Topic: True?
lcjw's photo
Wed 05/28/08 07:29 PM

YES... not because you will most likely and probably will cheat again but because you have done it... and its the ultimate sin in a relationship... I believe!

Agree!drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker

no photo
Wed 05/28/08 07:29 PM
No.

Cambolaya65's photo
Wed 05/28/08 07:33 PM
I have NEVER cheated,but possibly in the future....huh

No1sLove's photo
Wed 05/28/08 07:34 PM
I hope there are ppl who learn from their mistakes and will not repeat offend, but I would not stick around to find out...they'll just be better for the next one I guess. ohwell

awolf1010's photo
Wed 05/28/08 08:02 PM
cheating, lying ,stealing.....its all the same to me.............I AM Gone......wish you well in your future endeavors......lol

dicimus01's photo
Wed 05/28/08 09:56 PM
A person that cheats is one of the most dishonest. To betray the trust of your partner, and throw away their love. Then maybe bring home some disease. How low.

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 05/28/08 10:08 PM
For the 10th thread on this ...

who knows :wink:

brooke007's photo
Wed 05/28/08 10:09 PM
totally situational...

who can be sure???
everyone who is anyone has a past they have learned from...

BlueskyJ's photo
Wed 05/28/08 10:15 PM
It's amazing how many people claim to have been cheated on.....the statistics for cheating must be high.....

i believe in loyalty & once in a committed relationship have never cheated....for me its all about showing your partner that you are trustworthy....that's probably why people say once a cheater always a cheater, the trust has been broken.....

auburngirl's photo
Wed 05/28/08 10:35 PM
No

Totage's photo
Wed 05/28/08 10:54 PM

The saying: Once a cheater always a cheater!
Is it true?


Not always

no photo
Wed 05/28/08 10:55 PM
yes.

LIJOMA's photo
Wed 05/28/08 11:07 PM
YES!!!

MrWrongman's photo
Wed 05/28/08 11:18 PM
Edited by MrWrongman on Wed 05/28/08 11:20 PM
So has any woman cheated on here before cuzz most of the women are saying yes

marky84's photo
Wed 05/28/08 11:23 PM
not neccessarily

LIJOMA's photo
Wed 05/28/08 11:32 PM

So has any woman cheated on here before cuzz most of the women are saying yes



Actually I have. I did it out of revenge (he cheated on my with a 17 year old that worked at a gas station, and got her pregnant after I had a miscarriage 2 months prior) and did it maybe out of part that I knew I could. When it came up, after I kicked his ssa out, I didnt deny what I had done, nor did I make excuses for my actions. And do I still think once a cheater always a cheater, YES! I know what I am capable of and I know me, this is why I am single, and have been, and probably will be, but I am ok with that, because I will not allow ANYONE to hurt me like that again. So if it means that I, and not noone else, will cheat in the future then that is what that means. The way I see it is, its not cheating if you are not committed to someone.

MrWrongman's photo
Wed 05/28/08 11:36 PM


So has any woman cheated on here before cuzz most of the women are saying yes



Actually I have. I did it out of revenge (he cheated on my with a 17 year old that worked at a gas station, and got her pregnant after I had a miscarriage 2 months prior) and did it maybe out of part that I knew I could. When it came up, after I kicked his ssa out, I didnt deny what I had done, nor did I make excuses for my actions. And do I still think once a cheater always a cheater, YES! I know what I am capable of and I know me, this is why I am single, and have been, and probably will be, but I am ok with that, because I will not allow ANYONE to hurt me like that again. So if it means that I, and not noone else, will cheat in the future then that is what that means. The way I see it is, its not cheating if you are not committed to someone.


Not to be mean but you sound bitter? Sounds like every guy you meet your gonna be a a btch too!!! How is that any better than what that guy did to you?

LIJOMA's photo
Wed 05/28/08 11:44 PM



So has any woman cheated on here before cuzz most of the women are saying yes



Actually I have. I did it out of revenge (he cheated on my with a 17 year old that worked at a gas station, and got her pregnant after I had a miscarriage 2 months prior) and did it maybe out of part that I knew I could. When it came up, after I kicked his ssa out, I didnt deny what I had done, nor did I make excuses for my actions. And do I still think once a cheater always a cheater, YES! I know what I am capable of and I know me, this is why I am single, and have been, and probably will be, but I am ok with that, because I will not allow ANYONE to hurt me like that again. So if it means that I, and not noone else, will cheat in the future then that is what that means. The way I see it is, its not cheating if you are not committed to someone.


Not to be mean but you sound bitter? Sounds like every guy you meet your gonna be a a btch too!!! How is that any better than what that guy did to you?



Not thinking that you are being mean for responding to my post, and no I am not bitter, and one thing I am not is a btihc... I just know where I stand with myself, and why I am the way I am. Thats all. The ? was asked (by u actually) about the women posting, YES, and have they ever cheated, so I responded to you. What he did to me, I would never be able to hurt anyone like that, but at the same time I will not allow anyone to hurt me like that again either. I didnt say that the way I feel is any better than what he did to me, and I know where you are coming from on this, this is why I choose to be single, and remain that way, because I know me and what I am capable of doing without blinking an eye.

MrWrongman's photo
Wed 05/28/08 11:47 PM




So has any woman cheated on here before cuzz most of the women are saying yes



Actually I have. I did it out of revenge (he cheated on my with a 17 year old that worked at a gas station, and got her pregnant after I had a miscarriage 2 months prior) and did it maybe out of part that I knew I could. When it came up, after I kicked his ssa out, I didnt deny what I had done, nor did I make excuses for my actions. And do I still think once a cheater always a cheater, YES! I know what I am capable of and I know me, this is why I am single, and have been, and probably will be, but I am ok with that, because I will not allow ANYONE to hurt me like that again. So if it means that I, and not noone else, will cheat in the future then that is what that means. The way I see it is, its not cheating if you are not committed to someone.


Not to be mean but you sound bitter? Sounds like every guy you meet your gonna be a a btch too!!! How is that any better than what that guy did to you?



Not thinking that you are being mean for responding to my post, and no I am not bitter, and one thing I am not is a btihc... I just know where I stand with myself, and why I am the way I am. Thats all. The ? was asked (by u actually) about the women posting, YES, and have they ever cheated, so I responded to you. What he did to me, I would never be able to hurt anyone like that, but at the same time I will not allow anyone to hurt me like that again either. I didnt say that the way I feel is any better than what he did to me, and I know where you are coming from on this, this is why I choose to be single, and remain that way, because I know me and what I am capable of doing without blinking an eye.



Well you shouldnt allow anybody to hurt you and your right you should be single for a while just as long as you put your cards on the table and everybody wants to play if not no matter how painful it is never be scared to loose someone:wink:

atleedagod's photo
Wed 05/28/08 11:48 PM

The saying: Once a cheater always a cheater!
Is it true?
nope im the exception
did once ****ed up the best thing to ever happen to me
aint makin that mistake again