That will get her sex, but not get him back.....

Why would you want to be with a guy like that?

Well, maybe he feels the same way, one never knows. Ever think of just calling him up and telling him you're a little bit, the tiniest amount, sorry that you broke up over something stupid? Someone has to be willing to make the first move, if you don't and he won't, then you can just write it off to experience and go on. Worst he will do is fall on the floor laughing and pointing and ridiculing you. And for sure, wear that bikini for insurance

you tell her! mama

if i knew of a reason i didnt want to be with him then i wouldnt be asking.......

i dont think the bikini is gonna help on this one.....

I don't want to toss water on your fire but if it was over something stupid then maybe he did it on purposes

the stupid idea would be to try ugh...get a new one...but good luck w/whatever you choose to do

a new man or bikini?

Just give him a call and explain how you feel. Or meet face to face and explain. Communication works.

I say bikini.....

so the general consensus is move on without closure, forget about him, and dont try anything......got it

that would be great if he would answer.....gave up trying to talk to him already.... no point

No, leave the bikini at home and go talk to him, then decide.

You shouldn't suffer for something someone else did.... But who am I to talk....

giving up is the easy way out. Determine how much you want to be around him, and go from there. Too many of us have the "give up quick" attitude because we are alone, and misery loves company. JMAO

You can't make him do anything. Everyone is telling you to ignore him, and I noticed you said that's hard to do when you don't see him. Are you texting him? Are you e-mailing and calling him? Don't do any of those things! If he knows how you (I'm guessing you told him) then talking to him wont work. Especially if he knows you want him back and you're calling all the time to let him know that. Just make him think you're out, having fun, with other guys.. the best way to do that is by not communicating with him. If he calls then answer and tell him you're busy and you're going out. Don't do that too much though because he may give up. We have to feel like we're needed. Take away that feeling.

Either way, if that doesn't work... then I'm here!

see thats what i think too......funny that even his mom said he didnt give it a chance and was holding onto something from the past (ran into her the other day....had a nice chat....she said play hard to get....how do you do that when you dont see him or talk to him ever?)

Try what happened with me and my last g/f...find an excuse to see him again and then ask diplomatically if he thinks the reason you broke up was really valid. Then suggest nicely that you try again, with the understanding that the subject that caused the argument that led to the breakup no longer be discussed.
Worked for us until she moved far away, we're still good long distance friends, too.

Meh, it's worth a try, right? If it doesn't work, then at least you know that you gave it a shot and in that, there is at least closure, right?

there are too many available men out there to care about one that won't give you a chance.go to the pool honey u'll have to beat the men off with a stick