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Topic: Marriage?
DestinysDream Joined Wed 02/20/08 Posts: 4805	Fri 05/16/08 04:11 PM
A ring has meaning but a license is just a piece of paper. unless the ring is in the tub..then it's just gross. That reminds me I need to clean my bathroom. Thanks! I wouldn't put any time table on it. I've known a lot of people who break apart listening to others worthless advice. It all comes down to how they think someone should live their lives. Follow your heart.

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 05/16/08 04:11 PM
So your saying that if I ever get married again and you take my last name it is worth it to me to have messed up credit for 7 yrs but is that all you care about...ok seems to me alot of people have had bad marriages out there..wrong person wrong time...but theres still alot of good marriages ...and if we are all honest its what we really want or we wouldnt be here..unless we are are going to spend the rest of our days talking to a computer screen which is a bit sad, ive never been married but i have had relationships gone bad..but i believe in looking to the future and hopefully i wil find my happiness...or whats the blooming point of it all Bad divorce sorry and still going through it......so I don't think all women are like that but I have to watch my back so it don't happen again..... we all do hun...and thats understandable ..but the dust will settle and hopefully you can move on to happier times It will but right now is really not a good time for me and all the crap I'm going through makes me have those thoughts cause I don't want to be broke again...... u'll meet someone oneday and u'll change your mind

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 05/16/08 04:11 PM
So your saying that if I ever get married again and you take my last name it is worth it to me to have messed up credit for 7 yrs but is that all you care about...ok seems to me alot of people have had bad marriages out there..wrong person wrong time...but theres still alot of good marriages ...and if we are all honest its what we really want or we wouldnt be here..unless we are are going to spend the rest of our days talking to a computer screen which is a bit sad, ive never been married but i have had relationships gone bad..but i believe in looking to the future and hopefully i wil find my happiness...or whats the blooming point of it all Bad divorce sorry and still going through it......so I don't think all women are like that but I have to watch my back so it don't happen again..... we all do hun...and thats understandable ..but the dust will settle and hopefully you can move on to happier times It will but right now is really not a good time for me and all the crap I'm going through makes me have those thoughts cause I don't want to be broke again...... u'll meet someone oneday and u'll change your mind

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Fri 05/16/08 04:12 PM
So your saying that if I ever get married again and you take my last name it is worth it to me to have messed up credit for 7 yrs but is that all you care about...ok seems to me alot of people have had bad marriages out there..wrong person wrong time...but theres still alot of good marriages ...and if we are all honest its what we really want or we wouldnt be here..unless we are are going to spend the rest of our days talking to a computer screen which is a bit sad, ive never been married but i have had relationships gone bad..but i believe in looking to the future and hopefully i wil find my happiness...or whats the blooming point of it all Bad divorce sorry and still going through it......so I don't think all women are like that but I have to watch my back so it don't happen again..... we all do hun...and thats understandable ..but the dust will settle and hopefully you can move on to happier times It will but right now is really not a good time for me and all the crap I'm going through makes me have those thoughts cause I don't want to be broke again...... sorry to hear this hun..i understand...day by day hun

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Fri 05/16/08 04:12 PM
jmo if someone really s you they want to make you their wife and make that commitment.looking into someone's eyes and saying vows is something I look forward 2 I agree with you. I have only been married once and other then my girls, it was the biggest mistake of my life. I learned not to jump into marrage to fast. Now I only dream of finding someone that I CAN look into they're eyes and feel that love.

Redshirt Joined Tue 02/26/08 Posts: 2109	Fri 05/16/08 04:14 PM
When do you say the "I Do's"....when both agree the head and the heart are in agreement.

link97my Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 6798	Fri 05/16/08 04:15 PM
Thanks Tina and Debbie and sorry. I wasn't meaning you and all my other friends on here

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Fri 05/16/08 04:17 PM
Thanks Tina and Debbie and sorry. I wasn't meaning you and all my other friends on here no sorrys needed hun you take care here to chat if need too hun

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 05/16/08 04:18 PM
Thanks Tina and Debbie and sorry. I wasn't meaning you and all my other friends on here i was just trying to give yall a more positive view on things

link97my Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 6798	Fri 05/16/08 04:22 PM
Thanks Tina and Debbie and sorry. I wasn't meaning you and all my other friends on here i was just trying to give yall a more positive view on things Sorry Tina .......MmmmMMmMMMmmMMMmm **clears throat** Marriage is a great thing to have. It's to be with your best friend and that special someone to love and have forever....Best wishes

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 05/16/08 04:23 PM
Thanks Tina and Debbie and sorry. I wasn't meaning you and all my other friends on here i was just trying to give yall a more positive view on things Sorry Tina .......MmmmMMmMMMmmMMMmm **clears throat** Marriage is a great thing to have. It's to be with your best friend and that special someone to love and have forever....Best wishes no sorry needed.

cplichristmd Joined Sat 11/03/07 Posts: 1557	Fri 05/16/08 04:24 PM
i will never say those words again

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76393	Fri 05/16/08 04:24 PM
Well at first don't you think they should utter the words WILL YOU MARRY ME FIRST?

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Fri 05/16/08 04:25 PM
i will never say those words again

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5376	Fri 05/16/08 04:26 PM
I've tried it twice.... i think it's someone else turn from now on.... im just gonna shack up

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76393	Fri 05/16/08 04:26 PM
i will never say those words again ONE should never say never.

link97my Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 6798	Fri 05/16/08 04:27 PM
Thanks Tina and Debbie and sorry. I wasn't meaning you and all my other friends on here i was just trying to give yall a more positive view on things Sorry Tina .......MmmmMMmMMMmmMMMmm **clears throat** Marriage is a great thing to have. It's to be with your best friend and that special someone to love and have forever....Best wishes no sorry needed. Are those words better for enlightenment?

cplichristmd Joined Sat 11/03/07 Posts: 1557	Fri 05/16/08 04:27 PM
i will never say those words again ooooooooooooo dont cry and you wouldn't marry me anyways you call me names so you obviously dont like me that much lol

cplichristmd Joined Sat 11/03/07 Posts: 1557	Fri 05/16/08 04:27 PM
i will never say those words again ONE should never say never. oh oh oh i sure do mean never lol

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Fri 05/16/08 04:29 PM
i will never say those words again ooooooooooooo dont cry and you wouldn't marry me anyways you call me names so you obviously dont like me that much lol Oh and I don't get called names by your punk behind?! Hmm... Grrr.. men.... never say never... you know you want me