I see a woman i would like to meet and would like to get to know her beyond the errection I have. I get scared and i don't say anything because I don't know what to say. What do i say when I want to say to a woman, " I think you are beautiful and from what I have seen you aren't like all the annoying women I see around here and would like to get to know you better."? Does honesty work? Should I lie say i am like a doctor and not the loser I am? what do I say to someone I am genuinly interested in, or how should i act. Is honesty really the best way? Should I just give up do to my ugliness? I can't do this dating thing is all I know. Iam horrible at it.

Tell her about your erection

Yup that should do it, won't have to worry about dating anymore!!!

Ummmmmmmmmmmmm lie?????? How old are you btw??? do you really think that kind of crap will work on someone???

I am 26. I don't know what will work. i am really bad at this stuff. That is why I am asking on how to handle my fears/

Don't lie, just be yourself...... I think all guys are ugly, but I am biased, since I like women, so don't be hard on your self. You will be ok... Just enjoy being single, and before you will know it, someone to use that Errection on....

ok..........first thing.......NEVER LIE!!!! Be true to yourself and others.......you will never go wrong with being truthful@@@!! And youre trying to impress this woman?? She will either like you or not......depending on her dislikes and likes........

I will guess not like me. she's much too hot for me. I need to stop caring, and just give up on this ****
but I drink, and I care and it just leads to heartbreak; deja vu all over again.

Don't lie. Just be yourself, don't make yourself out to be something your not the true you will eventually show through. A simple hello and a complement is usually a good start. If she likes you she will respond. Don't take it to personal if she doesn't respond, just move on.

once a woman said the size of a muscule man is inversely proportional to the size of his brain. That said I guess it means they get put off seeing muscules and no intelligence. Change that.

hmmmmmmmmm you guys want to know what the secret is........dotcha???

I bet you do.........unfortunately it is a game............ a stupid silly game that all must play and know the rules/////////

Not talking about lies either....

yOU!!! with the questions!!! at your age they want some guy who is elusive.......google the definition if your must!!!

But By the time they hit 40 they are tired of chasing the elusive male and is looking for the guy that would treat them right

Yeah, I found that out, I went on this date with a 40 year old, oh boy, she had our marriage planned out by the second date...

JT....just be yourself. Honesty is NEVER wrong!!!








and really, you need to heal yourself before you can really start another relationship, just take it slow...see where it goes.

Good luck

just ask to see her b00bs

Don't lie...women have a knack of finding these kind of things out, not that it would be difficult because the first time she met you she would probably be able to come to the conclusion.

Honesty always, only lie to cops.

Gypsy said it right about playing the game.

What worked last time?

she hit on me