how hard you try, things just seem to get worse. why do we try so hard. does someone have advice for people like me. i mean, am i depressed or what.

look at simple things in life

I surrendered a long,long. long time ago!!!!!!!!!!!!

not depressed, just find that silver lining no matter how small,things can and do always get better

Make yourself A Drink and A sandwich ...you'll feel better..

you just need to get laid

maybe you are trying to hard---

I'm in the same boat, brother-

Ya bust your ass to near submission trying to get ahead, and then something just HAS to come along to undo practically EVERYTHING you've tried to accomplish. That or (in MY case) you have certain elements in your family who feel the need to throw items that SHOULD be their responsibility at YOUR feet, which results in the adding of grey hair to your head.

You can either fight it out like a junkyard dog, or you can throw your hands up and say "screw this". And I'm gettin' close to doing the latter.

Have A Drink...get laid and then have A Sandwich...

I feel in the same boat at times.

Just take Life serious enough to make it to the next day

yes i feel the same and i get oh its gonna get better crap

first, you have to realize that how hard you try has nothing to do with happiness or depression. trying so hard sets expectations that may or may not be realized. rather focus on acceptance of oneself and finding inner peace. everything on the outside is of little consequence to happiness truly.

Why don't her have a drink and a sandwich while he's getting laid ......

I feel like that every day of my life..

So whats the uther option..?

i think it starts in your own mind we are always hardest on ourselves.

I've always found that the harder you try...the better things get. I'm thinking that you're trying the wrong stuff then. Try something else?

just figure it will just be a few more spins and were all doen for anyway...so have fun! Hope this cheered ya up!

I feel like it today