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Topic: What are your Deal Breakers ?
cloudedsunshine Joined Thu 05/08/08 Posts: 1375	Wed 05/14/08 01:50 PM
I think part of that is our stupid mass media image of cool. Which is really lame. I agree that women should be a bit choosy, although sometimes I think they choose the wrong things to be choosy about. Thank you, dear Lily. Rob, I agree to an extent, but if you look at my dealbreakers, there is really not too much in there that you would want in a mate yourself, is there? I'm not talking about a person who plays Frogger only at the movies, or buys scratch tickets once a year, or has a speeding ticket. Look at what I typed for what it really means. I know, you focus mostly on addictions and obsessions. I can agree with that... although I'm a little confused about what's wrong with having morals if you are a republican. Actually I can of like people with morals, just not ones who are "better than you". Was that what you were going for, or? What is wrong with a republican dating a democrat or independant

Daddiesgirl52 Joined Fri 02/09/07 Posts: 1614	Wed 05/14/08 01:50 PM
I put it up front to every guy, I'll do anything for you that is legal, but if you lie, cheat, curse me or hit me I'll kick you to the curb. The trival stuff be honest and discuss it.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 05/14/08 01:51 PM
Glad you are enjoying it lilith. Lily, I'm sure plenty of people WILL kiss you if you want, so don't cry too much. By the way, how about we all go on a speed dating dinner somewhere in Canada? We'll have a blast until tempers flare! hehe, lillith is ABSOLUTELY stunning in person, she has intelligence and class, so she CAN be picky when chosing a mate. If every woman was chosey, there wouldn't be so many dead beat dads, playas, morons, objectifiers in the world, it would force little boys in mens bodies to act like MEN IN MEN'S BODIES. lily i take offence to being called a boy...i consider myself an honest and honorable..i have a good job, i have a car...so what i play a few video games.....hell i even play paint ball..there is nothing wrong with these things...to call them childish or being a boy is just straight up ignorance to the world.... look around you not every thing is not as retarded as it seems. enjoy life a little it won't hurt Wow, I never specifically said YOU were anything...but from your reaction I can see how you ACTUALLY view yourself.... You are right there is NOTHING wrong with them, I love paint ball, but when you life revolves around things of that nature... then you are a man child/ or woman child for that matter. It's not that guys do this stuff, it's the amount of effort and the way they prioritize that makes them childish about it.

FAK Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 7817	Wed 05/14/08 01:51 PM
If she doesn't have lots of body hair....no deal

Robm248 Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 821	Wed 05/14/08 01:52 PM
What is wrong with a republican dating a democrat or independant Nothing, but there are usually some political issues that they have to work through. Doing this generally means you have to look at Topics and Issues rather than Political Party guidelines.

gammalight6000 Joined Sun 12/23/07 Posts: 5403	Wed 05/14/08 01:52 PM
and yes i do have a sketchy past but i learned from those ordeals....i was a child then but a man now... people do dumb **** as they grow, it's life..you live and learn from those mistakes..i was even a drug and an alcoholic but you know what, i have recovered and don't those things now... i learn what it felt like to be at the bottom ands it push me and still does to this day to be the best and strive for being a better individual. i am buddist and without suffering you will never undstand the religion.... yes i have a few but you know what i can look past some of the b.s. ones and learn to see the person for who they are... granted not taking showers and self cleanliness is an issue for me as a dealbreaker and practicing drug addicts

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 05/14/08 01:52 PM
I know, you focus mostly on addictions and obsessions. I can agree with that... although I'm a little confused about what's wrong with having morals if you are a republican. Actually I can of like people with morals, just not ones who are "better than you". Was that what you were going for, or? I think I focus on poor decision making abilities. By moralistic republicans I mean those who decide their morals are better than everyone elses, and therefore "right". I am sure you've met a few. I cannot be with a person who is not openminded. I also have issue with people who play video games for 5-6 hours a day, schedule everything they do around sporting events, and have been in prison. I just want a well rounded, openminded intelligent guy with varied interests. And Gamma~ I called you a boy based on things outside this thread. I had no idea you played video games until this day.... I guess you are a bit sensitive, huh?

Robm248 Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 821	Wed 05/14/08 01:53 PM
Glad you are enjoying it lilith. Lily, I'm sure plenty of people WILL kiss you if you want, so don't cry too much. By the way, how about we all go on a speed dating dinner somewhere in Canada? We'll have a blast until tempers flare! hehe, lillith is ABSOLUTELY stunning in person, she has intelligence and class, so she CAN be picky when chosing a mate. If every woman was chosey, there wouldn't be so many dead beat dads, playas, morons, objectifiers in the world, it would force little boys in mens bodies to act like MEN IN MEN'S BODIES. lily i take offence to being called a boy...i consider myself an honest and honorable..i have a good job, i have a car...so what i play a few video games.....hell i even play paint ball..there is nothing wrong with these things...to call them childish or being a boy is just straight up ignorance to the world.... look around you not every thing is not as retarded as it seems. enjoy life a little it won't hurt Wow, I never specifically said YOU were anything...but from your reaction I can see how you ACTUALLY view yourself.... You are right there is NOTHING wrong with them, I love paint ball, but when you life revolves around things of that nature... then you are a man child/ or woman child for that matter. It's not that guys do this stuff, it's the amount of effort and the way they prioritize that makes them childish about it. /agree. They aren't saying you are horrible for liking a game, they are saying putting a game over the rest of your life is childish. Care to actually read the explanations and reply accordingly?

