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Topic: Let's just be friends
DestinysDream's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:34 PM
Do you find it hard to say this after the date with someone?
Do you bother or just never talk to them unless they talk to you?

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:35 PM
Edited by IndnPrncs on Wed 05/21/08 03:35 PM
It can be hard to say but if that's how you feel it's only fair to be honest...

If I want them for a friend of course... If not then no I probably wouldn't...


(((DD)))flowerforyou

62easygoing's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:35 PM
Edited by 62easygoing on Wed 05/21/08 03:40 PM
bigsmile no, i do not find it hard to say . Being nice to anyone is the best.flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:37 PM
it depends on what kind of person she was on the date.

Lily0923's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:37 PM
Depends if I even like them enough to be friends, I don't take my friends lightly either. If I like them enough to be friends, I like them enough to see where it may go.

So I don't usually say "let's be friends"

no photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:38 PM
I would never use that phrase since it has become almost a negative idea..."let's just be friends"...but certainly the same point is made, in other words.
At times, that's the most you can feel with someone and being a friend is a great thing!

Redsoxfan1's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:38 PM
I feel you should always be honest! No matter what! If you just want to be friends, you should tell them that!!:heart:

irad8you's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:39 PM
a date would be nice, so i could figure it out

roygoldenjr's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:40 PM
agrees with redsoxs fan:smile:

Redsoxfan1's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:41 PM

agrees with redsoxs fan:smile:
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James1234567's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:42 PM
I hate it when people say "lets just be friends", its like a wall or a leash, I say if you dont wont me around and theres someone else, just say so.. dont play games....

DestinysDream's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:43 PM
I just had to say the words to someone who I had been speaking with for several months off and on. Saturday we finally met. We clicked as friends but not romantically. She was totally cool with it as I knew she would be. It felt funny though to write to her and tell her but not doing so felt wrong. We agreed to keep in touch as friends.

James1234567's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:43 PM
i also agree with redsoxfan drinker

Jim519's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:44 PM
Be 100% honest all the time...tell it like it is. Not fair to let someone assume it may lead further...

They are adults (well, maybe laugh )..They should be able to handle it

msskarly's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:44 PM
Yeah its very hard to say! Especially if you really like them!

Redsoxfan1's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:44 PM

I just had to say the words to someone who I had been speaking with for several months off and on. Saturday we finally met. We clicked as friends but not romantically. She was totally cool with it as I knew she would be. It felt funny though to write to her and tell her but not doing so felt wrong. We agreed to keep in touch as friends.
Good for you!!:heart: I wish you all the best!flowerforyou

chuck366's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:44 PM

Do you find it hard to say this after the date with someone?
Do you bother or just never talk to them unless they talk to you?


whats a date?

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:48 PM


Do you find it hard to say this after the date with someone?
Do you bother or just never talk to them unless they talk to you?


whats a date?



heh I'd show you but you're forever away... :wink: laugh

no photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:48 PM



whats a date?


Um, I believe it's the edible fruit of a palm, if memory serves me correctly. That's the only kind I've known recently!

markerf16's photo
Wed 05/21/08 03:48 PM
I think its the most dreaded thing to hear or to have to say after a date. We all know what it really means...

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