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I never said I was the center of anyone's universe...lol. I'm not even the center of MINE, my family and friends are. I have learned to make myself a more important part of my universe though. I can only say that all that stuff in the past is the past and move on. MOST people on here were always nice to me anyway. There were just a select few that I went off on.
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And I'm glad you're getting healthy in mind, body, and spirit. That's all I can ask and all that I can wish for! Yay for jayme! I'm happy! Cheladas and pizza on me! Buuuuurrrppp!
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I just redid my profile and I want to know if it comes off too strong or just right. I'm fully open to suggestions.  Instead of writng your life story leave some mystery, thats too much..And guys dont even read all that 
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If you care so much about others would you like me to bring back all your wonderful thread comments like "I don't care what any of you think". Or "You people mean nothing to me and I could give a sh!t less about your opinions". Or how about "You people are just here to amuse me and I don't care what you think". Yeah, you're so sweet and caring. Candy coat your profile. That will help. Oh! you're THAT Jamie!! You made yourself a drama queen in the forums. Changing your name and what your "write" about yourself changes nothing! I think we all know you. You need to go on a hike or camp out and really think "what do I want". On the other hand, you're no more mixed up than most 23 yr olds, with the pregnancy scares,etc. Respect yourself and you will be more confident. Be kind when you write. 
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Edited by
JaymeStephens84a0lc
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Thu 06/05/08 05:11 AM
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Oh! you're THAT Jamie!! You made yourself a drama queen in the forums. Changing your name and what your "write" about yourself changes nothing! I think we all know you. You need to go on a hike or camp out and really think "what do I want". On the other hand, you're no more mixed up than most 23 yr olds, with the pregnancy scares,etc. Respect yourself and you will be more confident. Be kind when you write. I didn't change my screen name for one...lol. One more time: I was severely depressed for a while and vented online instead of to my friends and family. If people are going to hold the past against me thats their problem, I've moved on. I also beg to differ with the mixed up part. I've always known who I am and what I want out of life. I'm one of few who actually thinks before I act. And no, you all do not know me. You know my depression, which I've worked myself OUT of very successfully. I really hate how people refer to it as a "scare"...lol, cus I never once was 'scared'. I was actually hopeful at that time. Until any of you have walked a mile in my shoes, you know absolutely nothing about me unless I ever choose to disclose. I'm a very open person, and you may eventually get to know me. However, I will not try to let anyone know me who is already assuming negative thoughts about me. Its pointless. |
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And I'm glad you're getting healthy in mind, body, and spirit. That's all I can ask and all that I can wish for! Yay for jayme! I'm happy! Cheladas and pizza on me! Buuuuurrrppp! lol, none for me thanks. Pizza is soooo bad for you 
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I do have to wonder why it is when a woman knows what she wants and says it she's a b!tch, or picky, or somethin negative. When a guy knows what he wants he's "ambitious". give me a break with all that. guys on dating sites all considered sex offenders until proven otherwise so dont tell me anything about double standards. your profile comes on way too strong. youre mapping out too much of a niche and emphasizing commitments like marriage too much. the same way you feel repulsed when a guy you barely know says he wants sex is the same way guys feel when you start talking about marriage too soon. its just icky and kind of scary. this isnt a fear of commitment thing on a guys part. its a fear of some potentially psycho chick being too needy around him when they meet. less is definitely more in this case. excellent comparison ... great post !! |
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The only thing I see is you might want to consider a plan to quit smoking.
I think its cool that you are kinda picky, and you are after things that will make you happy. Good luck and God speed. 
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Edited by
JaymeStephens84a0lc
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Thu 06/05/08 06:41 AM
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The only thing I see is you might want to consider a plan to quit smoking. I think its cool that you are kinda picky, and you are after things that will make you happy. Good luck and God speed. Thank you :) I do plan to quit once I get back to arkansas soon. My "quit date" is July 1st. I know bein as unhappy in this town in Illinois as I am I wouldn't be able to successfully quit, but I'm happy in arkansas and will have lots of support. I love your screenname by the way, its the name of one of my favorite songs 
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I don't know. Why do you keep asking me?
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