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Topic: Justice I'd say
Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Tue 05/27/08 06:04 PM
My sister as a child was sexually abused by a man my mother was seeing at the time. Fast forward 30 years. Just a few years ago my sister (now 39 years old) called this man's house and informed his wife about what her husband had done to her when she was a child. Apparently the man went mad and recently died. His wife is blaming it on the phone call it seems.

unique1111 Joined Fri 05/23/08 Posts: 295	Tue 05/27/08 06:05 PM
Just pay, I'd say. He didn't feel bad that he did it...only that he was found out! Good for your sister!!

heartofgold321 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 957	Tue 05/27/08 06:06 PM
I'm glad Your sister confronted him.

DestinysDream Joined Wed 02/20/08 Posts: 4805	Tue 05/27/08 06:08 PM
How does your sister feel now is the important thing. Does she believe his wife and feel sad for the molester? He lost his mind when he did that to your sister BTW. It wasn't her fault then or now.

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Tue 05/27/08 06:08 PM
i hope this don't mean law-suit

unique1111 Joined Fri 05/23/08 Posts: 295	Tue 05/27/08 06:09 PM
Some people are just preditors! They feel nothing for their victims. If the wife is blaming your sister it is because she is denying it as well. She'll have to deal with it on her own time. I imagine that finding out the man you loved isn't who you thought he was would be hard....

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Tue 05/27/08 06:10 PM
Some people are just preditors! They feel nothing for their victims. If the wife is blaming your sister it is because she is denying it as well. She'll have to deal with it on her own time. I imagine that finding out the man you loved isn't who you thought he was would be hard.... you got it right on I think

unique1111 Joined Fri 05/23/08 Posts: 295	Tue 05/27/08 06:11 PM
i hope this don't mean law-suit I would think she wouldn't want the public attention. But if she does...get the media involved. The wife will find NO sympathy from the public. There are too many of us out there with scars that still hurt.

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Tue 05/27/08 06:11 PM
Good for your sister. I wonder why he went mad was it just because he was found out or did he go mad at finally realizing what he did was wrong, felt remorseful, and didn't have a way to correct it. Either way it would seem the phone call sparked something within him to drive him mad.

unique1111 Joined Fri 05/23/08 Posts: 295	Tue 05/27/08 06:12 PM
i hope this don't mean law-suit I would think she wouldn't want the public attention. But if she does...get the media involved. The wife will find NO sympathy from the public. There are too many of us out there with scars that still hurt. These are my sons in the pic with me! Aren't they handsome!!

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Tue 05/27/08 06:13 PM
I'm so sorry your sister had to suffer through that. My heart goes out to her from a survivor of sexual abuse myself. His wife is blaming it on the phone call it seems. That's really pathetic. She is so much in denial of what he did, that she's trying to put the blame back on the victim. Makes me think she is just as sick as he was.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76412	Tue 05/27/08 06:13 PM
Sorry not worried about what he had to deal with or his wife at this point. Does that sound cold to some if so I'm sorry you take it that way. The one that everyone should be focused on is your sister how is she doing? Remind her nothing she did when she was a child nor as and adult was her fault. The man could not live with what he had done after he was found out. That is his fault for not being honest in the first place. I do hope your sister sees this herself. And is able to deal with the past since this man is gone and no longer can hurt her.

unique1111 Joined Fri 05/23/08 Posts: 295	Tue 05/27/08 06:14 PM
Just pay, I'd say. He didn't feel bad that he did it...only that he was found out! Good for your sister!! I meant the "pay" of his insanity was just.....duh

unique1111 Joined Fri 05/23/08 Posts: 295	Tue 05/27/08 06:16 PM
Sorry not worried about what he had to deal with or his wife at this point. Does that sound cold to some if so I'm sorry you take it that way. The one that everyone should be focused on is your sister how is she doing? Remind her nothing she did when she was a child nor as and adult was her fault. The man could not live with what he had done after he was found out. That is his fault for not being honest in the first place. I do hope your sister sees this herself. And is able to deal with the past since this man is gone and no longer can hurt her. But we have to be aware that there are more out there and we and our daughters have to be on watch...and our sons too!

unique1111 Joined Fri 05/23/08 Posts: 295	Tue 05/27/08 06:17 PM
Derek, I hope you don't feel responsible....you could not have stopped it!

Pete026 Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 14799	Tue 05/27/08 06:18 PM
There's one less f*ckwit in the world. Let's party

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Tue 05/27/08 06:18 PM
Just pay, I'd say. He didn't feel bad that he did it...only that he was found out! Good for your sister!! I meant the "pay" of his insanity was just.....duh Dang Unique, your sons are HOT!!!

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Tue 05/27/08 06:21 PM
it was definitely the phone call. Hi Pete.

Pete026 Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 14799	Tue 05/27/08 06:32 PM
it was definitely the phone call. Hi Pete. Yo bro! BTW, my post was not meant to be in bad taste. I just think people who do sh!t like that should die a slow, painful death.

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Tue 05/27/08 06:35 PM
I have always said what comes around goes around, so he got his in the end. It took courage for your sister to do what she did. Good for her.