Some of you ladies think you know how to handle me and i don't mean sexual thats a given with some and ill leave that at that.

I know some of the guys might have your opinions but bring it on if you think you can

Id say there is maybe 3 to 5 women on here that actually know me and would agree with me on this. I stand out more then most men on here, not all, just most. I read profiles and when i see this, do you think you can handle me or do you have an open mind and the one i like the most is, are you up to the challenge and thats when i know and i pointed this out to somone lastnight, you women that have that on your profile. Thats the first thing most men will respnd to. The ole i'm your man Ok ok back to me The reason i say most can't handle me is because the realness in me in how i can see a women for who they are and when put to the challenge i show them who think they are, i don't beat around the bush and play this game of seeing what i can get, I treat women with respect, I come to find out that alot of women can't actually handle that. There use to the game, the challenge just to prove to themselves there right about men. Well you met your mach ladies I'm as real as they come, open, honest, trusting , caring , loving man and not alot of women are used to someone being real with them. It's a odd feeling for them, there thinking where is the catch, Well guess what! there is no catch. Thats what scars some of them, that somone actually sees them for who they really are and wont cross that line. Me being me and how i can see some women and have proved to them of who they are is what i mean that most women can't handle me.

So if you think i'm wrong. And you feel this is a challenge. Bring it, i have nothing to hide

i challenge you to a match Bring it

no one can handle me lets have a face off

your talking sexual and thats a given. Don't take this wrong but i have a few years on you and your still learng about life. Id say i have some what of an edge on you

Mirror has all you beat. .. now all we need is him to come here.

Hmmmmmmmmmm handle you.........I havent used my feminine wiles on you yet......

Actually, you dont really show yourself a whole lot shadow....I havent dissected you yet!!!

you go girl

In simplicity truth is what a lot of people can't handle. Can a heart lie to itself? False people are scared off from true people. From what I can tell it seems you are a true person. I hope you meet your match.

your hair stands out more than most guys on here

Amusing thread. I love reading fiction.

i'll go fishing with you shadow!!

Hi shadow...how ya been..

Guess I'm one of the profiles you're "profiling."

I do want a man that can keep up with me, but that pertains to all areas of a relationship. We have to challenge each others minds, be able to communicate in a lively and meaningful way, and match each other in ways that make the relationship a REWARDING challenge. Physically, mentally and emotionally!

Finding that - well that's the real challenge, Shadow.

I think woman are afraid of the unknown...most of them on here have been with a guy that they thought was 'the one' i'm sure he seemed honest, caring, etc...etc But in the end they were hurt...so they are understandably weary of the 'what if' they are use to a 'catch' because in there experiences thus far there has always been one...they are assuming you have a 'catch' too...they just don't know when it will show itself...and when they can't find it they tend to worry because it is an "unknown" to them....and people in general fear the "unknown" JMHO