Love really does happen when you aren't looking.

Mikecom21hotmaiL has wanted me to post to this thread for a while now. I'm ready, Michael.

In late November of 2007, I joined JSH to get to know someone whom I was dating better. Yes, I was very disappointed that it didn't work out. For this reason, I decided to leave the site. Frankly, after many years, trying to meet someone of quality whom I had common interests and chemistry with had proven futile and I was tired of trying.

Dejectedly, I had pretty much made the decision to go it alone from then on. I was in the process of shutting down my profile and giving up on meeting anyone special when I came across a friend request that had been sitting in my inbox for a little while. I thought about deleting it the same as all the others in the box, but I was attracted to something in the way he carried himself, his coloring, smile, and the twinkle in his eyes. Being tall and fit didn't hurt matters, either.

Of course, I was in a negative state of mind and doubted that he'd understand my needs and desires, my hopes and dreams. His profile sounded flexible, caring, and open-minded, though. Sure, it could have all been creative writing. What did I do? I linked him to another dating site where I kept a blog and posted to the forums, saying "lets get real". It was an alternative site and I never thought I would hear from him after that. I was sure he'd run. Yes, I was in a *****y mood.

Imagine my surprise to hear from him after that email, to get emails, IMs, and to find him in hot pursuit. To say it was heady would be an understatement. Through copious messages, we shared individual interests and found we had quite a bit in common with each other, after all. We laughed, we were impressed with the other's intelligence and kindness, their understanding and open-mindedness. Most surprising was when I realized that he had genuine interest and desire for a way of life I never expected to discover in a man on a nilla site.

I remember I had just gotten over the Flu and had lost my voice in the week before New Year's Eve. He offered to bring me home-made chicken soup on the eve of the New Year. I was just too sick to meet that night, but he was incredibly persistent. The chemistry was strong between us. I was so very tempted, but he seemed genuine enough that I knew if I wanted this relationship to be successful, we needed to pace ourselves.

So, I firmly but sweetly said no. Now, "no" is not something Michael enjoys hearing, so he persisted, spending the entire night chatting with me online. It was incredibly intoxicating - his interest and pursuit. Despite my voice, he got me to speak to him briefly on the phone that eve. Well, all I'll say is that our fireworks joined the ones in the air that night.

We decided to meet for breakfast and test the face-to-face chemistry a few days later. Needless to say, we were a match. Since then, Michael proudly introduced me to the forums on jsh. I like to write, share, help, and learn from others, but I'm used to a different venue. So of course, some of what I write has been eye-opening, to say the least. All the same, Michael and I know that there are many on jsh who appreciate my candor and open-mindedness, so the posts will continue for the time being.

Remaining members of this site and others has proven to create some special challenges for us over the months. We have navigated them well, which is a testament to our flexibility, without sacrificing personal integrity, needs, future goals, or standards. Relationships are not easy and they take commitment and work to survive and function well. To be creative and generative. Our relationship is young and we are still learning about each other - both the desirable and the not so desirable. Yes, we are at that "weighing in" stage, both literally and figuratively.

What is clearly coming through it all is that we are motivated to make this work, that we are committed to each other and the relationship, and that we are very much in love. I like Michael very much as an individual and as a Man. I know he values and feels pride in me, too. I have never met someone like him. The way he talks with and teaches my little one brings joy to my heart and a tear to my eye at times. He means very much to me and my family. He is a dream come true.

We have stood by each other during some difficult times already, whether they be health, career, or family related. I know the longer we are together, the stronger our bond will become. I already feel a sense of belonging and being held. We are very happy to announce that we will be moving in together in the very near future; and, marriage is clearly in the cards for us within the year.

Love does happen when you aren't looking.

Thanks, jsh!

angelindarkness and Mikecom21hotmaiL

I met the man I've been searching for here, Thank you JSH

Eileen and I will forever be gratefull for this site and the way it brought us together. Through a simple word game, it gave us the opportunity to get to know one another and eventually meet in person. A lot of our friends know the details of the last ten months. They have been a dream come true for both of us.

It's really inspiring to read all of the above success stories. It makes me want to do a bang-up job here.

Congratulations to those who have found beneficial relationships (of any kind) through this site!

Congratulations to the two of you!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hal and I met here on JSH and were united in marriage on Saturday, May 17th.

Thanks JSH for being here and giving us a chance to meet through this site.

Once again, congratulations to you and your new husband, andylou. That's so great to learn about.

Thanks, once again Charles for your good wishes.

In November of 2007 I started talking to a guy from Maynard, Iowa. A guy who plays Lead guitar in Rock band. I live in California. His attraction for me was that I write poetry. A week later, I was in an accident. A 2000 Ford F250 hit me while I was walking. I ended up in crutches and almost lost my leg to a serious infection. This sweet guy just kept on talking to me on a daily basis and kept me from going into depression. We talked endlessly on the phone about our past, our hurts, our wants and our needs. In March of 2008, I flew to Iowa to meet this very special man and fell in love. I recently flew out again and now we are talking about living together. He is the music and I am the words. Neither one of us is perfect but, together, we have something very special. A thing called "Love". I thank God every day for bringing him into my life................

That's quite a story, darkhairedrose! I wish the two of you continued happiness.

I want to thank the JSH from the bottom of my heart, I met Mike on here about 4months ago. We really hit it off right away and we both felt it from the start. We are still together and going strong. Have been together about 3months now, we have talked about getting married, I know in my heart he is the one for me. I have also met alot of great people on this site. I was never the one for dating sites but I am soo glad I came across this one. Thank you again guys.. keep up the great work!!

Brittany

I have been on this site for over a year and have met some of THE best people you will EVER want to know!!!! They have picked me up when I have had bad times and rejoiced with me in the good times and there are a couple on here I will NEVER forget!!!

I never thought I would meet someone on a free dating site, but I have met the love of my life here! I'm so impressed with JustSayHi. Thank you JustSayHi.

I didn't know what to expect from online dating, but I wanted to give it a try. I have a busy schedule and it fit in better than going out and trying to meet people. Then I found Ian's profile and I was drawn to him right away. We are having fun and we are looking forward to being with each other for a long time. This site has realy brought me happiness! Thank you so much for bringing this wonderful man into my life, I will for ever be greatful.
And good luck to all of you out there looking for your Mr or Mrs right.

I love you Baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

to all of you guys. I wish you luck going forward, too.

My boyfriend and I met on here last summer and we've been having a blast ever since. We've travelled around the country together and the time has flown by. It's been almost a year and we're still excited to be together every day. So to everyone out there, take a risk for once, meet new people, and give them a real chance. You never know who will come along and change your life if you just take that scary step. It's worth it when you finally find someone. GOOD LUCK!

Thank you so much JUST SAY HI. Because of your site, I have found the love of my life. Everyone has always told me that there is someone out there for everyone. Until recently, I thought that mine had gotten hit by a bus. Now I believe otherwise. We are completely right for each other and are already discussing marriage and children. I could not ask for more. Thank you so much!!

HAHAHAHA right onnnnnnnnnnn

I am about 3 days new to this site. A male friend who is married referred me to this site, insisting I would find a better quality of friends here. After leaving other sites which were disappointments(including eHarmony,lots of scammers there)I have to agree. The caliber of people I have met here far exceeds many of those I've met on paid sites. Folks are just warmer and friendlier (even the cynics:-) Whether I find that soulmate or not for me... this is a success.