ok, here goes. bear with me for a sec.
i call pretty much everyone i have had more than one conversatioin with on here sweets or sweetie....
my current nonboyfriend knows this, and is ok with it as he knows that it is my way of showing that i care, as most of my friends know as well..

yesterday i had a friend who i had not seen here in MONTHS AND MONTHS!!! pop in and i said "hey sweets!! how are you? havent seen you in forever, hope all is well with you and your new love"
thats it..
his gf sent me a letter telling me that i would not be calling him sweets again!!
and that if i stoped, then we would be ok.. if not.. then i better watch out...

my question..

is it ok to call people sweets, sweetie.. hun..
etc!???

i do all the time.........but i'm really bad at names

sure thing sweets

dont worry about it ! i call ever one hun or darlin' , my freind know's it dont mean anything when i do it ! because she is my sweetie

may be not in front of their other halfs.....it can be mistaken for a flirt

I call everyone that I'm friends with sweetie... it's a term of endearment... not a threat!

i do, especially with a "sexy" guy i like talking to now women? no

its a website...

anywhere is infront of their other half...

you can always go back and read old posts..

she sounds really insecure and it's better to just let it go and not start a war- women are crazy that's why I have just a few as friend's

best advice I ever got "sometimes it's better to say nothing at all"

I have one guess as to who it was.......... and i know you know who im talking about iz

Respond back with "Ok sweets!!"

I don't mind it unless they are a lot younger than me. There is one waitress here that is like 20 and always says hon to me. I want to scream I am NOT a hon I could be your mother but, not really needful.


In this case, it sounds like this girl is insecure, ya think?

I do the same, call most people sunshine, beats getting their names wrong.

I would take his g/f remark as insecurity and immaturity, she sent you a letter? (jmo)

aucutualy i dont.. lol. but i avoid that whole situation.. and dont know who they are with now..

safer that way.

Sounds like the gf is really insecure. It's her problem, not yours. Don't let it ruin your day.

tell me one person on this site that has not done that at least one time? I call few of my friends sweetie. hell when i text my ex and say hi. I call her sweetie. If her BF don't like it's just a way of saying hi to some. Not all like it and they will tell you. So is it ok. Why wouldn't be? people need to get over themselves. Simple as that...

I'm w/Gypsy

thank god.........lol i thought maybe it was the guy we shared an email about a while ago...the one that likes to toy with everyones emotions and lie about who hes with where hes with lol little punk ass lol hahahahaha

ya she sent me an email..
it was really random..
that was all i said to him.. i had to go to work soon after i sent that message.. and then the email was there when i got home.. lol

she seems pretty insecure.. which is stupid because he is totaly into her!

Im a old Truck driver, and i get that a lot. It makes me feel good. I know it not just something special for me, but thats ok. You have to know it not what you said, its you. Your both woman, with one thing in common, Him. She is just a little jealous of your friendship. She needs to know shes #1.