you know i had many good yrs .I just should have set some of my own goals.I now realise that I can do both.I have the hope for the best but plan for the worse

I know I will

It will happen, yes.

Straight up! Yeah it would be nice if I could find someone compatible and RESPONSIBLE. I'm not finding that though. I'm finding more stupidity and drama than a weeklong marathon of jerry springer and maury povich combined. Got no time for crap beyond belief. Some peoples skeletons in their closet resemble a freaking graveyard.

Heard THAT!

I don't really care about a persons past as long as it doesn't include they once were a man. What bones are you seeing?

Why am I suddenly singing LOLA!?

I sure hope I will find love, again. With more of my life behind me than ahead, though, I sometimes think I will run out of time before I do. Ah, well...I am surrounded by some really great friends - true & loving. It isn't the same, though, is it?

I'm in love now. But since it's not going where I'd like it to I'm not real happy. Love is something you hold in your own heart. But yes I do think I'll share love again. I hope so cuz It's like a bad drug...lol I need a fix!

It is also something you give away...but I see what you mean

you've been blessed and never been in a relationship with someone who has repeatedly brought their past into the current relationship ruining and souring it then. Bringing ex's into current relationships? Being compared to past relationships? Or the I got molested by my uncle when I was 13 and I'm going to never let myself have a decent relationship with anyone the rest of my life because of it ever? Once again I tell people don't put obstacles in the way of your own relationships. Don't complicate things. Nor do you want to put ultimatums in your relationships. The minute you do your relationship is OVER! People sabotage and destroy their own relationships. Tell me I'm wrong.

You're likely NOT wrong BUT

isn't it difficult to pretend none of us had a past, at our ages?

While it may be true that a fool and his money soon part- these days running blind into love is just about as wreckless. Maybe I'm just too cynical. Yeah love would be great. I will take an order of love. Can I get a side of fries with that?

Coming right up!

nope...probably not..

As much as I would like to, I just don't see that ever happening again.

Yeah well you had your marriage proposal lexie!

open your for me how much worse can the next guy be.If we have some good times and make some great memories then its better than thinking about the what ifs

Or maybe I've had one too many people (both men and women) whose love you talk so much about go sour crash on my couch crying themselves to sleep because they feel safe there and I've got a wet bar and a good ear and lots of patience. The irony is that the 1600 dollar couch they crash on is called a "loveseat" and these are the same people who tell me how great love is. Uh you're a babbling crying mess. Yeah love looks to be a lot of fun.

is wonderful it may not last forever but theres no chance if you don't risk it