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Topic: What would u do?
Lily0923's photo
Mon 06/02/08 02:30 AM

if after 2 months of "being treated like a princess" youa re on the fence about someone, it is never going to be there. You can throw all the btchy remarks in there. These same people saying it is ok are the first ones to tell a woman to clear out if they feel a woman is being used by a man for fwb's. I love the perpetual dounle standard levelled by members of the jilted womans court


Absolutely I would tell a woman that, I would also tell a man that came on and said "I treat this woman like a queen, and she breaks dates with me...ect ect " to get out of it too, But if both people are happy and content, why does it matter?

GAWD Rob, you got a huge chip on your shoulder lately, what's your damage?

Single_Rob's photo
Mon 06/02/08 08:54 AM


if after 2 months of "being treated like a princess" youa re on the fence about someone, it is never going to be there. You can throw all the btchy remarks in there. These same people saying it is ok are the first ones to tell a woman to clear out if they feel a woman is being used by a man for fwb's. I love the perpetual dounle standard levelled by members of the jilted womans court


Absolutely I would tell a woman that, I would also tell a man that came on and said "I treat this woman like a queen, and she breaks dates with me...ect ect " to get out of it too, But if both people are happy and content, why does it matter?

GAWD Rob, you got a huge chip on your shoulder lately, what's your damage?
chip on my shoulder? Hardly. The simple fact is that most relationships break up due to "falling out of love". This woman is making a post basically asking if she shoud "settle" for this guy because she doesn't have a better prospect at this time. So is it fair for a person to be strung along while it is apparent that this woman will jump ship the first time that she meets another that gives her that "spark"? Sure sounds a lot like using someone for their own purposes until another comes along and he is discarded like an old piece of trash. It just stinks Lily, using on either end of the spectrum is wrong, male, or female

Single_Rob's photo
Mon 06/02/08 11:14 AM
lily?

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Mon 06/02/08 11:17 AM
If theres no chemistry...then theres no chemistry.

Maybe you guys are just meant to be great friends.

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Mon 06/02/08 11:23 AM
Honestly chemistry is important. You don't want to wake up a year from now wanting someone who can blow your mind, and be with a guy who just makes you smile. Find the one that can make you scream his name when your together.

FallToPieces213's photo
Tue 06/03/08 05:30 PM
If your heart is not totally in it, its not meant to be. He seems like a great guy but you still need to be looking for the guy that takes your breath away everytime he says your name, or everytime you see him. Sex and gifts shouldn't be an issue when it comes to true love. You will know the second you meet Mr. Right!

Totage's photo
Tue 06/03/08 05:32 PM

OK I have been dating this guy for about 2 months, he treats me like a queen, and I really mean that..buys me stuff, is courtesous, takes me to the shore, dinners, fun stuff, everything a girl could want, except I am not totally in love with him, like there is some chemistry, but not that you know, mind blowing feeling you get when you really dig someone, the sex is pretty good, however. So I am torn, keep him or look for the chemistry, I know I will never find another guy who treats me this way...but should I settle, and it doesn't seem like I am settling, cause we do have so much fun together, so what would you do..keep or not.??flowerforyou



What is it you are looking for?

hunky62's photo
Tue 06/03/08 05:33 PM
It is time to put the poor sap...and this string fro that matter...out of his misery and move on....

at this point you are just using the guy for the goodies...

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