How much compromise should there be before its not a compromise and he is walking all over you?

depends on the relationship .......how much you are willing to give the person without feeling used

It should never get to that point if he realy cares for you.

4.7 ounces

until it feels like an infringement on who you are. That line is different for all of us.

I think if you feel like you are losing out or feel odd about it than it isn't compromising. There should be a natural flow of give and take on both ends.

Ah yes the dreaded doormat debate.


You can be a strong woman and not be a doormat and you don't have to be a bioch to do it. Compromise is both sides giving a bit to the other and meeting somewhere in the middle. There is no need to have a hard I'm not changing for any man, attitude. Relationships won't work without compromise from time to time. In your case, per your other thread, I would explain yet again why you feel as you do but keep in mind it's a good sign that he does want to take you places and introduce you to his friends. That is a compliment. But, only do all of that when you are ready.


Good luck

i agree!

(((Tanya)))

Your T-shirt just came in...

Keep Off The Azz!

It just seems like I do alot more for our relationship than he does

>>>.low wolf howling in the distance<<<<<

turns and runs......pitch forks and torches are not good for a wolfs complexsion

50 50 Some how i end up giving 70%

RUN WOLFY RUN

example?

I want one.........
Save the Wolf

But do you ask for more? Or just expect him to give it? Sometimes I think we gals assume that they should just automatically know what we want or need and they DONT always...surprise! Know what I mean?

you should both be 'giving and receiving' .. when you are the ONLY one giving and he is the ONLY one receiving ..

well ............ there's your answer

I won't let em hurt the puppy. Nice doggy.

I am the one that goes over to his house. I drive the hour one way to see him an he has yet to come over to my house once. I am ondering if I am just a convienence

Hmmmmmm if he wants to see you bad enough then he should find a way to show up to your house!!!