Topic: Dating again
ShagnaC's photo
Mon 02/19/07 07:27 PM
I have been dating this wonderful man I met online, we have been talking
for over a month and dating now in person for the last few weeks.
Just a small piece of wisdom that I found worked with me. It is take
it slow, We didnt even have a first kiss for a week and we still have
not had anytype of sex and it is just amazing how fun it is to build the
foundation for a soid friendship without jumping into things to fast!
It has been long over due for me.

oldsage's photo
Mon 02/19/07 07:28 PM
Good for you both, hope it all works as it should. Going slow is GREAT

mistyblue2012's photo
Mon 02/19/07 07:29 PM
Congrats girl...I am happy for you!

NYCgirl's photo
Mon 02/19/07 07:29 PM
I am very happy for you and yes, take it slow. It is better like that.
Good Luck!! flowerforyou flowerforyou

Nervesgone's photo
Mon 02/19/07 07:31 PM
Good luck Shagna! :heart:

slowtogetit's photo
Mon 02/19/07 07:31 PM
someone call slow.......lolol

that's great shagna, i hope you both are very happy.

ShagnaC's photo
Mon 02/19/07 07:32 PM
Thank you, I noticed when you jump into anything to fast it usually
doesnt last to long.

LAMom's photo
Mon 02/19/07 07:37 PM
Congrats to you Shagna! flowerforyou

Marie55's photo
Mon 02/19/07 07:40 PM
Congratulations, I noticed you had been gone from here and hoped it was
a good sign. I believe taking it slow is best too. Best of luck.

unsure's photo
Mon 02/19/07 07:40 PM
Congrats Shagna!! I believe that if you take things very slow its much
better, then that way you won't be wondering this very important
question: Am I staying because sex was good or am I staying because I
really like him? I am telling you sex boggles your mind at times!!
How many times have you wanted to break up with someone but you couldn't
because you wasn't sure how you felt? If you would have just waited a
little bit longer on the sex part then maybe you would not have been so
confused!! This is why I have a waiting period~~I know some of my
friends think its crazy, but I think it saves me a lot of hassle!!
So if a guy don't want to wait and only date me and have no sexual
relationship...then oh well, move on, I don't mind!! So good luck and
happy huntin~~go slow :heart:

ShagnaC's photo
Mon 02/19/07 07:40 PM
Thank you MOM, and congrants with you and T! I think it is great when
people find one another. It is truly a blessing in one form or another.

ShagnaC's photo
Mon 02/19/07 07:42 PM
Thank you sure also, Him and I have talked about sex and we both agree
we would rather build a foundation and the sex can wait.

LAMom's photo
Mon 02/19/07 07:42 PM
Thanks Shagna,, We are both really lucky,,, I hope you all the happiness
in the world,,,, flowerforyou

Morena350's photo
Mon 02/19/07 07:59 PM
shagna girl, so happy for ya!! and thanks for the advice!!

oldsage's photo
Mon 02/19/07 08:03 PM
We waited 2.5 yrs before we had sex. After that it was always the best.

ShagnaC's photo
Mon 02/19/07 08:19 PM
I dont know if I can wait 2.5 years but maybe 2.5 months will work for
me lol

oldsage's photo
Mon 02/19/07 08:23 PM
Extenuating circumstances