The Golden Vagina? Oh my. LOL.....beep, beep.

Sorry. It is just a joke going round on another site in a similar thread.

Seriously, my guess would be that it is because it is very rare these days. Also, because some men are either afraid of or too young for commitment; and virginity implies a desire to "save oneself for" that.

Stand by your beliefs, desires, needs, and convictions and don't let anyone, male or female change your mind otherwise until you are ready.

Another astute observation!

Fear of blowing it.

Yes your mother if totally correct , it is a wonderful thing to have such a woman and there are many reasons behind this and then keep her of course ..

dont want to blow it to early lol

Good point.

To the OP, have you had your heart broken in the past? Why still alone at 32.

Just wondering if maybe it is not the bbw or virgin status that has been the issue, afterall.

<--- prefers experience over purity

A lot of men do, and thats cool. All the same, the OP needs help to understand why she can't attract and maintain a relationship with the kind of man she wants.

I think a guy might be afraid to have sex with a large virgin because he is afraid she is going to give it too much meaning and think they are a couple, and become clingy, and expect a lot from him.In other words, it would be way too easy to hurt you by having sex with you; he would rather go with someone who is going to understand it for what it is. And even then there is no guarantee that both people will see it the same way.

Oh this is an easy question.....I am totally frightened by virgins.....figure if they are going to make us wait for sex now can you imagine how they will use sex when we are married....Here's the conversation:
Her: Well, Dear 4 weeks ago you said i was funny looking....
Him: So that's why we haven't had sex this past month....
Her: Yes, if you want sex, then......(here it comes)
Him: But dear, you did look funny....your Holloween clown costume was hilarious....

funny guy

why

1) They fear that when she tries sex she won't like it and thus won't want to do it much.

2) They fear she will only see sex as a means to make children, not as any kind of a pleasure or act of love.

3) They fear she'll suck in bed...and I don't mean "suck" in oral terms.

4) They fear she'll want to wait on sex til marriage...which means whatever guy that gets involved with her will now have to give up on sex for possibly years.


I once dated a girl who was a virgin and wanted to wait til marriage. Gave up sex for three years only to have her tell me that the spark was gone and she wanted to end it. I felt like a fool afterwords. Now I more see sex as a partial "seal the deal" thing...that if she's willing to have sex with me then she's willing to do a relationship and get close to me emotionally. I see if she's unwilling, then it comes off as she'll drop me in a heartbeat when it suits her needs.

they arent scared that ur a virgin they are more scared that you look like their 13 yr old daughter