Topic: It was today
JTstrang's photo
Wed 06/04/08 08:21 AM
Today would have been another wedding anniversary. I feel like I have to get away for the day so I am taking some free twins tickets I got and leaving iowa for a bit so I am not around the reminders. I maybe broke but I think I need this for the shards of sanity that I have left. I guess I want to know what others think, is this a good idea? or should I force myself to indulge in the pain and face it head on? What do you do when it comes to events like this.

JT

Winx's photo
Wed 06/04/08 08:22 AM
flowerforyou

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Wed 06/04/08 08:22 AM
go ahead and run from it for awhile, no big deal. But don't run from it forever.

flame1cutie's photo
Wed 06/04/08 08:23 AM
Do what you have to do today. It will get better honestflowerforyou

DQ66's photo
Wed 06/04/08 08:23 AM
Take a break and have some fun. flowerforyou

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Wed 06/04/08 08:31 AM

Today would have been another wedding anniversary. I feel like I have to get away for the day so I am taking some free twins tickets I got and leaving iowa for a bit so I am not around the reminders. I maybe broke but I think I need this for the shards of sanity that I have left. I guess I want to know what others think, is this a good idea? or should I force myself to indulge in the pain and face it head on? What do you do when it comes to events like this.

JT
Last anniversary from 1st marriage of 13 years was in April. I just recall the good stuff and wonder where the time went. Second marriage, I can't even recall the exact date, the marriage was so wrong and so brief, and I thank God I've been saved from it.

mainelyme's photo
Wed 06/04/08 08:31 AM
Do what you have to do to keep yourself sane. You'll face it when you're ready. It's up to you to know when that is, nobody else can decide for you. Best of luck and I hope that things get better for you soon.


rainysky39's photo
Wed 06/04/08 08:32 AM
To be totally honest..I party on my supposed anniversary...even party on my anniversary of my divorce too. happy

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Wed 06/04/08 08:33 AM


Today would have been another wedding anniversary. I feel like I have to get away for the day so I am taking some free twins tickets I got and leaving iowa for a bit so I am not around the reminders. I maybe broke but I think I need this for the shards of sanity that I have left. I guess I want to know what others think, is this a good idea? or should I force myself to indulge in the pain and face it head on? What do you do when it comes to events like this.

JT
Last anniversary from 1st marriage of 13 years was in April. I just recall the good stuff and wonder where the time went. Second marriage, I can't even recall the exact date, the marriage was so wrong and so brief, and I thank God I've been saved from it.
I think we are walking in the same exact shoes..My first marriage was a 13 yr too.

Lily0923's photo
Wed 06/04/08 08:35 AM
flowerforyou do what you gotta do.

I always THINK about sending my ex a card on ours, we had alot of good times, and ended well... he's a good guy, I hope however he finds someone soon... My grocery bill is outrageous when he's lonely...laugh laugh laugh laugh