Theres this guy that i've been talking to...thing is he lives a couple states over...and he said that he wanted me to come out for 4th of july....and that he'll send me a plane ticket for me to come out. and i've had guys tell me things like that and nothing ever happens...

we talked...well I talked about how i'm kinda nervous about it cuz i've had guys tell me stuff and never follow up on it. and i really like this one.He told me that he plans to have me around as a friend if nothing more for a long time..and that makes me happy...but theres some things that i know we'll have to work out if things get more serious. but senice then we havent really talked. i know hes got time off from work and hes spending time with his family. and he gets next to no cell service at his moms house.. but when he does txt they arent the normal ones...

and i dont know what to do....

I'm confused.

what confuses u maybe i can word something diffrent

Well, considering you still have another month to go, I'd wait it out and see what happens. You should be able to see if things are progressing any further by then.

From my experience, boys say alot of things, don't take any of it seriously, unless you want your heart broken a thousand times a day. Until he puts up, assume he's not serious.

Doesn't mean he can't be your friend, but don't get all "girly" about him, til he proves himself, unfortunatly, ALOT of boys ruin it for the REAL MEN.

I know he said he doesnt know how far we will go untill we get to spend more time face to face. cuz we only got like 3 minutes the last time he was driving thru town.


and he's held up his end almost every time. always calling when he says he will and stuff..

I would say drink it over ooops I mean think it over.

Maybe he just has money to spend and wants some company.

My first thought was that he's looking for a warm body to lay that weekend and he's not having much luck with local women, but maybe it's that he's not having any luck with local women in terms of dating in general and he's trying to secure himself a date for the weekend.

My advice...if you like him then agree to it, but don't sit there with hopes high on the ticket if you have had guys never follow up in the past. Maybe he'll surprise you and you get a romantic weekend. Maybe he won't and at least you didn't put a lot of emotional stock in this.

Yeah do that thing women do... "Aah, you are sooooooo sweet, but the closest you are going to get to me is standing on the other side of that there fu$king door!" You know...

i guess i should wait n see if i get the cd he said he's gonna send me this weekend...then go from there.

I'm not like that.... but do i know ppl like that...yeppp

But you have to admit... It sounded good though didn't it

Last time you had a man you were saying similar and it transpired you already have a boy friend and you didn't know which to choose
Is this similar
If so let us know.

Never believe 75% of the things youre told on here

Nope...I'm single..sadly...mainly cuz of distance..and stupid things ppl do...

this is a guy that i REALLLLY like....and dont know how to deal with his reaction to me wanting to know what exactly he thinks might happen with us....cuz he's not being himself...

it wasnt some1 i met on here...he's never even heard of this site...we met randomly in public and got to talking...exchanged numbers and stuff

oooh ok thats different then . but still watch yourself for smooth talkers

Generalization and exaggeration are very common on this site I think is what you are trying to say
Please You know better. At least I never told you 75% untruth?

yeah i know that...but i dont think he's one...idk...maybe its my youth or something. but i like to see the good in everyone

Thats good