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Topic: faithfulone78
lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Sat 05/31/08 08:48 PM
luv is in the air on JSH Maybe it will rub off on some other people here..what do ya think! Or they can just rub off on Mirror Mirror HA!

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Sat 05/31/08 08:48 PM
luv is in the air on JSH Maybe it will rub off on some other people here..what do ya think! Or they can just rub off on Mirror Mirror HA!

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Sat 05/31/08 08:52 PM Edited by itsmetina on Sat 05/31/08 08:54 PM
congrats hope it works out

Anton_k Joined Sun 02/10/08 Posts: 32665	Sat 05/31/08 08:53 PM
congrats to both of you and the best of luck..

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 05/31/08 08:53 PM
luv is in the air on JSH Maybe it will rub off on some other people here..what do ya think! Or they can just rub off on Mirror Mirror HA! If things dont work out with you and Peccy dont forget about me

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sat 05/31/08 08:55 PM
He just wants to catch the garter with his

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Sat 05/31/08 08:55 PM
Well if I'm very clear and I know I read the thread right. The thread was created about a member that had deactivated. Members are allowed to come and go as they please. If they truly wanted others to know why they left they would have told them. Therefore yes it does create Drama on the threads and leads to others to speculate why they left and have seen that go very bad by ending up attacking other members and laying the blame else where. Before you know it it goes from that thread to 6-7 more threads. Therefore from past history of what happen it was decided that if a member leaves and others want to know it was best those issues be keep in e-mail. Besides that like I said 90% of the time they are back within 3 days or never leave.

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Sat 05/31/08 08:57 PM
luv is in the air on JSH Maybe it will rub off on some other people here..what do ya think! Or they can just rub off on Mirror Mirror HA! If things dont work out with you and Peccy dont forget about me If things don't work out between me and peccy i may switch sides...so will keep you in mind HA!

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sat 05/31/08 08:57 PM
Well if I'm very clear and I know I read the thread right. The thread was created about a member that had deactivated. Members are allowed to come and go as they please. If they truly wanted others to know why they left they would have told them. Therefore yes it does create Drama on the threads and leads to others to speculate why they left and have seen that go very bad by ending up attacking other members and laying the blame else where. Before you know it it goes from that thread to 6-7 more threads. Therefore from past history of what happen it was decided that if a member leaves and others want to know it was best those issues be keep in e-mail. Besides that like I said 90% of the time they are back within 3 days or never leave. I can appreciate that. That particular instance is not named in the rules so I don't think we were aware it had the potential to fall into that catagory. Thanks for the clarification.

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Sat 05/31/08 08:59 PM
Well if I'm very clear and I know I read the thread right. The thread was created about a member that had deactivated. Members are allowed to come and go as they please. If they truly wanted others to know why they left they would have told them. Therefore yes it does create Drama on the threads and leads to others to speculate why they left and have seen that go very bad by ending up attacking other members and laying the blame else where. Before you know it it goes from that thread to 6-7 more threads. Therefore from past history of what happen it was decided that if a member leaves and others want to know it was best those issues be keep in e-mail. Besides that like I said 90% of the time they are back within 3 days or never leave. I can appreciate that. That particular instance is not named in the rules so I don't think we were aware it had the potential to fall into that catagory. Thanks for the clarification. I 2nd that! Thank you!

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sat 05/31/08 09:00 PM
Now we can all beat up mirror for causing this mess! I'M KIDDING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Sat 05/31/08 09:10 PM
I can appreciate that. That particular instance is not named in the rules so I don't think we were aware it had the potential to fall into that catagory. Thanks for the clarification. These are from the Forum Rules they do state very clear that members are allowed to leave as they feel but those reasons are to be keep off the forums. This is only part of rule #2 This includes following another poster around in the forums, posting about past events gone sour, divulging personal information, spreading gossip or rumors, posting email exchanges between users, etc. Keep the drama off the forums! 14) "Goodbye" and "I'm leaving" posts where a user is declaring that they are leaving the site are not allowed and will be deleted from the forums. You obviously are free to leave the site at any time, but if you wish to notify your friends that you are going, please do so using the private messaging system. 15) If you have concerns about another poster or wish to report a rule violation, the ONLY appropriate venue is to use the Report Abuse feature or to message Vanchau or Mike. You may NOT air such concerns on the message boards themselves. If you have a general concern that does not involve a specific member, you may post your question in a civil manner in the "Feedback" or "Help" forums. And yes it does say if you have a concern about another member to take it to e-mail or send in a abuse report but at no time are those concerns to be posted on the threads.

MYheartACHES4u Joined Tue 05/27/08 Posts: 3076	Sat 05/31/08 10:08 PM
stay with me...........see if i get kicked out or not

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Sat 05/31/08 10:32 PM
Humm and now why would you be kicked out. You asked questions I have taken the time to honestly answer those questions. Unless you hit the forums at 90 to nothing bashing other members I don't see a problem with you. You have asked questions that we have answered in the past but does not hurt to be answered again. But as far as the rules if you bend those rules based on the member then you are leading yourself to be questioned for doing one thing for one member you want do for another. Then you have some mad due to you showed favoritism to another on the threads and to a new member that is not fair and they can not see the reasoning of why you would do that.