If you care so much about others would you like me to bring back all your wonderful thread comments like "I don't care what any of you think". Or "You people mean nothing to me and I could give a sh!t less about your opinions". Or how about "You people are just here to amuse me and I don't care what you think". Of course this is after you ask for advice. Yeah, you're so sweet and caring. Candy coat your profile. That will help.

Not caring what others think about me personally has nothing to do with how much I care about people in general. I always help anyone that I can, no questions asked. I really am the sweetest person you'll ever meet, I also pull no punches.

Lets also note that I've not asked anything on here in MONTHS, except for prayers for my close friend's preemie daughter. I'm really hoping this can be light hearted, b/c I didn't post this for someone with preconceived notions about me to come and insult me.

As I said, god bless you, hope you find what you're looking for. Just for the love of god no more pregnancy scare and trapping men into a relationship drama threads please! I beg you!

you said you were open to suggestions. i gave you probably the most honest and bull**** free assesment of your profile and all youve done is insist that nothing is wrong with it.

psycho.

I wasn't talkin to ya there....lol. Psycho I am not, farthest from it you'll ever meet.

1. I never tried to trap ANY man into ANYTHING. EVER. In my LIFE.

2. If and when I ever get pregnant it'll be up to me.

3. I am always the one to get the psychos in relationships. I can honestly say not one of my exes could accuse me of being anything but good to them. I'm never clingy, dramatic, or needy. I always get the GUYS that are like that...lol.

I have a question for you, LongHair:
Why is it every time I post something you have to come up and try and make sure everyone thinks I'm some horrid person? I'm a very good person with a good heart. I somehow think you see my name and attack. Its sad and hurtful. I don't do that to people, so how on earth can YOU call ME the bad person when you're the one who does that to ME?

I really don't get how you people read so much into posts. Everything I say is in lightheartedness. I take nothing of it seriously. I am fully insulted and a little hurt that people jump to conclusions simply because I don't agree with them. I've been VERY clam, and very undramatic. I haven't the slightest idea as to why I'm being insulted.

You're the greatest person on here jayme. You're the prettiest person on here jayme. You have never did anything wrong jayme. You're the most wonderful caring person on here jayme. You're the most loving person on here jayme. You're the most sharing person on here jayme. You're the most kindest gentlest person on here jayme. You've made the most freinds on here jayme. Everyone loves you jayme. You're absolutely positively the greatest and best!

People who really do know me, actually tell me those things. I do have to wonder why you're so bitter. I know you meant that all in bitterness and hatefulness. I really am the most loving person most people will ever encounter, I really am the most gentle person you'll ever meet, and I really am the most sharing and giving person anyone could ever meet. I am confident in those traits. I have a good handful of great friends and family who DO love me very much, all of whom I'd die for in an instant. Haha, don't know about the prettiest, but some people think so.

Aren't you the one that claimed some guy came up to you in the mall parking lot and he gave you a Dodge Stratus?

Good luck to you... you can take the horse out of the stable. . . . . .

And I'm sorry that I'm a creepy ugly old man. And that you don't give a crap about my opinion or any one elses. That's what you told me oh about 6 months ago. Have a nice life.

He OFFERED that and a lot of other things, yes. I declined after careful consideration.

I believe that I told you at one point that if I were older I'd so date you, but that you were a little out of my age range.

AAAAAH, now the reason you hate me makes sense

Let me clear something up about me that other's who've seen me on here before aren't aware of. For several months I was very, VERY depressed and suicidal. I never voiced ANYTHING to anyone around me and held it all in. I let out my pain and frustrations online so that I didn't have to worry about anyone I loved getting mad or leaving. I'm taking care of myself now though, I feel 100% better. I refuse to let any of you bring up things that I did while severely depressed and let it bother me. I'm in a good place in my life finally. I still am not one to care what others think of me NOW, but I do know that I left a sour taste in people's mouths on here then. Longhair, if I ever said or did ANYTHING to hurt your feelings, please accept my apology. I don't remember doing anything, but none the less, if I did I apologise. You really are a good lookin man, you're just too old for ME personally. That doesn't mean I think you're old, that just means my father was very young when I was born. I won't date anyone less than 6 years younger then he'd be if he were still alive.

I don't hate you jayme. Once again you got me wrong. I love everybody. And I have an open mind. Everyone sees things and hears things differently. And I can respect that. We all control our own destiny. Some people take that seriously. Some people fly by the seats of their pants.

fill me in on the topic please

Haha, I STILL will always be someone who flies by the seat of my pants. Thats just who I am and how I operate. Its more fun with a clear head and healthy body though. The times I went off on here, were the days I was feeling the most depressed and useless. I have a food addiction, just like any addiction it can make a person feel horrible about themselves. I let it get ahold of me again after years of handling it with care and had gained some weight. I felt awful about who I was and where I'd let myself get to. I'm now working out regularly again, everyday twice a day, and eating immaculately healthy again. I feel good. I like me. I've gotten back into the size where I feel wonderful in my skin. I know most people don't let food and weight effect them that much, but its an issue for me. An issue I am handling very well if I do say so myself.

HAHAHAHA!!! Must not've come off too strong, cus I already got a few interested emails

Yep, thats right fellas, you gotta be strong enough to be my man!

I just want the very best for jayme. I want her to be healthy and safe as everyone else. Its not about the past or present feelings jayme. Its the contradictions. Do you realize when you get on here and start any thread asking for opinions and people give you opinions and advice and you downplay them, argue with them, tell them you don't care what they think, and insult them that they are going to be happy and be your freinds? You're not the only human being on here. Those people that you have insulted are human beings too with lives, and families, and feelings. You've upset so many and used us for your own personal playtoys that word got around. You've labeled yourself and that's not healthy. And now you're going to spend a lot of your valuable time defending yourself for your past actions and chosen words. You reap what you sow. You did this to yourself. Simple 8th grade physics. For every action there's a reaction. My advice? Don't paint a target on your head and you won't get fired upon. Get to know the people in the forums and their feelings before you insult them. You are not the center of the universe. There's other humans here.