Topic: I just got stood up..
yamaharuss's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:09 PM
Holy sh*t.. I just really did hit mutual match and guess who came up???

How does that thing work anyway??

lilangel2's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:10 PM

Holy sh*t.. I just really did hit mutual match and guess who came up???

How does that thing work anyway??


LOL It doesn't bigsmile

yamaharuss's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:13 PM


Holy sh*t.. I just really did hit mutual match and guess who came up???

How does that thing work anyway??


LOL It doesn't bigsmile


When your name came up I hit YES.. did you get a message or something?

yamaharuss's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:14 PM
Can you tell I'm still a newbie?

glasses

no photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:15 PM
Get over it and move on

lilangel2's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:15 PM


For those of you who are wondering. I am not married or even attached in any way. I am also only looking for friends at this time. Sometimes I feel like I am in kindergarten here.



should I be wondering? what drama am I missing TODAY?

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LOL we are trying real hard to de-dramatize LOLbigsmile

lilangel2's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:17 PM



Holy sh*t.. I just really did hit mutual match and guess who came up???

How does that thing work anyway??


LOL It doesn't bigsmile


When your name came up I hit YES.. did you get a message or something?


Nope...just an electrical impulse shooting down my halo HA! bigsmile

yamaharuss's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:19 PM

Nope...just an electrical impulse shooting down my halo HA! bigsmile


Was it good for you? bigsmile

lilangel2's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:21 PM
But in all seriousness, Yamaha...if she went out with you even knowing you were not yet divorced, it wasn't that. It may have been some other reason and she just used that as the easiest out.

I don't date married men and not really ready to date yet. I would like to keep you in my friend list since you are so close and seem nice. If yo havn't entered into a serious relationship by time your divorce is final, I would like a ride on your chopper! bigsmile

lilangel2's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:22 PM


Nope...just an electrical impulse shooting down my halo HA! bigsmile


Was it good for you? bigsmile


Oh yeah! HA! :wink: bigsmile

scttrbrain's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:29 PM
I think the ladys conscience is talking to her. She feels it isn't right to date a man that is only seperated, and tried it. She obviously liked you but couldn't get over the seperation thing. I understand her delimna.
What if she fell for you and you and wifey got back together? You know? The question could come up about dating before a divorce is final. It could become a moral issue.

I don't see her as a bad lady. I see her trying not to get involved in something that could be problamatic. And liking you made it almost through her conscience.

Don't take it as if she was out to get to you. She dropped it before it could come to that.

Maybe try understanding where she is coming from?

Good luck to you sweets.

Kat

lilangel2's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:30 PM

I think the ladys conscience is talking to her. She feels it isn't right to date a man that is only seperated, and tried it. She obviously liked you but couldn't get over the seperation thing. I understand her delimna.
What if she fell for you and you and wifey got back together? You know? The question could come up about dating before a divorce is final. It could become a moral issue.

I don't see her as a bad lady. I see her trying not to get involved in something that could be problamatic. And liking you made it almost through her conscience.

Don't take it as if she was out to get to you. She dropped it before it could come to that.

Maybe try understanding where she is coming from?

Good luck to you sweets.

Kat

That is EXACTLY why I don't date married men! drinker

yamaharuss's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:31 PM

But in all seriousness, Yamaha...if she went out with you even knowing you were not yet divorced, it wasn't that. It may have been some other reason and she just used that as the easiest out.

I don't date married men and not really ready to date yet. I would like to keep you in my friend list since you are so close and seem nice. If yo havn't entered into a serious relationship by time your divorce is final, I would like a ride on your chopper! bigsmile


I'm all for making friends! Cold beer on the lake, good live music, long bike rides, barbeques, threesomes... yea I'm ready for summer!!

bigsmile

lilangel2's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:36 PM


But in all seriousness, Yamaha...if she went out with you even knowing you were not yet divorced, it wasn't that. It may have been some other reason and she just used that as the easiest out.

I don't date married men and not really ready to date yet. I would like to keep you in my friend list since you are so close and seem nice. If yo havn't entered into a serious relationship by time your divorce is final, I would like a ride on your chopper! bigsmile


I'm all for making friends! Cold beer on the lake, good live music, long bike rides, barbeques, threesomes... yea I'm ready for summer!!

bigsmile


u were good up 'til threesomes...good luck to ya drinker

yamaharuss's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:38 PM

u were good up 'til threesomes...good luck to ya drinker


Had to make sure you were paying attention. bigsmile

lilangel2's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:48 PM


u were good up 'til threesomes...good luck to ya drinker


Had to make sure you were paying attention. bigsmile


Confuscious say" "Attention is not always a good thang" <-------confuscious was Southern, ya know! :wink:

shoesmonkey's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:52 PM
Did anyone ever consider that perhap's SHE was not single? Maybe some guilt was hitting her.

yamaharuss's photo
Thu 06/05/08 01:04 PM

Did anyone ever consider that perhap's SHE was not single? Maybe some guilt was hitting her.


Good point. She told me she was tho. A woman wouldn't lie..... would she???? grumble

DestinysDream's photo
Thu 06/05/08 01:06 PM
I'd still send an email with the subject line, "It's ok, I understand."

I would write a short message saying, "maybe our paths will cross again some day. Take care."

I would then start to look for someone else to date. Sorry about this but if another person isn't ready and doesn't want to talk things out well, it's over. flowerforyou

scttrbrain's photo
Thu 06/05/08 01:06 PM
I didn't consider it. She mentioned him being only seperated. So, I figure it was that. If she was in a relationship...why would she be worried about that?

Kat