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      Some women on here say they want a man without a plan.  what is this about.  I like to have a plan for everything. I could plan a whole month out minute by minute.
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      I prefer spontaneity    | |
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      maybe they are talking about a plan to get them into bed?
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      i dont plan jacks**t
 people try n ask me if im free w.e and ya bet your ass i am lol the upside of having no life   | |
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      It is good to be spontaneous after work i guess. 
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      I've always made a plan but it doesn't seem to work the way I want. Does that count?
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      Plans equal goals right?
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      Nothing ever goes as planed for me. So I live the moment  
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        Edited by
        No1sLove
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        Fri 05/30/08 05:23 PM
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      Maybe means no hidden agendas ... you got any of those?  Huh, do ya?   Don't hide them from me now!   | |
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      no i put em all out there
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      My plan: get tacos,watch hoops,avoid a relationship....
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      I think a man with a plan is a good thing, but the hidden agendas I can do without...never can find the little suckers.    | |
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| Plans equal goals right? I have heard No one plans to fail they simply fail to plan | |
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      I have long-term plans. It's what I'm gonna do minute-to-minute that irks me
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| It is good to be spontaneous after work i guess. BEFORE TOO............       | |
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| I prefer spontaneity   AMEN to that!!! Just get up and do it.. | |
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| I prefer spontaneity   AMEN to that!!! Just get up and do it.. hold on tight and enjoy the ride   | |
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      Life is what happens, when your busy making other plans...   | |
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      when i speak like that i mean that i like a man who has an idea and or plan to what he wants in life and goals to get there... 
 i know i sure the hell do and i want no one stepping on my toes to get to mine! | |
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      Having a plan and/or plans doesn't necessarily mean "goals." Sure you can plan for your future (realistically within a period of months/years) and consider that a goal; something to strive for/toward. Yet still, a plan/plans can mean having a schedule, consistency in some respects, some things are time-consuming (so preparation is smart), routine (again, consistency.. say going to the gym, specific meetings for work or weekly family conferences/get-togethers, etc.). Then again, you can plan to be spontaneous (expect the unexpected). A friend calls and wishes to meet for coffee, a drink, lunch away from work, or even just a night on the town (an hr. before). And as some people do, a quick plan for a weekend vacation (the night before). 
 Just my extensive thought   | |
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