Knowing my son was born 4 days ago. Just thought i would ask if any of you would have any suggestions in taking care of him.

There going to be times when even though there is nothing really wrong with him, othere then being fussy, you know like having gas etc etc, that will go away lol. But what are some things you have done that might help in areas like this or when he is like over tired? I heard from a friend that when he has hiccups and it don't stop. Try puting sugar on his pacifire, not that it will work all the time, but she said it will at times. I'm just puting things out there to see what you think

congrats - enjoy as much as possible

Congrats Shadow.........

congarts.....my son is almost two and all i can say is good luck.............give them lots of love and attention..........these are the best years from what i was told so enjoy them while you can

Congrats, My son is almost 7 and from my experiance, I love being a dad.

Congrats and enjoy every minute you can. They grows so fast!

Thank you everyone but was asking for some suggestions

Congrats on the little one.. I'm a mother of 2, soon to be 11 & 15 and also had a licensed childcare (when I was married). I can tell you that, at 4 days old, I wouldn't put sugar or anything on his pacifier. Hiccups are good, just let him go through the moment (just as he did in mommy's belly). As for gas, you can lay him over your legs (supporting his head of course w/ your hand) but be sure his stomach is down on your thigh (which will help put a little pressure for release).. you can also lay him on his stomach long ways on your arm, yet holding him against your body for support. Your wrist/palm area of your hand should be some what on his stomach to again, add a little pressure. One way that has always settled a fussy baby in my experience is: when you lay them on both arms in front of you (his head in your hands) while standing and/or sitting and swaying (slowly) back and forth (side to side).. Hummmm to him and play music softly. Another thing that (some) new borns like is, their feet massaged (unless he's really sensitive). I'm sure I could think of a million things.. If you'd like me to give you any other idea's for anything at all.. you're welcome to add me as a friend.

Good luck w/ your little Angel.

you will learn as it happens........at least thats what happened with me.......no matter what anyone told me i just had to figure thing out on my own

Thank you. I kinda know at this point he needs to build up his lungs so it will be good for him to cry and such. Thank you for the ideas you gave me. Just was curious because my ex was up untill 4 in the morning . Told her, don't be afraid to wake me up even if its that late if she is getting fustrated. Right now mom is there to help her, so that is good.

Yeah, it's the going through it part

fake it until you can make it

Congrats Shadow!

Gripe water(ask a pharmacist if you can't find it) works really well for hiccups and general crankiness...I don't think I could've survived my second one with out it

Massages help, a bath before bedtime, helps them to sleep better and the best thing ever...lots of hugs and kisses

Keep a regular schedule, bedtimes, feedings and play/storytime. This makes life a lot easier when they have a certain time for everything

just take things slow and remember no matter how upset you get with them.........they don't know anything but your love and you don't want to take that away from them........i know with my son he would cry for what felt like a lifetime and i would just have to lay him down and walk away for awhile........it would break my heart but if i didn't do it i would get to upset at him..........

Congrats Shawdow, welcome to the wonderful, crazy, frustrating world of being a parent. Would never trade it for anything.

My three boys (17, 15, 13) are like night and day, what worked for one didn't necessarily work for the others. I didn't really have anyone around to answer questions when mine were small so was trial and error to figure out what was best for each of them. PragmaticMind gave good suggestions to try. One thing I'd add though is don't believe the bs that if you pick up your child every time he cries that you'll spoil him, my guys are not spoiled, well not much. I'm with her feel free anytime to ask whatever you like when it comes to parenting. There is no rule book we just have to do the best we can and what we think is right for our children.

You're off to a great start by giving him your love and being there for him, keep that up always. Have fun!

Ill have to keep in mind what you said about his schedule. since i'm going to have him only two nights a week. I have to ask my ex as time goes on, how his schedule is so i can work with her. And will suggest about the massages to her.

Thank you

I would say i'm preety good at having patients knowing i come from a big family and lot's of nieces and nephews But if things do get a little rough. The nice thing is my ex lives a block from me so i could get a break if i needed it and the same for her

Take it one minute and one day at a time. Every child is different. Be patient with your child. He is learning just like you. By the way I think it is really cool that you actually give a damn. Congrats Daddy!

Oh, my daughter ( now 20 ) had gas really bad and the both of us were miserable. I found the cure! Give your baby a 1/2 cup of warm tea ( sweetened ). Tea makes you crap and the gas goes away. That pink medicine does not work! A spanish lady taught me that one. I asked the doctor about the health risks and he said " It won't hurt the child. If the child is not in pain that is all that matters." I used the McCormick brand...I am not sure if that is the proper spelling. Good luck!

By the way, all that crap about crying is good for a baby is not always true. It is their way of letting you know that something needs to be fixed. Such as: diapers, food, liquid, gas etc. Don't spoil the child, but make sure there is nothing wrong.