I know this probably isnt the greatest question to ask as valintines day
is right around the corner but any one have any insight as to why some
women use men? Cause it seems to happen to me alot and would like to
know how to stay away from those people cause i dont know that im being
used until way down the road.
Hope what i typed makes a little sense to anyone who reads it
take care
David

don't let them get you down...alot of people take Kindness as a
weakness...you'll meet the right one some day...Just hang in
there.....one guy to anouther

not all women use guys I guess there are a few that just don't care. so
sorry you have been hurt but I think that almost all of us have that are
on here

Yes, I know why!!!!!!!!

Because "YOU" (WE) let them!!!!!!

Alot of women and men feel they can and want to CONTROL you and it
starts as little and ins up as "WOW" THATS DAMM DEMANDING BABY!!!!!!!!!
No one has a sure fire call on that one yet but maybe someday we can
have them tattooed on their foreheads and THEN we will KNOW to watch-out
for them!! LOL,,LOL

Hey Fivespeed..i understand where u r coming from..its happen to me as
well..and its true, one day u will be amazed and that special woman will
come into youre life..hang in there..

Humm now if we could answer that question we would all be better off who
knows what goes through ones mind be it female or male when they chose
to use another its sad that it happens but it does we just have to learn
to move on and hope we have learned from the past.

ya i know what you mean fivespeedrt. i been there too. i been used with
most of the women i been with. just got to keep tring. theres sombody
out there that dosent use people.

Well...most women dont actually use men. men are just so used to being
gullable then they automatically beleive we use men to get us presents
and such. Honestly we dont even like the holiday and some people think
its just mushy and boring. We dont expect gifts, and we certainly dont
try to lead you on to thinking we want nothing more then sex and
chocolate.

well kerraaa i understand where ur comin from about the v-day thing. I
also undertand most women dont use men i just somhow mangaged to find
the one that did. Wanted me to pay or ever darn little thing she didnt
even have a car! I guess all of those things should have been red flags
i chose to ignor. I hope with all i got that i learn from this
experience.

Hey!Five the main thing bro;is that you learned from this experience and
you grow."Lest we forget we are doomed to repeat"Of ocurse all women are
not like that,you just happened upon one of them that's all.There are no
tell~tale signs here either.And men are equally as guilty here for
sure.But don't even give a second thought to what's been said to you by
Keiraa(newbie).What a load of horse dung that is OMG!Idon't know what
state she's from nor am going to waste my time looking to find out.We
have enough women gold~diggers in Mass.to fill~up the Big Dig Project in
Boston.Please!give it a rest sugar.He's young,but it doesn't make him
stupid.Learn the tell~tale signs so that you can step off right away and
count your losses.Godspeed!Cybear.

Well fivespeed,
Its sad to say but there are "damaged ppl" running around damagin other
ppl.That makes it hard for regular caring ppl to find anyone who's not
skiddish about relationships.
We'are all afraid of getting hurt and laying our hearts completely out
there.
Once we overcome that fear love is the most beautiful thing in the
world.Just hang in there- there is someone perfect out there for you.
Dont give up...Ususally when you think you've reached your limit-thats
when love pounces on ya outta no where.
GEL

Easiest answer: For the SAME REASON MEN do it!!!!

There are people out here that have no integrity. People who give the
human race a bad name. Sex of the species makes no difference. Any &
All users are POND SCUM!!! (opinion)
We hope that any users on JSH get discovered & ousted OR see the error
in their ways, grow up & become GOOD, DECENT human beings.

For Laughs

I can think of some ladies that I WISH they would USE ME.

PLEASE PLEASE

There are just a lot of f*cked up people out there, be it male or
female, black or white, gay or straight, etc... They are the people who
test the people who want to be genuinely good. Keep your head up, cuz
after all, you could be one of them instead. They can never be happy, so
they spend their time makin others miserable. I know......it's not
right, but it's true. Just be true to yourself and good things will
eventually come.

thanks everyone for their advice and opinions i appreciate it. To those
of u who celebrate V-day have a good one!