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Yeah so I figured I'd start a debate about friens with benifits. Is it good? Is it bad? Is it smart? Is it stupid? Why? Why not?
state your opinions. see what others say. debatewith them. |
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good as long as you don't let emotions get involved
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Personally I think it's stupid. It's like saying yeah want a relationship with you but then I don't. If you want someone then you should be with them fully and stand with that person and if you don't, find someone that you do want to devote to.
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NEVER A GOOD IDEA!
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some people you are just sexually attracted too but know it would not work in a relationship like i said......if emotions are left out things would be fine
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if there is attraction but nothing lse why would you want to waste your time?
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some people you are just sexually attracted too but know it would not work in a relationship like i said......if emotions are left out things would be fine Woman generally bond when having sex. It's a hormone thing. So, no, don't think it'd be a good idea..... 
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if there is attraction but nothing lse why would you want to waste your time? why is having sex with someone you trust wasting your time when you could just be out having random sex with strangers........sometimes friends just feel comfortable with friends.......doesn't mean if something comes along you can't go after it |
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you cannot keep emotions out of a sexual raltionship. one or the other will get attatched, and it will end badly
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whatever floats your boat
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some people you are just sexually attracted too but know it would not work in a relationship like i said......if emotions are left out things would be fine Woman generally bond when having sex. It's a hormone thing. So, no, don't think it'd be a good idea.....
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Edited by
SKPCG
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Tue 06/03/08 10:10 AM
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some people you are just sexually attracted too but know it would not work in a relationship like i said......if emotions are left out things would be fine Woman generally bond when having sex. It's a hormone thing. So, no, don't think it'd be a good idea.....
I'm with Sassy here!! That was my MO back in the day. I didn't want ANY attachments. But, I simply chose not to bother with it at all anymore as it was meaningless to me. 
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some people you are just sexually attracted too but know it would not work in a relationship like i said......if emotions are left out things would be fine Woman generally bond when having sex. It's a hormone thing. So, no, don't think it'd be a good idea.....
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sometimes people just need to get theres and it is safer with someone you know then someone you meet in a bar......
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whatever floats your boat my boat is pretty big...how deep is your lagoon??? |
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if there is attraction but nothing lse why would you want to waste your time? why is having sex with someone you trust wasting your time when you could just be out having random sex with strangers........sometimes friends just feel comfortable with friends.......doesn't mean if something comes along you can't go after it If you do do that one person will end up liking the other person more and grow feelings for the other. From hearing things from friends and seeing riends go through this stuff, it has never worked out. Even if the other doesn't mention it, it still happens and I just feel that you should be in a relationship with someone if you are going to have sex wi them. If it's friends with benifets, often times when the other does get into a relationaship, it gets weird between the 2 friends. |
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whatever floats your boat my boat is pretty big...how deep is your lagoon??? |
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whatever floats your boat my boat is pretty big...how deep is your lagoon??? 
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if there is attraction but nothing lse why would you want to waste your time? why is having sex with someone you trust wasting your time when you could just be out having random sex with strangers........sometimes friends just feel comfortable with friends.......doesn't mean if something comes along you can't go after it If you do do that one person will end up liking the other person more and grow feelings for the other. From hearing things from friends and seeing riends go through this stuff, it has never worked out. Even if the other doesn't mention it, it still happens and I just feel that you should be in a relationship with someone if you are going to have sex wi them. If it's friends with benifets, often times when the other does get into a relationaship, it gets weird between the 2 friends. i've had sex with almost all of my girl friends and shared a girl with most of my male friends.......sex can just be sex.... |
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Edited by
itsmetina
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Tue 06/03/08 10:17 AM
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whatever floats your boat my boat is pretty big...how deep is your lagoon???
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