well he's right

You know it's funny my ex said the same thing but....... he realized it way to late for me. I'm one once I walk away I walk away no turning back. By that time I have already tried every way possible I knew how to try to fix things. Not my fault they did not want to see. At times we are much better off in the end.

I believe that old saying of "Once a cheater, always a cheater"! Thats very TRUE and I have NEVER talked with anyone who has sustained a relationship very long after the other has been unfaithful to them.
So for anyone to allow them selves to lose a marrage because of their actions of desire.
Is one heck of an action to LET happen.
Loving another should come easy and with only their desire to be or want only YOU!
But this place here called the internet, is filled with alot of people who use their TYPED WORDS as a FAKE window to their true hearts.
The word PLAYER, I think started here,lol,lol,lol,.

But SOME people are content with just finding a bed partner and others seek to find a mate for life.
So WE are ALL different in what we seek to HAVE as to what we search for on here.

I've been lucky so far in my committed relationships to not have to deal with cheaters. I guess the only way to deal with one is to let them be somebody elses problem and move on.

he says the kids really want us back together.its hard to believe anything anymore.I'm a very trusting person and try to believe that everyone has at least sum good qualities

I had a good friend who I stood up with for his fifth
marrage and it was her sixth,lol But anyway after about a year he and her went out and he took some whisky shots and when they returned home an aurgument turned to him pushing her up against a wall and hurting her a bit. They talked and fought the next day...
I and him talked about it as HE used the whisky as his excuse as to doing THAT..
So NOW,,,about six months later IT HAPPENED AGAIN,,,this time they broke up and he had again hurt her with the up against the wall deal..But he tried telling me the same excuse to and WE ended our friendship..and THEY divorced..
So,,,,many who do ANYTHING ONCE,,,,"""ALWAYS""" MIGHT do THAT AGAIN!??????? Be SAFE and be AWARE...

So it's a website for jealous, insecure people who have been hurt previously in a relationship?

First date goes like this:
"She screwed me over..."
"He was a loser..."
"I thought you said...."
"Are you lying to me already?"
"You're just like the rest."
"Check please!"