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Topic: Well Tomorrow is the day....
IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 05/29/08 12:21 PM



fingers crossed...now if only i can find my slacks...i'd like to have pants on when i go in tomorrowlaugh


Let's hope you walk out with your pants on!

I work for a legal firm. 4 years, in CA you write? Then there will be a term limit on spousal support. It really just depends on if the judge is paying attention and is sympathetic. You have a better chance if your court time is early in the day. After lunch is not a good time. Fatigue and boredom sets in, even with judges.

BTW - this is your first date. Try to work it out quickly. More court dates mean more attorney time. That is only more money going out than in.

Best wishes.

EVERYTHING WENT WELL!!!!!!

My WHOLE case is final finally. Sharon and I agreed on terms that there was NO way the court would have gone in my favor. Basically yes i have to pay...but it is a far cry from 1200(which i found out is what the computer would have told the judge to order) it is only $300 for two years. That and ALL of you division of property/debts was resovled...i agreed to pay an extra $4000 of our debts if she agreed to this...note she now has to pay half of two existing loans that she wasn't paying anything on...But still ALOT better than i'd hope...not perfect...but i can afford to keep my place still. Plus i should be able to pay her all of it in advance with my reenlistment bonus..and never have to see/hear from her again. YAY!!!!!


drinker drinker Congratulations.. flowerforyou

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Thu 05/29/08 12:21 PM

don't think you should have to pay her for anything especially when no kids involved, JMO! Good luck to ya hun.happy

i feel the same way...but unfortunatly cali is a no-fault state...and all they do is punch the numbers into a computer and it spits them out and they go by that...i got off really good. It sucks that she had the nerve to ask for it in the first place though..but whatcha going to doohwell but now my divorce will be finalized in July!!! vice september! yay!

Pinky01's photo
Thu 05/29/08 12:23 PM
Edited by Pinky01 on Thu 05/29/08 12:25 PM

Best wishes to youflowerforyou

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Thu 05/29/08 09:21 PM
Edited by IslandPearl on Thu 05/29/08 09:27 PM
Great! Somebody at court was paying attention!
I'm really happy for you!

Today was a good day! Thank God!!

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