My ex loves my baby sister who is just graduating from college. He has decided to give her a bunch of money for graduation and gave me his credit card ans 500 dollars to outfit her for college i.e. laundry baskets, a bed, linens, puter. The entire time we were married he spent a total of $250 on my schooling. It just feels like we should reject his gift.

I would back away real fast.

Tell him to marry his truck.

Smells fishy, get away

I told him he creaped her out with all of his hugging when he was around my family, but he thinks that just because we aren't officially divorced (he is draggin his feet on signing the decree) that he can claim my family. It's odd.


NOTE: all of our marriage he wouldn't even hold my hand in public or at his parents or anywhere really.

Hmmmm. I say reject his gifts. Dude sounds like a weird ass.

Okay, it was just too odd. My little sister wants the money, but it's just too odd.

Forget about what he didn't spend on u for school.....I find it just a little weird and perhaps to all tell that he is now so interested in ur sister. I would reject his offer and not allow him to stay connected with u or your sister.

Run for the hills.

I just wanted to be sure because I couldn't really tell if he was just supporting his sister in law of 3.5 years or if he was just being creepy.

Can you say background check?

Very funny.

Well, my name is Goofball.

I would want the money too, but if you accept it, then he could assume that you guys will accept his offers all the time. Just say no and tell him to sign the papers!

Why didn't he approach her directly?
If he IS trying to buy his way into her affection, (or underpants) it would have seemed the logical thing to do.

Hummmm excuse me sounds like he has a thing for your sister instead and he is dragging his feet on the divorce to stay around her.

That was one of my thoughts.

You can be a victim if you chose to. There's one word that will speed up the process. HALF. He'd be more likely to sign the decree than to give you have of his stuff. Then again, if he doesn't have much, another word will work. Alimony.

Dude, I am giving him 2/3 or all our stuff AND not touching his 401(k).

steve miller said it best i do beleve....



(Steve Miller)
This here's a story about Billy Joe and Bobbie Sue
Two young lovers with nothin' better to do
Than sit around the house, get high, and watch the tube
And here is what happened when they decided to cut loose

They headed down to, ooh, old El Paso
That's where they ran into a great big hassle
Billy Joe shot a man while robbing his castle
Bobbie Sue took the money and run

Go on take the money and run
Go on take the money and run
Go on take the money and run
Go on take the money and run

Billy Mack is a detective down in Texas
You know he knows just exactly what the facts is
He ain't gonna let those two escape justice
He makes his livin' off of the people's taxes

Bobbie Sue, whoa, whoa, she slipped away
Billy Joe caught up to her the very next day
They got the money, hey
You know they got away
They headed down south and they're still running today
Singin' go on take the money and run
Go on take the money and run
Go on take the money and run
Go on take the money and run
Go on take the money and run
Go on take the money and run
Go on take the money and run
Go on take the money and run

move on