Topic: I need some advice
brandie986969's photo
Mon 09/11/06 10:02 AM
I went on a date saturday with this guy i meet a weeke ago.well we had a
very good time.well he says to me he wants to take this to the next
stage and start dating and see what happends.heres the question what
exactly does that mean like b/f g/f status or can we still date
others.Im just confused cause i never heard that on a first date
before.Any advice u could give me would be much appreciated.

hosstin18's photo
Mon 09/11/06 10:06 AM
well ok he might like you as a gf and wants to see if you and him could
be a friend or gr its normal dont worrie if you dont like hime more than
a friend say iam not ready you went to fast and also he might like being
woth cuz the frist date says all about a person and maybe he as a thing
for you so its really up to you

no photo
Mon 09/11/06 10:07 AM
If he likes you he should wait a little longer than the first date to
say the words "next Level"..But on the other hand I have been there.. I
have met someone I liked so much off the batt... But really, how much do
you know about someone on the first date... He probably just want s to
get laid.. I can say this from experience because I have been that guy..
maybe I am saying too much but I am just tryin g to be helpful>> WILL
LIGHT UP LIGHT UP AS IF YOU HAD A CHOICE..

soul's photo
Mon 09/11/06 10:36 AM
I would be leary of someone who is willing to jump into a relationship
after the first date. To be on the safe side I would just ask him out
right. When in doubt ask don't assume things. If you have questions and
you don't ask them it will automatically create tention in your
relationship no matter what the level is. Then when you get an answer be
honest about how you feel. Don't put on airs that you are ready for
something more if your not because that is not fair to the other persons
feelings.

ShagnaC's photo
Mon 09/11/06 10:40 AM
I would not really concern myself with the "status" of things just yet
as it was only one date, You might have a 2nd date and want to call it
quits. Take it as it comes as these things work themselves out on their
own. My saying is you have no control over certain things so why beat
your head against the wall trying to figure something out.

unsure's photo
Mon 09/11/06 10:59 AM
To me, he is moving way to fast. You are the one in control..and if you
are not sure what he means, ask! How did you feel about him is the big
question? Honestly, you really can't figure out a person on the first
date..I think Will might be right, this guy is just trying to get into
your panties. You be the one in control and don't give him that right,
ask him what exactly does he mean by his statements...and then kind of
go with the flow and if you don't like where things are going....then
you just say, hey this is not working out for me!!