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OMG I SOUND LIKE MY MOTHER!!!
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you should both be 'giving and receiving' .. when you are the ONLY one giving and he is the ONLY one receiving .. well ............ there's your answer relationships are not 50/50.....sometimes they're 90/10 others others 70/30...... thats part of life and learning to make compramises together.........communication is the key. |
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It's just that I feel like idk I care about him, but it's only been a month tomorrow
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you should both be 'giving and receiving' .. when you are the ONLY one giving and he is the ONLY one receiving .. well ............ there's your answer relationships are not 50/50.....sometimes they're 90/10 others others 70/30...... thats part of life and learning to make compramises together.........communication is the key. So I should tell him how I am feeling |
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He did go to my sister's open house. He has bought me flowers. And he has taken me to dinner a few times
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Talk to him......like you would a friend......Ive heard that they CANT READ OUR MINDS!!!!
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you should both be 'giving and receiving' .. when you are the ONLY one giving and he is the ONLY one receiving .. well ............ there's your answer relationships are not 50/50.....sometimes they're 90/10 others others 70/30...... thats part of life and learning to make compramises together.........communication is the key. So I should tell him how I am feeling hinting it wont work...us guys are dolts that way and hiding it makes it worse.... |
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until it feels like an infringement on who you are. That line is different for all of us. i agree! Your T-shirt just came in... Keep Off The Azz! why am i being picked on |
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you should both be 'giving and receiving' .. when you are the ONLY one giving and he is the ONLY one receiving .. well ............ there's your answer relationships are not 50/50.....sometimes they're 90/10 others others 70/30...... thats part of life and learning to make compramises together.........communication is the key. So I should tell him how I am feeling hinting it wont work...us guys are dolts that way and hiding it makes it worse.... Oh, great I hate talking about my feelings face to face |
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Okay so I texted him that we need to talk tonight and he freaked.
"Are you breaking up with me?" "No, do you not want to be with me" "Of course I want to be with you" Maybe I shouldn't let Ray (good guy friend) mess with my head, idk, but now he is worried I am breaking up with him. |
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Oh.......the dreaded..........we need to talk talk!!! Of course you freaked him out!!!
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until it feels like an infringement on who you are. That line is different for all of us. i agree! Your T-shirt just came in... Keep Off The Azz! why am i being picked on Don't Tread on Me |
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Okay so I texted him that we need to talk tonight and he freaked. "Are you breaking up with me?" "No, do you not want to be with me" "Of course I want to be with you" Maybe I shouldn't let Ray (good guy friend) mess with my head, idk, but now he is worried I am breaking up with him. just b/c you texted him that you needed to talk, that wasn't a very good response by him. I don't know the whole situation, but you might want to consider taking a few steps back. |
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Never had the we need to talk talk via text b4 it was weird.
Question: A guy friend of mine "Ray" says that I am making "Rob's" guy I am seeing, life too easy. I watch hockey with him, but rarely watch races anymore (i like nascar races) I drive to see him, stuff like that right. So Ray says I am spoiling Rob and he does nothing for me. I was fine before Ray said anything, now I am think about it |
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the only thing I will say is....everyone thinks they are doing more than their partner at some point in a relationship.
and at that point , they very well may be. just make the talk positive......dont use "you" statements...this makes everyone defensive.. good luck!!! that will be $ 29.95 |
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the only thing I will say is....everyone thinks they are doing more than their partner at some point in a relationship. and at that point , they very well may be. just make the talk positive......dont use "you" statements...this makes everyone defensive.. good luck!!! that will be $ 29.95 Do you take visa |
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the only thing I will say is....everyone thinks they are doing more than their partner at some point in a relationship. and at that point , they very well may be. just make the talk positive......dont use "you" statements...this makes everyone defensive.. good luck!!! that will be $ 29.95 Do you take visa |
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thanks
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