Topic: Mutual Match - Is it real?
jrott's photo
Sun 05/25/08 08:27 PM
I was wondering if anyone knows exactly how the mutual match feature works? I have had some women who are listed as mutual matches not communicate with me when I send them a message. I don't get it? If we both indicated we are interested in each other, then why don't they communicate?


tanyaann's photo
Sun 05/25/08 08:28 PM
laugh


the best way to get to know ppl on here is to post in the forums!

Etrain's photo
Sun 05/25/08 08:29 PM
its like...a room full of people...on crack and they decide our fatedrinker drinker drinker

YourLove1's photo
Sun 05/25/08 08:29 PM
its just about if you both have alot in common . but it dont mean you're right for each other ..

jonny63's photo
Sun 05/25/08 08:29 PM
Sounds like its workin just like its designed to.drinker

madamx7316's photo
Sun 05/25/08 08:29 PM
pat...paging pat....

LightVoice's photo
Sun 05/25/08 08:30 PM

I was wondering if anyone knows exactly how the mutual match feature works? I have had some women who are listed as mutual matches not communicate with me when I send them a message. I don't get it? If we both indicated we are interested in each other, then why don't they communicate?




Should you figure this out, let me know.. cause I've been wondering the same dang thing since day 1 ohwell

Cinderella75's photo
Sun 05/25/08 08:31 PM

laugh


the best way to get to know ppl on here is to post in the forums!


I agree..Post and u will have people e-mail u:wink:

willy_cents's photo
Sun 05/25/08 08:32 PM
mutual match is designed for ppl to want to meet someone, but, they all have laryngitis of the fingers and cannot reply when contacted. Or, it is so ppl can indicate that they want to meet someone, when infact they have no desire to meet anyone, but, instead, just stay in their lonely little existence out of fear of the outside.laugh laugh

jrott's photo
Sun 05/25/08 08:36 PM
In my opinion mutual match should mean both people have selected each other as someone they are interested in - if that is not the case, it is wrong for just say hi to promote it as a feature - the just say hi system should not match a man and woman together just because of common interests!

buttons's photo
Mon 05/26/08 06:41 AM
wouldnt it be nice if the mutual matches came after talking to someone for a bit in emails? ha!!!!!! its a darned stranger that never looked at your profile..... thats what ive found mutual match to be....

buttons's photo
Mon 05/26/08 06:48 AM
well maybe since this pic doesnt seem to work..... or im just getting 4 a day who dont know how to read.... maybe age 100 will work better lmao!laugh laugh

charles's photo
Tue 05/27/08 10:56 AM
jrott, we feel that it should work as it now does -- if both users answer either "yes" or "maybe" to each another, then it is up to them to contact each other. In any event, we thank you for the input.

RussNo1's photo
Tue 06/03/08 03:20 PM
I keep getting messages saying "1 new member has said they want to meet me through mutual match but you havent rated them. I rate a bunch of photos but am never told who said they matched me. I think this web site is using promotional plants and gimmicks to fool us. Most personals web sites do that.