Holy sh*t.. I just really did hit mutual match and guess who came up???

How does that thing work anyway??

LOL It doesn't

When your name came up I hit YES.. did you get a message or something?

Can you tell I'm still a newbie?

Get over it and move on

LOL we are trying real hard to de-dramatize LOL

Nope...just an electrical impulse shooting down my halo HA!

Was it good for you?

But in all seriousness, Yamaha...if she went out with you even knowing you were not yet divorced, it wasn't that. It may have been some other reason and she just used that as the easiest out.

I don't date married men and not really ready to date yet. I would like to keep you in my friend list since you are so close and seem nice. If yo havn't entered into a serious relationship by time your divorce is final, I would like a ride on your chopper!

Oh yeah! HA!

I think the ladys conscience is talking to her. She feels it isn't right to date a man that is only seperated, and tried it. She obviously liked you but couldn't get over the seperation thing. I understand her delimna.
What if she fell for you and you and wifey got back together? You know? The question could come up about dating before a divorce is final. It could become a moral issue.

I don't see her as a bad lady. I see her trying not to get involved in something that could be problamatic. And liking you made it almost through her conscience.

Don't take it as if she was out to get to you. She dropped it before it could come to that.

Maybe try understanding where she is coming from?

Good luck to you sweets.

Kat

That is EXACTLY why I don't date married men!

I'm all for making friends! Cold beer on the lake, good live music, long bike rides, barbeques, threesomes... yea I'm ready for summer!!

u were good up 'til threesomes...good luck to ya

Had to make sure you were paying attention.

Confuscious say" "Attention is not always a good thang" <-------confuscious was Southern, ya know!

Did anyone ever consider that perhap's SHE was not single? Maybe some guilt was hitting her.

Good point. She told me she was tho. A woman wouldn't lie..... would she????

I'd still send an email with the subject line, "It's ok, I understand."

I would write a short message saying, "maybe our paths will cross again some day. Take care."

I would then start to look for someone else to date. Sorry about this but if another person isn't ready and doesn't want to talk things out well, it's over.

I didn't consider it. She mentioned him being only seperated. So, I figure it was that. If she was in a relationship...why would she be worried about that?

Kat