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Topic: Ex's
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Tue 06/10/08 09:34 PM

Yep, Friends with my Ex GF's.

I don't understand how people that were suppose to be everything to each other can't get along a short period after they break up? I mean were they lying to each other as they were confiding in each other and becoming best friends? Doesn't make sense to me...noway noway noway
Sounds like a complete waste of time to me.....


Well it may depend on why you break up. If its mutual, then it may be easier to be friends afterwards. But if its one person breaking up with the other, and the other still has feelings, it can be hard to accept. Trust me I know.

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Wed 06/11/08 05:30 AM

I mean were they lying to each other as they were confiding in each other and becoming best friends?

Perhaps some were. Maybe they were even lying to themselves.

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Wed 06/11/08 05:35 AM

I saw my parents be good friends for years, but his re-marriage sorta quashed that. I find that to be the case a lot.... I am friendly with them until a new romance comes in and then things get awkward.

Its like that movie "When Harry Met Sally"; and brings back the age-old question, can men and women ever truly be solely PLATONIC friends. With NEITHER party hoping they'll get some booty again one day....

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Wed 06/11/08 06:30 AM
Well it may depend on why you break up. If its mutual, then it may be easier to be friends afterwards. But if its one person breaking up with the other, and the other still has feelings, it can be hard to accept. Trust me I know.


agreed. if done improperly, it can be a painful situation. and some people just aren't worth keeping around

even if you never speak again, no relationship is truly a waste of time. you gain knowledge

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Wed 06/11/08 06:57 AM
Thank you all for your input. I don't know what I will do. Guess I will just have to see what happens.

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