Topic: ladies..
RoamingOrator's photo
Thu 05/15/08 06:00 AM

ladies do you ever get the feeling while dating that a man's whole motivation is to brand you as if you are cattle?

TAGGED that! bigsmile


Now I could see if you'd be upset if he was like that on a first date or something, but isn't that the whole point of dating? I thought you were supposed to find someone you wanted to be your one and only? Maybe I didn't understand the question.

lilangel2's photo
Thu 05/15/08 06:05 AM


ladies do you ever get the feeling while dating that a man's whole motivation is to brand you as if you are cattle?

TAGGED that! bigsmile


Now I could see if you'd be upset if he was like that on a first date or something, but isn't that the whole point of dating? I thought you were supposed to find someone you wanted to be your one and only? Maybe I didn't understand the question.


Well that is what I mean..I mean in the first stages of dating

RoamingOrator's photo
Thu 05/15/08 06:13 AM
Well, that's just silly, you mean guys actually do that? What ever happend to the niceties of courting? Am I the last one that still does that? This is what happens when you spend more time with your grandfathers than with you dad.

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Thu 05/15/08 06:15 AM
Freak out moment. I went out with a guy once and on our FIRST date, he started introducing me as his girlfriend. His friend (who was better looking) told me later that I wasn't to be messed with because I was the freaks.

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Thu 05/15/08 06:16 AM

Well, that's just silly, you mean guys actually do that? What ever happend to the niceties of courting? Am I the last one that still does that? This is what happens when you spend more time with your grandfathers than with you dad.


Yes for the most part.

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Thu 05/15/08 06:17 AM
Edited by notmytimeline20x6 on Thu 05/15/08 06:18 AM
men are like that , they want the women that they are dating to be theirs and theirs only , even if thy dat/sleep around like there is no tomorrow. let them find out that the girl is dating other people , or God forbid has male friends they lose their sh**. very few can actually accept the fact that while they are looking the girl(s) they are datin/whatever my not have settled on one prospect, and they'er completely blind when the girl is completely into them.and they want them to be 'faithful' until they make up their mind or just wake/grow up and see the relationship for what it is, and stop being so insecure.They want the best of both worlds, a girl to stick with them but the freedom to look around.but while the look around they dont want teir partner to do the same for fear that tey might find something better.flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou drinker drinker drinker

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Thu 05/15/08 06:18 AM

Freak out moment. I went out with a guy once and on our FIRST date, he started introducing me as his girlfriend. His friend (who was better looking) told me later that I wasn't to be messed with because I was the freaks.


I had one guy on first date offer to buy me a GARMIN and put me on his lawn service...had another guy even before our first date tell me in a very serious tone, "please , don't hurt me" YIKKKKKKKKKKKKKES!!!!

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Thu 05/15/08 06:20 AM
Edited by notmytimeline20x6 on Thu 05/15/08 06:20 AM


Freak out moment. I went out with a guy once and on our FIRST date, he started introducing me as his girlfriend. His friend (who was better looking) told me later that I wasn't to be messed with because I was the freaks.


I had one guy on first date offer to buy me a GARMIN and put me on his lawn service...had another guy even before our first date tell me in a very serious tone, "please , don't hurt me" YIKKKKKKKKKKKKKES!!!!
Holy God ! RUN AWAY!!!!

RoamingOrator's photo
Thu 05/15/08 06:20 AM

Freak out moment. I went out with a guy once and on our FIRST date, he started introducing me as his girlfriend. His friend (who was better looking) told me later that I wasn't to be messed with because I was the freaks.


Okay, first date girlfriend stuff is creepy, but guys will often tell their buddies if they are trying to go out with someone. It is a way that male friends use keep from going after the same woman.

lilangel2's photo
Thu 05/15/08 06:23 AM



Freak out moment. I went out with a guy once and on our FIRST date, he started introducing me as his girlfriend. His friend (who was better looking) told me later that I wasn't to be messed with because I was the freaks.


I had one guy on first date offer to buy me a GARMIN and put me on his lawn service...had another guy even before our first date tell me in a very serious tone, "please , don't hurt me" YIKKKKKKKKKKKKKES!!!!
Holy God ! RUN AWAY!!!!


I DIDDDdddddddddd...Now Im' SKERD!!!!

downhomechik's photo
Thu 05/15/08 06:24 AM
Yes, definitely have got that feeling.

