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I went on a date saturday with this guy i meet a weeke ago.well we had a
very good time.well he says to me he wants to take this to the next stage and start dating and see what happends.heres the question what exactly does that mean like b/f g/f status or can we still date others.Im just confused cause i never heard that on a first date before.Any advice u could give me would be much appreciated. |
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well ok he might like you as a gf and wants to see if you and him could
be a friend or gr its normal dont worrie if you dont like hime more than a friend say iam not ready you went to fast and also he might like being woth cuz the frist date says all about a person and maybe he as a thing for you so its really up to you |
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If he likes you he should wait a little longer than the first date to
say the words "next Level"..But on the other hand I have been there.. I have met someone I liked so much off the batt... But really, how much do you know about someone on the first date... He probably just want s to get laid.. I can say this from experience because I have been that guy.. maybe I am saying too much but I am just tryin g to be helpful>> WILL LIGHT UP LIGHT UP AS IF YOU HAD A CHOICE.. |
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I would be leary of someone who is willing to jump into a relationship
after the first date. To be on the safe side I would just ask him out right. When in doubt ask don't assume things. If you have questions and you don't ask them it will automatically create tention in your relationship no matter what the level is. Then when you get an answer be honest about how you feel. Don't put on airs that you are ready for something more if your not because that is not fair to the other persons feelings. |
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I would not really concern myself with the "status" of things just yet
as it was only one date, You might have a 2nd date and want to call it quits. Take it as it comes as these things work themselves out on their own. My saying is you have no control over certain things so why beat your head against the wall trying to figure something out. |
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To me, he is moving way to fast. You are the one in control..and if you
are not sure what he means, ask! How did you feel about him is the big question? Honestly, you really can't figure out a person on the first date..I think Will might be right, this guy is just trying to get into your panties. You be the one in control and don't give him that right, ask him what exactly does he mean by his statements...and then kind of go with the flow and if you don't like where things are going....then you just say, hey this is not working out for me!! |
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