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Topic: Insecurity...
AmyGurl84 Joined Sun 05/11/08 Posts: 773	Sat 05/31/08 09:37 PM
How do I overcome it? There's a guy I rather like... how do I fake confidence? LOL

dragonyosh Joined Sat 09/30/06 Posts: 1081	Sat 05/31/08 09:37 PM
just be yourself!!!

AmyGurl84 Joined Sun 05/11/08 Posts: 773	Sat 05/31/08 09:39 PM
lol, and if ur not sure urself is good enough? things always start great, but maybe I'm boring?????

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Sat 05/31/08 09:39 PM
Why bother faking it? Let him know who you are otherwise it's a sale's job. It is okay to feel insecure, it's what you do with it that could mess stuff up!!

Hindzfeet Joined Mon 03/17/08 Posts: 146	Sat 05/31/08 09:39 PM
My advice just love who you are and everything else will follow

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Sat 05/31/08 09:39 PM
If you being yourself is not good enough for someone..then that someone is not worth your time!

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 05/31/08 09:39 PM Edited by No1sLove on Sat 05/31/08 09:40 PM
I do not think you can fake confidence. I am completely confident in about anything else I do, but when it comes to meeting men...flat on my face. They just have to accept that.

heartofgold321 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 957	Sat 05/31/08 09:40 PM
Don't fake it, just realize that You are as good of a person that he could be and put Yourself on the same playing field.

AmyGurl84 Joined Sun 05/11/08 Posts: 773	Sat 05/31/08 09:41 PM
it's tough for me. i've been in 2 long term relationships... dating is... rough... plus i'm not exactly... hmmm.... generically pretty?

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 05/31/08 09:41 PM
If you being yourself is not good enough for someone..then that someone is not worth your time! Nicely stated!

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 05/31/08 09:42 PM Edited by Totage on Sat 05/31/08 09:43 PM
How do I overcome it? There's a guy I rather like... how do I fake confidence? LOL DON'T fake it, develop it. Go to the mirror, look yourself in the eyes and tell yourself you are beautiful. Focus on what you're good at/ your stengths. When you wake up go to the mirror and tell yourself you are gorgeous. Think about your stengths/what you're good at.

Runpenzo Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 1084	Sat 05/31/08 09:43 PM
You should get up every morning, look at yourself in the mirror and say "F**K the world, I"M GREAT"... it works for me

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 05/31/08 09:43 PM
it's tough for me. i've been in 2 long term relationships... dating is... rough... plus i'm not exactly... hmmm.... generically pretty? OMG...not true, you are very pretty! I think you suffer from the same malady as I...not much experience at the actual dating part? I've only been on 6 first dates in my life. Not much experience there.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 05/31/08 09:43 PM
How do I overcome it? There's a guy I rather like... how do I fake confidence? LOL huff gasoline It works for me

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Sat 05/31/08 09:43 PM
If you being yourself is not good enough for someone..then that someone is not worth your time! Nicely stated! Thank you!

Topsykretts Joined Wed 05/14/08 Posts: 4807	Sat 05/31/08 09:43 PM
just be yourself!!!

AmyGurl84 Joined Sun 05/11/08 Posts: 773	Sat 05/31/08 09:43 PM
How do I overcome it? There's a guy I rather like... how do I fake confidence? LOL DON'T fake it, develop it. Go to the mirror, look yourself in the eyes and tell yourself you are beautiful. Focus on what you're good at/ your stengths. When you wake up go to the mirror and tell yourself you are gorgeous. Think about your stengths/what you're good at. ah positive self talk. yeah, i'm working on that. feels stupid but i'm doing it

sweetbilly Joined Sat 08/04/07 Posts: 518	Sat 05/31/08 09:44 PM
When you find a way to be confident in your own skin others will desire you. However, just keep being you! Don't fake it or pretend to be someone you are not. Remember.... confidence begins in believing in yourself and telling yourself - even when you can't feel it.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 05/31/08 09:44 PM
How do I overcome it? There's a guy I rather like... how do I fake confidence? LOL DON'T fake it, develop it. Go to the mirror, look yourself in the eyes and tell yourself you are beautiful. Focus on what you're good at/ your stengths. When you wake up go to the mirror and tell yourself you are gorgeous. Think about your stengths/what you're good at. ah positive self talk. yeah, i'm working on that. feels stupid but i'm doing it But it works. BTW, you ARE beautiful.

AmyGurl84 Joined Sun 05/11/08 Posts: 773	Sat 05/31/08 09:46 PM
How do I overcome it? There's a guy I rather like... how do I fake confidence? LOL DON'T fake it, develop it. Go to the mirror, look yourself in the eyes and tell yourself you are beautiful. Focus on what you're good at/ your stengths. When you wake up go to the mirror and tell yourself you are gorgeous. Think about your stengths/what you're good at. ah positive self talk. yeah, i'm working on that. feels stupid but i'm doing it But it works. BTW, you ARE beautiful. ty... but it's not just looks... i'm worried that maybe i'm not interesting enough! lol, just cant keep um hooked