Topic: Back from a online first date
ShagnaC's photo
Sun 02/11/07 09:23 PM
Hello!! It has been awile so I thought I would say hello also!
I went on a date from someone I met on another site and it went well, I
think we might go to the zoo next weekend. It is nerve wreaking to meet
someone new but after the initial 5 minutes I was not as nervous. How do
you get over the initial fear?
Anyone want to share there online dating experience?

kojack's photo
Sun 02/11/07 09:27 PM
I ve dated 2 people from online. Both whom were very comfortable the
entire tme we dated. the 1st lasted a few months, until i found out the
reason she was running or wanted to move to CT was she was wanted in her
area noway .

the 2nd i dated for four years, and we are friends still, we had no bad
experiences, just a situational breakup.

ShagnaC's photo
Sun 02/11/07 09:38 PM
I just get really nervous meeting new people/

purplecat's photo
Sun 02/11/07 09:42 PM
aw (((((((((((((((shag))))))))))))))))))) I get insanely nervous and shy
and panicky and AAAAAAAAAAA!!! with people ,,it can be very comical ,,it
will get easier on the second date ,,and even easier on the third ,,it
is natuaral to be all nervous ........ good luck !!




smokin

boynxdr's photo
Sun 02/11/07 09:47 PM
WHY THE LONG FACE THERE PURP, WAS IT SOMETING I SAYED?:tongue: :tongue:
:tongue: flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

whispertoascream's photo
Sun 02/11/07 10:02 PM
I understand completely. I have cancled dates because I was WAY to
afraid to meet them But now and I know it is going to sound strange but
now I bring my MP3 player. I will wear my hair down and have the head
phones under my shirt so he can not see it. And just have a comfort song
playing. It makes me feel a little more at ease and then when I feel
comfortable I will excuse my self goto a washroom and take my head
phones off.

Morena350's photo
Sun 02/11/07 10:09 PM
shagna girl, happy to see your on your way !!!

well shag, I have the same, but not because I have a date, but just
because I have a fear to start dating,, but Im trying to do it anyway,
the only way is to feel sure of yourself and know that you are special
and no matter what your always have yourself, what can happen? you may
find that he is the man you really need and want and if he is not then
moving on girl!!!


ShagnaC's photo
Sun 02/11/07 10:12 PM
<~~~~~~~~~~~ Has no problem moving on lol~~