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| Topic: Seriously! what's wrong with people?? | |
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Just sort of a vent because the friends i've made here are awesome and nobody tells me to shut up which i really appreciate by the way. as alot of you know i lost my boyfriend last August due to events in Afghanistan and of course sometimes i miss him as anyone in this situation would so anyways there was this kid i used to go to school with we kept in contact and he's thinking about joining the Army this would be why his comment suprised me because after he asked me what was on my mind i told him i was missing my boyfriend and why. he proceeded to tell me not to cry because it was his own fault if i wanted to point fingers and blame let it not be at t he terrorists but at the training Chris recieved. and if not the training then the soldier as an individual! now i was fuming at this point but he took it further and said that my boyfriend WILLINGLY probably was taken captive because he didn't have decent enough training to know what else to do!! needless to say we no longer talk but it makes me wonder....WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?? sorry about this guys i love ya all for puttin up with me for as long as you have :)
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What an asshole! That was incredibly rude!
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ignore the ignorance hun
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ignore the ignorance hun hes history like i said i needed a place to vent and i know i have tons of friends here :) |
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Just sort of a vent because the friends i've made here are awesome and nobody tells me to shut up which i really appreciate by the way. as alot of you know i lost my boyfriend last August due to events in Afghanistan and of course sometimes i miss him as anyone in this situation would so anyways there was this kid i used to go to school with we kept in contact and he's thinking about joining the Army this would be why his comment suprised me because after he asked me what was on my mind i told him i was missing my boyfriend and why. he proceeded to tell me not to cry because it was his own fault if i wanted to point fingers and blame let it not be at t he terrorists but at the training Chris recieved. and if not the training then the soldier as an individual! now i was fuming at this point but he took it further and said that my boyfriend WILLINGLY probably was taken captive because he didn't have decent enough training to know what else to do!! needless to say we no longer talk but it makes me wonder....WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?? sorry about this guys i love ya all for puttin up with me for as long as you have :) Honey, I am widowed and was widowed young and I can tell you that people, very well meaning people, will say the stupidest things you can imagine. They have just not been there so they Can't know the things to say. It comes from a good place. TRY to take it in stride. |
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e you punched him in the face before not talking to him
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He's a friggen IDIOT
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'Boys', like him...have never been in the military nor do they know what the Hell they are talking about. I wouldn't pay attention to what he has said. Also, accept my sympathy for your loss. I too, have been there and fortunately, returned. I praise and give thanks to our men and women for their sacrifices and bravery, for serving their country. Former Special Forces..retired (Lt. Col.)
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e you punched him in the face before not talking to him no but that sounds like a really good idea |
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Tell him to sign up, pack a bag, and take his sorry ass over there...
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e you punched him in the face before not talking to him no but that sounds like a really good idea Thanx,because that's what I would have done if anyone says that about an American soldier fighting for this country. |
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Come down under misc grief and support boards and look up my Widows/ers thread. We have several that come there young and older. It really will give you a place to speak with some that have been thru this.
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First please accept my sympathy for your loss. Guys like your friend need to remember that your boyfriend paid the ultimate sacrifice so that an a**hole like him could make that kind of statement. In my book all service men and women deserve the utmost respect and honor. They are doing a job that I couldn't do.
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Just sort of a vent because the friends i've made here are awesome and nobody tells me to shut up which i really appreciate by the way. as alot of you know i lost my boyfriend last August due to events in Afghanistan and of course sometimes i miss him as anyone in this situation would so anyways there was this kid i used to go to school with we kept in contact and he's thinking about joining the Army this would be why his comment suprised me because after he asked me what was on my mind i told him i was missing my boyfriend and why. he proceeded to tell me not to cry because it was his own fault if i wanted to point fingers and blame let it not be at t he terrorists but at the training Chris recieved. and if not the training then the soldier as an individual! now i was fuming at this point but he took it further and said that my boyfriend WILLINGLY probably was taken captive because he didn't have decent enough training to know what else to do!! needless to say we no longer talk but it makes me wonder....WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?? sorry about this guys i love ya all for puttin up with me for as long as you have :)  at your ex friend. Thank you so much for supporting us. There are so much politics going on right now that people have lost their minds. Only talk to close friends or vets about your loss. Others will only say the wrong thing. Training has nothing to do with it. He just got unlucky and into a bad situation. I believe this is a war? It is not a movie...it is real and real people die. God bless you! |
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Just sort of a vent because the friends i've made here are awesome and nobody tells me to shut up which i really appreciate by the way. as alot of you know i lost my boyfriend last August due to events in Afghanistan and of course sometimes i miss him as anyone in this situation would so anyways there was this kid i used to go to school with we kept in contact and he's thinking about joining the Army this would be why his comment suprised me because after he asked me what was on my mind i told him i was missing my boyfriend and why. he proceeded to tell me not to cry because it was his own fault if i wanted to point fingers and blame let it not be at t he terrorists but at the training Chris recieved. and if not the training then the soldier as an individual! now i was fuming at this point but he took it further and said that my boyfriend WILLINGLY probably was taken captive because he didn't have decent enough training to know what else to do!! needless to say we no longer talk but it makes me wonder....WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?? sorry about this guys i love ya all for puttin up with me for as long as you have :) at your ex friend. Thank you so much for supporting us. There are so much politics going on right now that people have lost their minds. Only talk to close friends or vets about your loss. Others will only say the wrong thing. Training has nothing to do with it. He just got unlucky and into a bad situation. I believe this is a war? It is not a movie...it is real and real people die. God bless you! he WAS a close friend thats why i told him |
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