If you really liked someone here but they lived really far away and you knew that you couldn't leave where you were because of STUFF, would you countine to try and make a relationship or start looking for something closer?

something closer

I guess that depends on if the other person involved would be willing to relocate

Would Love to find someone to wake up to every morning. So as much as it would hurt I would have to move on.

You have to ask yourself, is STUFF more important than happiness?

Prolly closer......sadly....sorry

she's going to be mad if she reads this

It is so hard and frustrated, I am living something like that now. I really like this boy but I know it's almost imposible and the worst part is I AM IN LOVE WITH HIM...

I think it all depends on the relationship, I am willing to relocate but it all depends on what graduate school I get into, I would hope before things got too serious that relocation would be discussed. I think that if you are truly meant to be together each individual would make concessions.

closer

when you find a connection with someone, why put conditions on it????? just let the connection evolve!!!!!!!!

I have found by experiance, if you can't through a rock and hit them don't "date them" or prosue them...... But you can always be friends.

But that is for me and I could be wrong......

Wow, The Rooster is one smart chicken!

Well if it comes to the point that neither can move and it will be nothing more. Then agree to be friends and move on with your life and look for someone close by.

Myself I can't say I would ever start anything with anyone if I already knew that.

One thing about online dating before one starts they should look at what they are willing to do. If distance is a problem them make sure you stay within your boundaries. Why create those problems.

Love has no boundaries.............or does it? If you know youre getting online to look for love,maybe you have some set before you go looking! It would save a lot of heartache for everyone all the way around.But then you never know who you will fall in love with or who with you!

Love like much else has no guarantees....move and it doesnt work.......youve given it all up.......move and it does........youve gained so much more.
Is the "Stuff" something you can get back? Is it worth giving up for this person? Can he/she move?
Lots of things to take into consideration but bottom line is.......................

ONLY YOU CAN DECIDE!!!!

Good luck with your decision and Im sure you have friends here that will be with you no matter what you decide.

M