Topic: I just got stood up..
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Thu 06/05/08 11:26 AM

One thing that bugs me about it is that on her profile she lists separated as being acceptable.

About my date:

Relationships:

* Never Married,
* Widowed,
* Currently Separated,
* Divorced



Well, it sounds like she re-thought the separated thing. I'm sorry this happened to you. I already knew better than to get involved with someone separated based on experience. I'm sure you are a fine person, but I have to agree that one should get the deed done and give time to a new relationship. But, THAT'S JUST ME!! Best wishes to you!! flowerforyou

lilangel2's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:26 AM
Edited by lilangel2 on Thu 06/05/08 11:27 AM


I don't know. Why do you keep asking me?


Let's see... halfway is what? Bainbridge?? bigsmile


HIiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!!!! bigsmile

But, mY profile clearly states NO MARRIED MEN! :wink: Seperated=married...:9 too bad.

but, do you own a truck HA! bigsmile

no photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:26 AM
shes scared.

auburngirl's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:27 AM
I don't think she's scared. I think she liked you just fine, but the seperated thing is in the way. Why would she make another date if she didn't like you? And then wax and wane on weather or not go keep it?

cuppy59's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:28 AM
Maybe she was hurt before and wanted to take a chance, had second thoughts because her feelings were getting stronger and then just got scared...

Dont be so harsh...really...I would give my hip bone to date the man that I m whooing over and he is separated, but lives in another state...I was told by someone to beware of separation, it will only cause you grief...

I would like to try, at least, not every guy is a horn dog, I hope

No1sLove's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:28 AM
Edited by No1sLove on Thu 06/05/08 11:29 AM
Well, it sounds like you were the reason she discovered how she really feels about dating separated men. I wish it had happened differently for you and she had just made up her mind and not tried to reconsider. Were I you, I would either be flattered that she thought to override her own moral beliefs because she likes you so much, or feel put off by the fact that she is so easily swayed in her convictions. ohwell IMHO

poohbearface19's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:29 AM
thats suck i got stood up before but the ass never siad anyhting until a week later

yamaharuss's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:29 AM

How long HAVE you been seperated?


About six months. Working out some details with the home mortgage before we divorce by July.

yamaharuss's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:32 AM



I don't know. Why do you keep asking me?


Let's see... halfway is what? Bainbridge?? bigsmile


HIiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!!!! bigsmile

But, mY profile clearly states NO MARRIED MEN! :wink: Seperated=married...:9 too bad.

but, do you own a truck HA! bigsmile


Yep, and a really fast motorcycle. I could be in Colquitt by 4. glasses

lilangel2's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:33 AM




I don't know. Why do you keep asking me?


Let's see... halfway is what? Bainbridge?? bigsmile


HIiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!!!! bigsmile

But, mY profile clearly states NO MARRIED MEN! :wink: Seperated=married...:9 too bad.

but, do you own a truck HA! bigsmile


Yep, and a really fast motorcycle. I could be in Colquitt by 4. glasses


by 4 sick Let's not rush thangs...but, maybe friends until divorce is final. You like boating?

Killereyes23's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:33 AM
Pffft w/e to her man, she coulda just said from the start she didnt wanna go to lunch, you're better than that, keep up the good fight man.

yamaharuss's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:36 AM

by 4 sick Let's not rush thangs...but, maybe friends until divorce is final. You like boating?


I'm not asking for anything more. Hell yea I love boating. I'll even fish if you bait my hook for me. laugh

auburngirl's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:37 AM
ROFL Just to hop in a car and drive hours to someone you've never talked to before laugh laugh laugh

therooster's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:38 AM


How long HAVE you been seperated?


About six months. Working out some details with the home mortgage before we divorce by July.


noway And this is your ____th marriage?????? noway

lilangel2's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:39 AM


by 4 sick Let's not rush thangs...but, maybe friends until divorce is final. You like boating?


I'm not asking for anything more. Hell yea I love boating. I'll even fish if you bait my hook for me. laugh


ima good baiter bigsmile

lilangel2's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:39 AM
Edited by lilangel2 on Thu 06/05/08 11:41 AM

ROFL Just to hop in a car and drive hours to someone you've never talked to before laugh laugh laugh


Yeah...hmmmmm? Help me screen him girly! bigsmile

but he is not hours...more like 1 hr at most!

auburngirl's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:40 AM


ROFL Just to hop in a car and drive hours to someone you've never talked to before laugh laugh laugh


Yeah...hmmmmm? Help me screen him girly! bigsmile


No worries Twin, I got your back laugh

yamaharuss's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:41 AM

noway And this is your ____th marriage?????? noway


Make that ___st

My first and what I thought would be my only. 16 years into it she decides to go.

lilangel2's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:43 AM
i luv motorcycles:smile:

auburngirl's photo
Thu 06/05/08 11:45 AM
Twin, dare I remind you in one word that starts with a P and ends in a Y and is NOT what some might be thinking???? laugh laugh laugh laugh