Topic: I'm just not that into you!
kaipaig's photo
Thu 06/05/08 06:13 PM


Is it wrong to not tell someone WHY you dont want to see them again and just say, "I don't think we have a connection"?


drinker How very simple life would be if only people did
tell the truth instead of ignoring or never ansering their
calls. Here's to ya!!! Honesty!!! Something you just don't
see or hear everyday. drinker drinker


And hears to you my dear!!drinker I think I need another shot of Patron!!

Silntstrnger's photo
Thu 06/05/08 06:19 PM
ok on a serious note u should come out and tell her ur not interested instead of leaving her wandering.

Silntstrnger's photo
Thu 06/05/08 06:20 PM
even if they lie and had to know the date was going to be a bad outcome.

link97my's photo
Thu 06/05/08 06:21 PM
Edited by link97my on Thu 06/05/08 06:21 PM

ok on a serious note u should come out and tell her ur not interested instead of leaving her wandering.

Or you can take her to a romantic spot and tell her this just isn't going to work out between us and push her out of the car and leave her there......

brooke007's photo
Thu 06/05/08 06:23 PM

Is it wrong to not tell someone WHY you dont want to see them again and just say, "I don't think we have a connection"?


just tell her your gay!

or say....it aint you honey..its me

ladyliz1417's photo
Thu 06/05/08 06:31 PM
I always want to know....in case it was something I did wrong so I dont make the same mistake again.

kaipaig's photo
Thu 06/05/08 06:34 PM


ok on a serious note u should come out and tell her ur not interested instead of leaving her wandering.

Or you can take her to a romantic spot and tell her this just isn't going to work out between us and push her out of the car and leave her there......


I love this guy!!

kaipaig's photo
Thu 06/05/08 06:37 PM

I always want to know....in case it was something I did wrong so I dont make the same mistake again.


But maybe its nothing you did "wrong". So, why would I be so arrogant to assume it was you and not me?

ladyliz1417's photo
Thu 06/05/08 06:43 PM


I always want to know....in case it was something I did wrong so I dont make the same mistake again.


But maybe its nothing you did "wrong". So, why would I be so arrogant to assume it was you and not me?
B/c I always think it was me even if it wasn't. Just be honest is all Ican say.

shoesmonkey's photo
Thu 06/05/08 06:44 PM

Is it wrong to not tell someone WHY you dont want to see them again and just say, "I don't think we have a connection"?
Nope, not at all. Remember, the truth hurt's and, you don't want to cause any more pain than needed.

writer_gurl's photo
Thu 06/05/08 06:44 PM
pe, I don't see anything wrong with it...Just be nicebigsmile

Marley's photo
Thu 06/05/08 06:45 PM

What did I do wrong? I thought our date was marvelous..Im sorry I disappointed you:cry: :cry:

It was your table manners. You were using a knife and fork. I, on the otherhand, was eating like a pride of lions devbouring a wildebeest. Yummmmmm.

JadedHeart's photo
Thu 06/05/08 06:48 PM
Sometimes that is the whole reason though. You can like someone, but if you don't click, or there's no "connection", then time to move on.

bastet126's photo
Thu 06/05/08 07:06 PM


I always want to know....in case it was something I did wrong so I dont make the same mistake again.


But maybe its nothing you did "wrong". So, why would I be so arrogant to assume it was you and not me?


chemistry, it's either there or not, there's no mystery. just tell her.

link97my's photo
Thu 06/05/08 07:20 PM


What did I do wrong? I thought our date was marvelous..Im sorry I disappointed you:cry: :cry:

It was your table manners. You were using a knife and fork. I, on the otherhand, was eating like a pride of lions devbouring a wildebeest. Yummmmmm.

Table manners.... shooot If you can burp the alphabet in one burp they better applaud you cause if they didn't that would be bad table manners. drinker

buttons's photo
Thu 06/05/08 08:26 PM

Is it wrong to not tell someone WHY you dont want to see them again and just say, "I don't think we have a connection"?
no not at all..... but i think if u just dated a few times that is a good enough answer no need to go into detail.....

buttons's photo
Thu 06/05/08 08:32 PM
furthermore your dont always know exactaly what it was that made you not click or have sparks.....

kaipaig's photo
Thu 06/05/08 08:51 PM

furthermore your dont always know exactaly what it was that made you not click or have sparks.....


I appreciate your insight.

Goofball73's photo
Thu 06/05/08 09:00 PM

Is it wrong to not tell someone WHY you dont want to see them again and just say, "I don't think we have a connection"?


Not at all. Just don't be holding a gun or knife when you say it. Gives off the wrong impression.:wink:

DQ66's photo
Thu 06/05/08 09:27 PM

Is it wrong to not tell someone WHY you dont want to see them again and just say, "I don't think we have a connection"?


Any rason is better than the silent treatment. I don't think you have to be specific. "not that into you" would be reason enough. glasses