I flirt just as buddies...and I THINK he knows I flirt with you as a buddy too. laugh laugh noway noway laugh laugh

(((Flirt Flirt))) girlfriend! love love


Peccy wouldn't be Peccy if he didn't flirt...neither would I be lilangel. But, we keep it in open and on boards...if it went anywhere else that would be where I would draw the line.
You know I would never try to steal YOU away from him. laugh laugh laugh laugh

I just want ya be happy girl! smooched
bigsmile :heart: :heart: flowerforyou flowerforyou

lilangel2's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:23 AM



ORRRR

They could be doing some "SERIOUS flirting" with more than one person and leading everyone to believe they are the only one they are interested in.


Well, he did state that he was interested in the one person, I think, based on the earlier posts. Ultimately, if it's unclear, just ask. Too many fish in the sea and all that to waste your time.


IF he stated that he is only interested in getting to know YOU, and not someone else, and invited you to visit, then he should not be flirting seriously with other people. We all joke, but you can tell when it is serious flirting. At least anyone with a brain can.


but most men dont have brains HA! bigsmile laugh bigsmile laugh bigsmile

lilangel2's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:26 AM
Edited by lilangel2 on Tue 06/10/08 10:27 AM
And you guys should know that US GALS talk amongst ourselves...so you are bound to be found out sooner or later bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

I Gotta go back to my FLIRTING thread now HA! bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile love love FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT love love

cdaddy's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:27 AM


did he send you the engagement ring fed ex or ups.


HEY you don't need an engagement ring if the person says he wants a committed relationship adn doesn't want you to talk to anyone else in a serious manner either!

is that the case here? did he say he wanted a committed relationship and for her not to talk to anyone else. if i missed that post then i'm sorry. of course you would think the commitment would come AFTER the in person meeting.

wiley's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:27 AM
Everybody talks about me. That's just how awesome I am.

lilangel2's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:30 AM



did he send you the engagement ring fed ex or ups.


HEY you don't need an engagement ring if the person says he wants a committed relationship adn doesn't want you to talk to anyone else in a serious manner either!

is that the case here? did he say he wanted a committed relationship and for her not to talk to anyone else. if i missed that post then i'm sorry. of course you would think the commitment would come AFTER the in person meeting.


I think that is what she is saying here. And I will say that Peccy has asked me to be in committed relationship even before we meet...and i have agreed so i am passing up alot of good stuff on here for him, so he better damn well mean it and appreciate it cos if he don't he is dead meat HA! bigsmile NO JOKE!:angry:

auburngirl's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:31 AM

If he lead you to believe it was you he was interested in and no one else...that smacks of PLAYER!!!!!!!!

RUN! to the nearest Exit!

No1sLove's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:34 AM
I have found it helpful to go back through the threads a bit to see the flirting habits of someone you develop an interest in...so you are prepared for their flirtations with those they've been flirting with prior or later. Words are words, after all, no one can presume the meaning behind them without further communication. I have found that serious or playful can easily be misread by desirous eyes. It's something I believe helps me to keep some perspective anyway.

rara777's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:42 AM
I have been on JSH since last Oct. I don`t consider myself a flirt. I`m here for friends. A relationship maybe down the road. You never know.

Everyone that knows me on here, knows that if you are a lady friend of mine. I greet you with a flowerforyou(((yourname)))flowerforyou

If you are a male friend of mine it`s drinker namedrinker

This is just my opinion. You are also entitled to yours.

Thank you so very much.


No1sLove's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:47 AM

I have been on JSH since last Oct. I don`t consider myself a flirt. I`m here for friends. A relationship maybe down the road. You never know.

Everyone that knows me on here, knows that if you are a lady friend of mine. I greet you with a flowerforyou(((yourname)))flowerforyou

If you are a male friend of mine it`s drinker namedrinker

This is just my opinion. You are also entitled to yours.

Thank you so very much.


flowerforyou (((Ed))) flowerforyou

You are certainly not a flirt! flowerforyou :heart:

One of the best gentlemen of all time needs no flirting to be the sweetest man ALIVE! ((((Rara))))

:heart: :heart: smooched smooched :heart: :heart:


rara777's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:50 AM


I have been on JSH since last Oct. I don`t consider myself a flirt. I`m here for friends. A relationship maybe down the road. You never know.

Everyone that knows me on here, knows that if you are a lady friend of mine. I greet you with a flowerforyou(((yourname)))flowerforyou

If you are a male friend of mine it`s drinker namedrinker

This is just my opinion. You are also entitled to yours.

Thank you so very much.


flowerforyou (((Ed))) flowerforyou

You are certainly not a flirt! flowerforyou :heart:

One of the best gentlemen of all time needs no flirting to be the sweetest man ALIVE! ((((Rara))))

:heart: :heart: smooched smooched :heart: :heart:




flowerforyou (((Rose)))flowerforyou

Thank you sweetieblushing

You are one terrific ladyflowerforyou

:heart: :heart: smooched smooched :heart: :heart:

No1sLove's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:51 AM


flowerforyou (((Rose)))flowerforyou

Thank you sweetieblushing

You are one terrific ladyflowerforyou

:heart: :heart: smooched smooched :heart: :heart:
Love you to pieces (((Ed))) flowerforyou :heart: smooched

HMontana's photo
Tue 06/10/08 10:52 AM
ahem...I see some flirting going on here.

laugh