RoamingOrator's photo
Thu 05/15/08 06:25 AM
You know I've read this thread a second time and I've realized, I apparently have been going about dating wrong my entire life. I've never cheated, never acted possessive or jealous (sometimes to the detriment of my relationships), I only date one woman at a time, and I've even enjoyed hanging out with some of the male friends (actually got to keep a couple after a break up).

No wonder I've never been married, I'm going about this all wrong.

lilangel2's photo
Thu 05/15/08 06:26 AM
Edited by lilangel2 on Thu 05/15/08 06:26 AM





Brand?hat do you mean? As his? Another notch?


as another notch, yes...or brand you as HIS and only HIS...either way...
Gotta say I don't seem to get that impression. Do you?


YUP, like they are in a big hurry to make their mark ...whatever that mark may be...I think it is inate.


I CALL ANGEL!!! Shotgun on angel..



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Thu 05/15/08 06:27 AM


Freak out moment. I went out with a guy once and on our FIRST date, he started introducing me as his girlfriend. His friend (who was better looking) told me later that I wasn't to be messed with because I was the freaks.


Okay, first date girlfriend stuff is creepy, but guys will often tell their buddies if they are trying to go out with someone. It is a way that male friends use keep from going after the same woman.


Yeah, but three weeks into dating him, he got my name tattooed on his, well on him.

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Thu 05/15/08 06:27 AM

ladies do you ever get the feeling while dating that a man's whole motivation is to brand you as if you are cattle?

TAGGED that! bigsmile
nah they are just tryig to get you into bed lol

Nickinolosers's photo
Thu 05/15/08 06:28 AM

You know I've read this thread a second time and I've realized, I apparently have been going about dating wrong my entire life. I've never cheated, never acted possessive or jealous (sometimes to the detriment of my relationships), I only date one woman at a time, and I've even enjoyed hanging out with some of the male friends (actually got to keep a couple after a break up).

No wonder I've never been married, I'm going about this all wrong.


Jamie, If you change a thing about what you've been doing Ill head east and north and smack ya on the head bigsmile

notmytimeline20x6's photo
Thu 05/15/08 06:29 AM
Edited by notmytimeline20x6 on Thu 05/15/08 06:30 AM

Freak out moment. I went out with a guy once and on our FIRST date, he started introducing me as his girlfriend. His friend (who was better looking) told me later that I wasn't to be messed with because I was the freaks.
guys introing girls as their gf to friends usually means that their friends are scavengers, getting all their dates by hitting up thier friends dates, or they'er scared the girl will like the friend better and they will 'loose'. I had a 'friend' pass my date a note w/his number and intrest while we were on a double date..... and look at my and say 'sorry' , at least he didn't go behind my back !

notmytimeline20x6's photo
Thu 05/15/08 06:33 AM


ladies do you ever get the feeling while dating that a man's whole motivation is to brand you as if you are cattle?

TAGGED that! bigsmile
nah they are just tryig to get you into bed lol
she's been paying attention and has learned well.Soon you will be a tru 'Jedi' of datingflowerforyou :wink: flowerforyou flowerforyou drinker drinker

lilangel2's photo
Thu 05/15/08 06:34 AM


You know I've read this thread a second time and I've realized, I apparently have been going about dating wrong my entire life. I've never cheated, never acted possessive or jealous (sometimes to the detriment of my relationships), I only date one woman at a time, and I've even enjoyed hanging out with some of the male friends (actually got to keep a couple after a break up).

No wonder I've never been married, I'm going about this all wrong.


Jamie, If you change a thing about what you've been doing Ill head east and north and smack ya on the head bigsmile


I thought you said.....err....LOL nevermind noway

notmytimeline20x6's photo
Thu 05/15/08 06:35 AM




Freak out moment. I went out with a guy once and on our FIRST date, he started introducing me as his girlfriend. His friend (who was better looking) told me later that I wasn't to be messed with because I was the freaks.


I had one guy on first date offer to buy me a GARMIN and put me on his lawn service...had another guy even before our first date tell me in a very serious tone, "please , don't hurt me" YIKKKKKKKKKKKKKES!!!!
Holy God ! RUN AWAY!!!!


I DIDDDdddddddddd...Now Im' SKERD!!!!
Be afraid.... be very afraid! LOLlaugh laugh laugh