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Topic: Is it wrong?
splaty's photo
Fri 05/30/08 04:53 PM
Do you think it's wrong to not date someone because of their phyiscal appearance? A friend of mine doesn't want to date a girl because she is over weight, do you think thats wrong?

Derekkye's photo
Fri 05/30/08 04:54 PM
no

no photo
Fri 05/30/08 04:54 PM
SCREW YOUR FRIEND.............. do what you feel is best.............make up your own mind...............grumble grumble

Topsykretts's photo
Fri 05/30/08 04:54 PM
To each his own, me thinks.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 05/30/08 04:54 PM

Do you think it's wrong to not date someone because of their phyiscal appearance? A friend of mine doesn't want to date a girl because she is over weight, do you think thats wrong?
:smile: no:smile:

no photo
Fri 05/30/08 04:55 PM
not wrong, but certainly narrow minded...could be the best piece of a$$ your friend is never going to get.....smokin

tanyaann's photo
Fri 05/30/08 04:55 PM
Its a personal choice, however rejecting someone based off of physical appearences, you may be letting a great person go, based off of vainity.

trace78's photo
Fri 05/30/08 04:56 PM
no, its superficial, but most want to be happy and to do so you go for what you want. But who knows, if he gives it a try, big girl may change his world.

ljcc1964's photo
Fri 05/30/08 04:56 PM
I think it's natural. Is it wrong? I'm not sure, but I know that there has to be a spark...attraction. That is the way of things.

No1sLove's photo
Fri 05/30/08 04:57 PM
I think your friend is fooling himself if he thinks dating someone he's not attracted to will go anywhere but to awkward ville. I adore so many men that I'm not attracted to...but would never try it cause I've been there before. ohwell

Max_Darkling's photo
Fri 05/30/08 05:00 PM
NO you should date people you have an attraction to

no photo
Fri 05/30/08 05:00 PM
Everybody has preferences - and as long as you know that those preferences MIGHT prevent you from being with someone really great, well, that's up to each individual....we all have likes and dislikes....


no photo
Fri 05/30/08 05:02 PM
I look for an attraction, period. I don't need an adonis per se'. Just my one and only adonis. That adonis may be skinny or chubby, have a "model" face or not, hair on his head or not. It's either there or it isn't!! flowerforyou

SimplyElla's photo
Fri 05/30/08 05:02 PM
everyone has their own feelings on what is attractive or not...


like personally i will not date some one to much shorter than me or someone who is built like a poor Ethiopian childohwell

date who you want who cares what your friends think or say

Tommo's photo
Fri 05/30/08 05:07 PM

NO you should date people you have an attraction to


NO, Yoda, you should use the force

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/30/08 05:07 PM
Well It would be crueler to date her knowing it couldnt go anywhere dontcha think?

Nothin' wrong with preferences...we all have them...I won't date a giraffe, for example...bigsmile

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 05/30/08 05:12 PM
It's his preference.. we all have our preferences and that's our right...

BlueskyJ's photo
Fri 05/30/08 05:12 PM

I think it's natural. Is it wrong? I'm not sure, but I know that there has to be a spark...attraction. That is the way of things.

What you said....:smile:

Gams's photo
Fri 05/30/08 05:14 PM
Guess that depends on your purpose for dating...
Is it simply to make a like minded friendship connection?
Get boinked?
or find a kindered spirit for a life time!

If a life time, it might be wise to be attrached to the whole person...life is loooooooooong. flowerforyou

kkelley76's photo
Fri 05/30/08 05:19 PM
as a thick chick myself, i would rather be passed over than mistreated and we all have preferences. so if he knows he isn't attracted then he shouldn't compromise. for instance i only date black men, it's a choice....u like what u like. i am looking for my one and i won't settle...no matter what!

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