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Topic: F-W-B
smuckdaddy's photo
Tue 06/03/08 09:51 AM
Yeah so I figured I'd start a debate about friens with benifits. Is it good? Is it bad? Is it smart? Is it stupid? Why? Why not?

state your opinions. see what others say. debatewith them.

MYheartACHES4u's photo
Tue 06/03/08 09:54 AM
good as long as you don't let emotions get involved

smuckdaddy's photo
Tue 06/03/08 09:54 AM
Personally I think it's stupid. It's like saying yeah want a relationship with you but then I don't. If you want someone then you should be with them fully and stand with that person and if you don't, find someone that you do want to devote to.

ljcc1964's photo
Tue 06/03/08 09:56 AM
NEVER A GOOD IDEA!

MYheartACHES4u's photo
Tue 06/03/08 09:57 AM
some people you are just sexually attracted too but know it would not work in a relationship like i said......if emotions are left out things would be fine

smuckdaddy's photo
Tue 06/03/08 09:58 AM
if there is attraction but nothing lse why would you want to waste your time?

DQ66's photo
Tue 06/03/08 09:59 AM

some people you are just sexually attracted too but know it would not work in a relationship like i said......if emotions are left out things would be fine


Woman generally bond when having sex. It's a hormone thing. So, no, don't think it'd be a good idea.....huh

MYheartACHES4u's photo
Tue 06/03/08 10:01 AM

if there is attraction but nothing lse why would you want to waste your time?



why is having sex with someone you trust wasting your time when you could just be out having random sex with strangers........sometimes friends just feel comfortable with friends.......doesn't mean if something comes along you can't go after it

Single_Rob's photo
Tue 06/03/08 10:04 AM
you cannot keep emotions out of a sexual raltionship. one or the other will get attatched, and it will end badly

itsmetina's photo
Tue 06/03/08 10:04 AM
whatever floats your boat

Sassier2u's photo
Tue 06/03/08 10:08 AM


some people you are just sexually attracted too but know it would not work in a relationship like i said......if emotions are left out things would be fine


Woman generally bond when having sex. It's a hormone thing. So, no, don't think it'd be a good idea.....huh
Sorry that is not always true sometime SEX is just that Sex

no photo
Tue 06/03/08 10:10 AM
Edited by SKPCG on Tue 06/03/08 10:10 AM



some people you are just sexually attracted too but know it would not work in a relationship like i said......if emotions are left out things would be fine


Woman generally bond when having sex. It's a hormone thing. So, no, don't think it'd be a good idea.....huh
Sorry that is not always true sometime SEX is just that Sex

I'm with Sassy here!! That was my MO back in the day. I didn't want ANY attachments. But, I simply chose not to bother with it at all anymore as it was meaningless to me. flowerforyou

Single_Rob's photo
Tue 06/03/08 10:12 AM



some people you are just sexually attracted too but know it would not work in a relationship like i said......if emotions are left out things would be fine


Woman generally bond when having sex. It's a hormone thing. So, no, don't think it'd be a good idea.....huh
Sorry that is not always true sometime SEX is just that Sex
never has been for me. I have to have an emotional relationship with a person I have sex with. I guess that makes me feminine

MYheartACHES4u's photo
Tue 06/03/08 10:12 AM
sometimes people just need to get theres and it is safer with someone you know then someone you meet in a bar......

hunky62's photo
Tue 06/03/08 10:12 AM

whatever floats your boat


my boat is pretty big...how deep is your lagoon???

smuckdaddy's photo
Tue 06/03/08 10:12 AM


if there is attraction but nothing lse why would you want to waste your time?



why is having sex with someone you trust wasting your time when you could just be out having random sex with strangers........sometimes friends just feel comfortable with friends.......doesn't mean if something comes along you can't go after it


If you do do that one person will end up liking the other person more and grow feelings for the other. From hearing things from friends and seeing riends go through this stuff, it has never worked out. Even if the other doesn't mention it, it still happens and I just feel that you should be in a relationship with someone if you are going to have sex wi them.

If it's friends with benifets, often times when the other does get into a relationaship, it gets weird between the 2 friends.

itsmetina's photo
Tue 06/03/08 10:14 AM


whatever floats your boat


my boat is pretty big...how deep is your lagoon???
ITS HARD TO GET INTO

Single_Rob's photo
Tue 06/03/08 10:15 AM



whatever floats your boat


my boat is pretty big...how deep is your lagoon???
ITS HARD TO GET INTO
hmmm, oh yeah? I have a shoe horn laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

MYheartACHES4u's photo
Tue 06/03/08 10:17 AM



if there is attraction but nothing lse why would you want to waste your time?



why is having sex with someone you trust wasting your time when you could just be out having random sex with strangers........sometimes friends just feel comfortable with friends.......doesn't mean if something comes along you can't go after it


If you do do that one person will end up liking the other person more and grow feelings for the other. From hearing things from friends and seeing riends go through this stuff, it has never worked out. Even if the other doesn't mention it, it still happens and I just feel that you should be in a relationship with someone if you are going to have sex wi them.

If it's friends with benifets, often times when the other does get into a relationaship, it gets weird between the 2 friends.



i've had sex with almost all of my girl friends and shared a girl with most of my male friends.......sex can just be sex....

itsmetina's photo
Tue 06/03/08 10:17 AM
Edited by itsmetina on Tue 06/03/08 10:17 AM




whatever floats your boat


my boat is pretty big...how deep is your lagoon???
ITS HARD TO GET INTO
hmmm, oh yeah? I have a shoe horn laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
I BET IN THERE ROOM FOR 2 IN YOU TUB

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