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Topic: Compromise
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Thu 06/05/08 12:09 PM
OMG I SOUND LIKE MY MOTHER!!!noway

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Thu 06/05/08 12:10 PM

you should both be 'giving and receiving' .. when you are the ONLY one giving and he is the ONLY one receiving ..

well ............ there's your answer :wink:
noway he may feel he's giving in other ways that your not.....
relationships are not 50/50.....sometimes they're 90/10 others others 70/30......
thats part of life and learning to make compramises together.........communication is the key.

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Thu 06/05/08 12:10 PM
It's just that I feel like idk I care about him, but it's only been a month tomorrow

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Thu 06/05/08 12:11 PM


you should both be 'giving and receiving' .. when you are the ONLY one giving and he is the ONLY one receiving ..

well ............ there's your answer :wink:
noway he may feel he's giving in other ways that your not.....
relationships are not 50/50.....sometimes they're 90/10 others others 70/30......
thats part of life and learning to make compramises together.........communication is the key.


So I should tell him how I am feeling

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Thu 06/05/08 12:14 PM
He did go to my sister's open house. He has bought me flowers. And he has taken me to dinner a few times

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Thu 06/05/08 12:16 PM
Talk to him......like you would a friend......Ive heard that they CANT READ OUR MINDS!!!!noway laugh noway

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Thu 06/05/08 12:16 PM



you should both be 'giving and receiving' .. when you are the ONLY one giving and he is the ONLY one receiving ..

well ............ there's your answer :wink:
noway he may feel he's giving in other ways that your not.....
relationships are not 50/50.....sometimes they're 90/10 others others 70/30......
thats part of life and learning to make compramises together.........communication is the key.


So I should tell him how I am feeling
If youu care about them yes.....a feeling is like an opinion ,its yours .

hinting it wont work...us guys are dolts that way
and hiding it makes it worse....

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Thu 06/05/08 12:20 PM



until it feels like an infringement on who you are. That line is different for all of us. flowerforyou


i agree!
(((Tanya))) flowerforyou

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sad why am i being picked on sad

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Thu 06/05/08 12:20 PM




you should both be 'giving and receiving' .. when you are the ONLY one giving and he is the ONLY one receiving ..

well ............ there's your answer :wink:
noway he may feel he's giving in other ways that your not.....
relationships are not 50/50.....sometimes they're 90/10 others others 70/30......
thats part of life and learning to make compramises together.........communication is the key.


So I should tell him how I am feeling
If youu care about them yes.....a feeling is like an opinion ,its yours .

hinting it wont work...us guys are dolts that way
and hiding it makes it worse....


Oh, great I hate talking about my feelings face to face

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Thu 06/05/08 12:31 PM
Okay so I texted him that we need to talk tonight and he freaked.

"Are you breaking up with me?"

"No, do you not want to be with me"

"Of course I want to be with you"

Maybe I shouldn't let Ray (good guy friend) mess with my head, idk, but now he is worried I am breaking up with him.

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Thu 06/05/08 12:33 PM
Oh.......the dreaded..........we need to talk talk!!! Of course you freaked him out!!!noway laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 06/05/08 12:34 PM




until it feels like an infringement on who you are. That line is different for all of us. flowerforyou


i agree!
(((Tanya))) flowerforyou

Your T-shirt just came in...

smokin Keep Off The Azz! smokin


sad why am i being picked on sad
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Thu 06/05/08 12:34 PM

Okay so I texted him that we need to talk tonight and he freaked.

"Are you breaking up with me?"

"No, do you not want to be with me"

"Of course I want to be with you"

Maybe I shouldn't let Ray (good guy friend) mess with my head, idk, but now he is worried I am breaking up with him.


just b/c you texted him that you needed to talk, that wasn't a very good response by him.

I don't know the whole situation, but you might want to consider taking a few steps back.

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Thu 06/05/08 12:37 PM
Never had the we need to talk talk via text b4 it was weird.



Question:

A guy friend of mine "Ray" says that I am making "Rob's" guy I am seeing, life too easy. I watch hockey with him, but rarely watch races anymore (i like nascar races) I drive to see him, stuff like that right. So Ray says I am spoiling Rob and he does nothing for me. I was fine before Ray said anything, now I am think about it

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Thu 06/05/08 12:40 PM
the only thing I will say is....everyone thinks they are doing more than their partner at some point in a relationship.
and at that point , they very well may be.



just make the talk positive......dont use "you" statements...this makes everyone defensive..
good luck!!!


that will be $ 29.95bigsmile bigsmile laugh

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Thu 06/05/08 12:44 PM

the only thing I will say is....everyone thinks they are doing more than their partner at some point in a relationship.
and at that point , they very well may be.



just make the talk positive......dont use "you" statements...this makes everyone defensive..
good luck!!!


that will be $ 29.95bigsmile bigsmile laugh


Do you take visa

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Thu 06/05/08 12:46 PM


the only thing I will say is....everyone thinks they are doing more than their partner at some point in a relationship.
and at that point , they very well may be.



just make the talk positive......dont use "you" statements...this makes everyone defensive..
good luck!!!


that will be $ 29.95bigsmile bigsmile laugh


Do you take visa
your insurance covered it:tongue:

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Thu 06/05/08 01:01 PM
thanks

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