Topic: Do MEN need to be tamed
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Mon 09/11/06 06:06 AM
What is more important acceptance of your love as is or should they show
their love by changing for you...??? WILL

unsure's photo
Mon 09/11/06 06:12 AM
If you fell in love with a man the way he is...why would you want him to
change? Now if he is not tamed...thats a good thing...just so he is only
wild for you---if he is a dog and is wild for all of the women--get rid
of him :)

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Mon 09/11/06 11:52 AM
nobody needs to be tamed. maybe that's why we have all these fucked up
people out here. what kind of moron gets into a relationship with
someone they can't stand thinking, oh well i'll just change them. i
think that is where all these bitchy ass crybabies come from. you know
the ironic thing about those situations is that the person wanting you
to change usually gets fucked over the most, it's just too bad they want
to blame that on you to...waaaahh, i don't know how to act like a grown
up lol

lionsbrew's photo
Mon 09/11/06 02:27 PM
i dont need to be tamed im a decent guy,but what i want is a woman whos
sees me for i am and how i have the potential to be and wants to help me
make the changes i would need to make to see my goals come to fruition
and vice versa ,im not afraid of change people change their whole lives
when i stop changing and growing and learning itll be time for me to go

stephanie25's photo
Mon 09/11/06 02:35 PM
if you really like a man you should NOT have to tame him, you should
like someone for who they are!!

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Mon 09/11/06 03:09 PM
amen !!

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Mon 09/11/06 11:35 PM
I don't fall for guys that need to be tamed. That is a turn off for me,
I would rather have a guy that is nice and kind of dorky. No harleys
here.

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Tue 09/12/06 12:34 AM
if you might be interested in a guy that needs to be tamed, I say to
hell with it and let someone else do the work..let's face it, the only
time a woman successfully changes a man is when she changes his diapers
as a baby ;-)

Countrygurl2wild's photo
Tue 09/12/06 12:52 AM
I agree with Animal 100%

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Tue 09/12/06 06:06 AM
that has always been the thing that i don't understand though. if you
are attracted to him/her in the first place why would you want him/her
to change while you are in a serious relationship, the relationship
won't work in the first place and if you try to change them it'll get
worse. i was with this girl once back when i used to party alot and she
knew what i was like but wanted a relationship anyways. never said
anything about it at all then all of a sudden she wanted me to cool out
a little so i did(because i loved her),then she wanted me to quit
completely and so i did(because i loved her)but it never made a
difference because no matter what i changed or didn't change she was
never happy and i think that is common among most people that always try
to change the person that they are dating. if you aren't satisfied with
who they are as a person in the first place, be friends or leave.

MynDLash's photo
Tue 09/12/06 07:27 AM
caaaapop! not only men but women also need to be tamed at times. NOT
CHANGED, TAMED! LOL.

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Tue 09/12/06 07:58 AM
tamed for what though, if they don't want to change it's gonna make both
of your lives miserable. i only did it because it didn't seem like a big
deal and figured it was a small price to pay for her to be happy but
when she saw that i would do that for her, she changed and thought that
i would satisfy any request she had. it caused alot of problems for us.

MynDLash's photo
Tue 09/12/06 08:08 AM
I know u can't change people but train them. train them "how" to please
u and make u happy. TALK and have fun together thats what makes a
relationship work not the changes u would make for someone because "of"
love but just as u did for love. And it's her lost anyway, bet she don't
have anyone better and if so she's probally still trying to change them.
U CAN'T MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY, done tried that one.lol

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Tue 09/12/06 03:17 PM

Wild is used for to many action in a relationship. I like wild untamed
passion but if they are wild as in needing to grow or stay at home then
I just do not want them around. There is no changing me as I will not
bend to what others think or say. I hope a woman would not try to please
me and settle for me. This is a big problem people thinking they must
have a husband or wife. Well off topic. I am not into partying and
clubbing. Not to say I do not get wild when I go to concerts like
Ozzfest or this up coming Motley crue/Aerosmith that I hope to get to go
to.

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Tue 09/12/06 04:57 PM
Men do not need to be tamed. Sometimes i need to be curved in the right
direction, but not changed. I dated a guy once that drove me crazy, we
ended up breaking up, after words we became friends and I realized that
many of the things I liked the most about him were the things that drove
me the craziest, when directed at me.