Topic: do you believe?
Max_Darkling's photo
Mon 06/02/08 10:23 AM
I think you should try to find someone who is a man. And can speak his mind without beer

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Mon 06/02/08 10:23 AM



the first....he got emotional because of drinking...but in drinking...generally the truth comes out. He prolly does feel that way about you...but you were prolly stunned acting and it made him feel upset and outta place so he decided he should tell you that he slipped and didn't mean it because he didn't get the reaction he was looking for or wanted.You broke his heart in short. But he doesn't want to look stupid er anything...and this is why he retracted the comment.If you woulda been happy about it...he would be still making love comments....pretty sure.

Just a note.....I think you should give the guy the chance...just fer the record.You might be shocked at how it goes..Hope this helps. Best of luck.


so instead of ignoring all the "I love yous" I should tell him how i feel? lol but what if he didn't mean it? do i get to kick ya?


LOL....Sure.You can kick me. I really think he meant it...or at least he would like to know if those feelings he is feeling are accurate also.Kinda in the same position as you.Talk about it a little bit and be adults.Maybe try something but both agree and know ahead of time that you will NOT lose friendship for each other. This is going to be risky no matter what unless you just say screw it and don't try to do anything but then you get the "what if" syndrome.


i hate being an adult. laugh Another point, maybe he likes me more like a sister...then I'm gonna look like the fool.

pjdh1952's photo
Mon 06/02/08 10:28 AM
It takes a few drinks, to have enough courage to tell you. Good logic! If I had a friend who had to drinkdrinker in order to tell me how she felt. Id think twice!

lilith401's photo
Mon 06/02/08 10:31 AM
I would believe he can't hold his liquor and that he is a fool.

Lance1205's photo
Mon 06/02/08 10:33 AM
A friend of mine is a 21 year old virgin waiting for marriage. But he has become drunk a few times and said and did things that were purely motivated by something he can get, ie kiss or something. I've said things to women in my past while drunk that I could not or would not say sober but WERE feeling or thoughts I had while sober. So it could be that he has feelings for you but was embarressed that he had said it. Or it could be that he wanted something, ask him pointedly and believe what he says. Think the best and trust him.

Monier's photo
Mon 06/02/08 10:35 AM
Edited by Monier on Mon 06/02/08 10:36 AM

My best friend Dan told me this past weekend he loves me more than a friend.

But today, he told me he had a couple beers in him when he said it.

I don't want our friendship ruined cause it would destroy me....

What do I believe?


Ignore it until he has the balls to tell you sober

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Mon 06/02/08 10:37 AM


My best friend Dan told me this past weekend he loves me more than a friend.

But today, he told me he had a couple beers in him when he said it.

I don't want our friendship ruined cause it would destroy me....

What do I believe?


Ignore it until he has the balls to tell you sober


well he's sober today laugh


Single_Rob's photo
Mon 06/02/08 10:37 AM

My best friend Dan told me this past weekend he loves me more than a friend.

But today, he told me he had a couple beers in him when he said it.

I don't want our friendship ruined cause it would destroy me....

What do I believe?
don't go into the light

Monier's photo
Mon 06/02/08 10:40 AM



My best friend Dan told me this past weekend he loves me more than a friend.

But today, he told me he had a couple beers in him when he said it.

I don't want our friendship ruined cause it would destroy me....

What do I believe?


Ignore it until he has the balls to tell you sober


well he's sober today laugh




Best friends make the best marriage partners. If you don't feel the same at the very same time and somebody does something, it could screw up what you have. Just be carefull.

Tommo's photo
Mon 06/02/08 10:41 AM
Maybe he love you not just like a friend... but also as his mother! It might be totally innocent... kinda

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Mon 06/02/08 10:42 AM

Maybe he love you not just like a friend... but also as his mother! It might be totally innocent... kinda


unfortunately, i think your right.brokenheart

Lily0923's photo
Mon 06/02/08 10:44 AM

I think that a drunken mans words are a sober mans thoughts!drinker


I may steal that... drinker drinker drinker drinker

Tommo's photo
Mon 06/02/08 10:44 AM


Maybe he love you not just like a friend... but also as his mother! It might be totally innocent... kinda


unfortunately, i think your right.brokenheart


Well missey, Erm, I am always right... Except when I am, well... when I am left.

brokenheart ? Gutted I am sure huh

missy51970's photo
Mon 06/02/08 10:44 AM
Heres what Ill say to you........




A drunk mans words are a sober mans thoughts

missy51970's photo
Mon 06/02/08 10:45 AM
oops someone already said it.. i didnt read the whole thread before replying.. sowwyflowerforyou

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Mon 06/02/08 10:47 AM
Well he told me that he liked me like a sister. laugh laugh laugh

maybe if i laugh about it, it'll ease the brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart

Tommo's photo
Mon 06/02/08 10:48 AM

Well he told me that he liked me like a sister. laugh laugh laugh

maybe if i laugh about it, it'll ease the brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart


He must come from a ... interesting family...

grkboy's photo
Mon 06/02/08 10:55 AM

My best friend Dan told me this past weekend he loves me more than a friend.

But today, he told me he had a couple beers in him when he said it.

I don't want our friendship ruined cause it would destroy me....

What do I believe?


First, figure out what you really want. If you just want to keep it as friends, then ignore it ever happened and carry on.

If you want more, then I'd say hash it out and ask him deep inside what he really wants.

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Mon 06/02/08 10:57 AM


Well he told me that he liked me like a sister. laugh laugh laugh

maybe if i laugh about it, it'll ease the brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart


He must come from a ... interesting family...


Obviously, cause you dont randomly tell your best friend you love them and you want to kiss them cause you like them more than a friend...then tell me its cause im like a SISTER! mad

robert1652's photo
Mon 06/02/08 11:37 AM

oops someone already said it.. i didnt read the whole thread before replying.. sowwyflowerforyou
I wish to remark that this is often what happens here