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Topic: A friend just told me...
Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Tue 05/27/08 04:50 PM
That when I do find my newfound love...I need to place her first over my daughter!!! I hung up on him laughing!!!!!

Bornnaked Joined Sun 07/29/07 Posts: 2359	Tue 05/27/08 04:51 PM
Don't blame you.

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Tue 05/27/08 04:52 PM
OMG!!!

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5376	Tue 05/27/08 04:52 PM
never... your daughter should always be first... and any respectable woman would expect that from you and should be ashamed of herself if she insists on being first over your child

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 05/27/08 04:53 PM
That when I do find my newfound love...I need to place her first over my daughter!!! I hung up on him laughing!!!!! He doesn't have either does he?

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Tue 05/27/08 04:53 PM
Define first?

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 05/27/08 04:54 PM
lemme guess, he is single?

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Tue 05/27/08 04:54 PM
my kids are #1....dont blame you!!! any new love has to understand that.

l1617r Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 31	Tue 05/27/08 04:54 PM
not a very good friend dating an idiot like that once myself couldnt figure out why i put my children before him one reason still not dating children are number one

olddreamer Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 348	Tue 05/27/08 04:54 PM
That when I do find my newfound love...I need to place her first over my daughter!!! I hung up on him laughing!!!!! oh, good advice from the friend.....your new love may be cheating on you some day but your daughter will always love you....she is a part of you.

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Tue 05/27/08 04:54 PM
tuff call there bud,,,,,,,,but differnent reasons can make a difference who you chose sides with

rea7456 Joined Sat 01/20/07 Posts: 135	Tue 05/27/08 04:55 PM
you have to both of them first but in two different ways and two different kind of love....

ADiamond Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 2375	Tue 05/27/08 04:55 PM
That when I do find my newfound love...I need to place her first over my daughter!!! I hung up on him laughing!!!!! Good answer......

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Tue 05/27/08 04:56 PM
He is a great friend and means well. He has no children and could never understand... My daughter will always come first, he knows that and respects that, but feels that it may be a roadblock to me meeting someone...Little does he know that it doesnt matter if I do or not

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Tue 05/27/08 04:57 PM
lemme guess, he is single? He has a younger girlfriend, no kids....

CyPoet Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 12494	Tue 05/27/08 04:57 PM
I hear ya bro,no 1(ever)comes before my 3 angels Jessica,Crystal,Loran

UnclePorky Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 1107	Tue 05/27/08 04:57 PM
blood comes before anybody thats not blood related. At least I think that way

sandradee1961 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1411	Tue 05/27/08 04:58 PM
I couldn't fully respect a man who could do that.

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Tue 05/27/08 04:58 PM
say what??? if any man told me to choose between my kids or him... welll his butt would be kicked to the ''f'' curb.. my kids were there before he was and there my life... my mom dated a guy that couldnt even accept his own kids and he didnt know how to deal with me and she finally told him that we were there before he was and she found her heart and left.... she was very much in love with him. but he proved that he had no heart.. a few yrs after my daughter was born, i found out that he got married and it didnt even mention his own kids..

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Tue 05/27/08 04:58 PM
I hear ya bro,no 1(ever)comes before my 3 angels Jessica,Crystal,Loran