Topic: Big Girl Appreciation
Rzrback's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:46 AM
Hmm...what about posts for twice divorced men with 4 kids?
Hard to find anyone that wants to get into a relationship when you have the baggage some of us carry. I personally have a 8 and 10 yr old. And women my age are usually thinking that they have already raised their kids, dont want to do it all over again.

Oh well, guess I am cursed to having meaningful overnight relationships.

kk35695's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:46 AM
flowerforyou drinker flowerforyou

madamx7316's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:47 AM
im just fat and sassy...ohhhhhhhhhh i love me bigsmile

AmyGurl84's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:47 AM
I hear you hikerchick, trust me. I go on my rants occasionally. I'm talking to a guy on plentyoffish and i'm worried he'll wake up and go "whoa! she's fat!" but then I look at my gorgeous sister. who was often overlooked for being "too smart" or "too motivated". she's married to a fab guy now but not until her 30's. takes time for us all

hikerchick's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:48 AM

Hmm...what about posts for twice divorced men with 4 kids?
Hard to find anyone that wants to get into a relationship when you have the baggage some of us carry. I personally have a 8 and 10 yr old. And women my age are usually thinking that they have already raised their kids, dont want to do it all over again.

Oh well, guess I am cursed to having meaningful overnight relationships.
Yes, you are right. I think women of a certain age with young kids are at a disadvantage as well.


AmyGurl84's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:49 AM

im just fat and sassy...ohhhhhhhhhh i love me bigsmile


AMEN SISTAH!

hikerchick's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:49 AM
I never meant to imply that finding love was easy for thin women. It's just that topics based on their weight being a barrier just would fall flat because their weight is not the problem.

The problem is dating.

mandyatl81's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:49 AM
<-- big girl....i just want some luv....:cry: :cry: :cry:

Rzrback's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:49 AM
I do agree that it goes both ways.
It seems as if I have to find someone else with young kids. Then the only problem is that the Brady Bunch is reenacted.

AmyGurl84's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:50 AM

Hmm...what about posts for twice divorced men with 4 kids?
Hard to find anyone that wants to get into a relationship when you have the baggage some of us carry. I personally have a 8 and 10 yr old. And women my age are usually thinking that they have already raised their kids, dont want to do it all over again.

Oh well, guess I am cursed to having meaningful overnight relationships.


roflmao! you poor thing! but fear not! I'm from a his/hers/ours family. if you really want love its out there

AmyGurl84's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:50 AM

I never meant to imply that finding love was easy for thin women. It's just that topics based on their weight being a barrier just would fall flat because their weight is not the problem.

The problem is dating.


Dating is evil. I just started again, and i'm remembering why i stopped!

auburngirl's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:52 AM
There is all kinds of baggage. Try widowhood on for size. You'll get "oh sorry I could NEVER do that; can't compete with a ghost"

kk35695's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:53 AM

im just fat and sassy...ohhhhhhhhhh i love me bigsmile


flowerforyou ....yum. Hi ya' madamx!!bigsmile bigsmilesmokin drinker

hikerchick's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:53 AM

There is all kinds of baggage. Try widowhood on for size. You'll get "oh sorry I could NEVER do that; can't compete with a ghost"
Oh that is sad, and so unfair.

auburngirl's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:54 AM
no biggie...small mind or small something, I haven't decided which.

AmyGurl84's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:55 AM

There is all kinds of baggage. Try widowhood on for size. You'll get "oh sorry I could NEVER do that; can't compete with a ghost"


I was engaged to a wonderful guy. Funny, smart, HOT. He was very ill because he didn't take care of his type one diabetes. we broke the engagement in 2005 but never dated other people. the deal was, if he could learn to take care of himself we'd get married. He passed on January 30th 2008. I may not be a widow but I may as well be.

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 05/31/08 10:59 AM
Love ya ladies!flowerforyou love smooched smooched smooched

madamx7316's photo
Sat 05/31/08 11:00 AM


im just fat and sassy...ohhhhhhhhhh i love me bigsmile


flowerforyou ....yum. Hi ya' madamx!!bigsmile bigsmilesmokin drinker


smooched love :heart: bigsmile

AmyGurl84's photo
Sat 05/31/08 11:00 AM

Love ya ladies!flowerforyou love smooched smooched smooched


blushing much love back at ya! :heart: smooched

madamx7316's photo
Sat 05/31/08 11:00 AM

Love ya ladies!flowerforyou love smooched smooched smooched


love :heart: smooched bigsmile