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Topic: Hate your man/woman or...
nightruler Joined Fri 10/05/07 Posts: 653	Wed 05/14/08 02:10 PM
Hate the one they're cheating on you with. consider this..what if your boyfriend or girlfriend,husband or wife told a new lover that they were single. It's obvious how you would handle your mate,but what about the new guy/girl.

gammalight6000 Joined Sun 12/23/07 Posts: 5403	Wed 05/14/08 02:11 PM
Hate the one they're cheating on you with. consider this..what if your boyfriend or girlfriend,husband or wife told a new lover that they were single. It's obvious how you would handle your mate,but what about the new guy/girl. both..the girl friend for being unfaithful and the man for helping it along

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Wed 05/14/08 02:12 PM
Why hate.. I'd just walk away..

Robm248 Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 821	Wed 05/14/08 02:14 PM
Yep, she's gone. I can and deserve to find someone better than that. As for the guy... I pity him, because he just got a bum deal.

dungonmasterRJ Joined Thu 10/26/06 Posts: 3613	Wed 05/14/08 02:15 PM
Why hate.. I'd just walk away.. same here already did

DQ66 Joined Fri 11/16/07 Posts: 803	Wed 05/14/08 02:15 PM
If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you. Her punishment is ending up with HIM

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Wed 05/14/08 02:16 PM
would leave em to it..oh wait a minute i did lol

cloudedsunshine Joined Thu 05/08/08 Posts: 1375	Wed 05/14/08 02:16 PM
Hate the one you are in a relationship with the other person doesn't owe you a thing

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Wed 05/14/08 02:17 PM
would leave em to it..oh wait a minute i did lol You're a voyeur JT?

Elizabeth1968 Joined Sun 02/17/08 Posts: 55	Wed 05/14/08 02:18 PM
walk away, wish them luck, and consider myself lucky to be rid of him

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Wed 05/14/08 02:18 PM
I would hate them both,then walk away...It's their loss

James00711 Joined Mon 05/12/08 Posts: 158	Wed 05/14/08 02:20 PM
Yep, she's gone. I can and deserve to find someone better than that. As for the guy... I pity him, because he just got a bum deal. My sentiments exactly ! They're both losers !

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76393	Wed 05/14/08 02:20 PM
Why hate.. I'd just walk away.. Ditto that is what I did and would do it again.

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Wed 05/14/08 02:20 PM
would leave em to it..oh wait a minute i did lol You're a voyeur JT? no lol..yuk

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 05/14/08 02:22 PM
It's not the other person's fault, your mate made the promise to you the "other" didn't.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 05/14/08 02:23 PM
If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you. Her punishment is ending up with HIM A fricken fracken MEN sista....

naturalstyle Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 405	Wed 05/14/08 02:41 PM
I say the fault lies with the cheater. That is the person that knows the truth whether he/she told the other person or not. If the other person was in the know but didn't care then that person is just as quilty though.

naturalstyle Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 405	Wed 05/14/08 02:42 PM
I would hate them both,then walk away...It's their loss Agreed

DQ66 Joined Fri 11/16/07 Posts: 803	Wed 05/14/08 03:04 PM
If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you. Her punishment is ending up with HIM A fricken fracken MEN sista.... I wish her all the best

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 05/14/08 03:08 PM
I said, and still say... okay, now he is someone else's problem. The only guilt I felt was at myself, for not seeing it sooner, or the capacity within him. I think if the person continues to see the cheater after they find out, then they are at fault, but they can be innocent of the knowledge, at first. It comes down to what they do when they become aware. But hate... that just serves no purpose. I agree it is easier to be angry than to get over it though.