I'll let you in on a secret:

We claim to know what we want and that there are "deal breakers." Yet, if you are the "ONE" for us, we become flexible.

At least, those of us who think happiness supercedes conventionality will agree.

JMO

I am sitting here thinking as I am on an IM with this guy. He is telling me that his goals are get married and have a family.

Well I NEVER want to get married again. Never EVER! Been down that road once and will not go back. I mean do not get me wrong I will live with a guy if the time is right, but I never want to be asked that question.

Just like having a family. I can't have more children. Not that I do not want more, I just can't have more. My tubes are tied.

But a family and marriage is normal to want and I understand that.

Guess I am asking this to the guys. If a woman does not want to have children or get married again, how much of that is a deal breaker to you?