Robm248 Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 821	Wed 05/14/08 01:55 PM
I think I focus on poor decision making abilities. By moralistic republicans I mean those who decide their morals are better than everyone elses, and therefore "right". I am sure you've met a few. I cannot be with a person who is not openminded. I also have issue with people who play video games for 5-6 hours a day, schedule everything they do around sporting events, and have been in prison. I just want a well rounded, openminded intelligent guy with varied interests. In which case I have no issues with any of that. Sounds perfectly reasonable to me.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 05/14/08 01:55 PM
i am buddist and without suffering you will never undstand the religion.... Buddhist don't use their religion to alienate others...didn't they teach you that in Buddhist school? From what I've read, you need to study more.

seaworthy1963 Joined Mon 08/14/06 Posts: 592	Wed 05/14/08 01:55 PM
Fat chicks and socialists. you shouldnt say that about woman with a little more meat on them thats more cushopn for the pushin Cushion isn't fat.

Robm248 Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 821	Wed 05/14/08 01:58 PM Edited by Robm248 on Wed 05/14/08 01:59 PM
i am buddist and without suffering you will never undstand the religion.... Buddhist don't use their religion to alienate others...didn't they teach you that in Buddhist school? From what I've read, you need to study more. Actually, in almost every religion they teach tolerance and acceptance, even love, of others. Now... religion bashing has become popular:\ (in no way saying lily was bashing).

gammalight6000 Joined Sun 12/23/07 Posts: 5403	Wed 05/14/08 02:02 PM
i am buddist and without suffering you will never undstand the religion.... Buddhist don't use their religion to alienate others...didn't they teach you that in Buddhist school? From what I've read, you need to study more. no... in or to help some else with their suffering as in being a sponsor or what not you need to know what it felt like...i pretty much live my life helping people in need...i work EMS because i enjoy helping people and saving their lives...it sure isn't for the money.... granted i did take this whole ordeal way to seriously. i do apologize.... i felt as it was a blow to some of the people do have sketchy pasts and what not....

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 05/14/08 02:08 PM
i am buddist and without suffering you will never undstand the religion.... Buddhist don't use their religion to alienate others...didn't they teach you that in Buddhist school? From what I've read, you need to study more. no... in or to help some else with their suffering as in being a sponsor or what not you need to know what it felt like...i pretty much live my life helping people in need...i work EMS because i enjoy helping people and saving their lives...it sure isn't for the money.... granted i did take this whole ordeal way to seriously. i do apologize.... i felt as it was a blow to some of the people do have sketchy pasts and what not.... NO ONE said anything about ANYONE'S past, lillith was speaking of their present... THAT'S A HUGE DIFFERENCE. You claim Buddhism, I'm not seeing Buddhist traits from you.

gammalight6000 Joined Sun 12/23/07 Posts: 5403	Wed 05/14/08 02:10 PM
i am buddist and without suffering you will never undstand the religion.... Buddhist don't use their religion to alienate others...didn't they teach you that in Buddhist school? From what I've read, you need to study more. no... in or to help some else with their suffering as in being a sponsor or what not you need to know what it felt like...i pretty much live my life helping people in need...i work EMS because i enjoy helping people and saving their lives...it sure isn't for the money.... granted i did take this whole ordeal way to seriously. i do apologize.... i felt as it was a blow to some of the people do have sketchy pasts and what not.... NO ONE said anything about ANYONE'S past, lillith was speaking of their present... THAT'S A HUGE DIFFERENCE. You claim Buddhism, I'm not seeing Buddhist traits from you. good gawd, did i not just apoligize for the mistake that i had made...i can argue my point...

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 05/14/08 02:20 PM
Gamma, I'm sorry if I was harsh, you trashed a friend because you didn't read what she said...that made me angry.

Silntstrnger Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 4265	Wed 05/14/08 02:22 PM
deal breaker for me is B.O. and bad breath and stupidity. That eliminates about 99.99875% of the population... good luck! You're gonna need it! i guess if it is between going out with someone that draws flies and picks up steak covered in ketchup with their hands, i would have to say i would rather stay single.

gammalight6000 Joined Sun 12/23/07 Posts: 5403	Wed 05/14/08 02:24 PM
Gamma, I'm sorry if I was harsh, you trashed a friend because you didn't read what she said...that made me angry. understandable...i did kinda go off

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Wed 05/14/08 02:25 PM
Fat chicks and socialists.

Robm248 Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 821	Wed 05/14/08 02:25 PM
deal breaker for me is B.O. and bad breath and stupidity. That eliminates about 99.99875% of the population... good luck! You're gonna need it! i guess if it is between going out with someone that draws flies and picks up steak covered in ketchup with their hands, i would have to say i would rather stay single. Not quite... you just will have to look carefully. There are some guys who take care of themselves, use deodorant, brush their teeth, etc... who are usually not stupid. (We are all stupid on occasion )