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Topic: If you felt you wern't ready...
Shaden's photo
Wed 05/14/08 08:47 AM


If I felt like I wasnt ready I would just say that I wasn't ready. I need to take things slowly. And to be honest if someone pushes me for more than I can or am ready to give then I push back. Makes me sound like a real wench but I was rushed the first time, will not be rushed again.




Amen! :smile:


Much Agree!

no photo
Wed 05/14/08 09:00 AM

I would run like hell. laugh laugh


Me too. laugh That inner voice is always right. :wink:

grkboy's photo
Wed 05/14/08 09:54 AM

If you felt you wern't ready for a serious relationship yet, but you met someone you really clicked with...would you seize the moment and go 4 it or would you listen to your inner voice?


Show this person attention, be there for them, take it slow.

Biggest problem I've seen with women who aren't ready or want to take it slow is that they seem to think that the guy is someone they can put on or take off the shelf when it suits their needs, or she'll get bored quickly because she wanted to take things slow, but she still wants fireworks and excitement. Doesn't work that way.

That or she treats the guy too much as a "friend" and thus he thinks he's been friendzoned and he'll move on.

auburngirl's photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:09 AM


always listen to your heart,and your inner voice for they always know whats best for you!
Best of luck!




Rodster


But....my heart and my inner voice are in conflict! ohwell



Hey Twin! flowerforyou

If this is YOU we are speaking of....all things considered, slowly is my answer. :smile:

no photo
Wed 05/14/08 12:51 PM
You can meet and still take it slowly.

A difficult part of making a decision is living with the indecision.

lilangel2's photo
Wed 05/14/08 03:18 PM



always listen to your heart,and your inner voice for they always know whats best for you!
Best of luck!




Rodster


But....my heart and my inner voice are in conflict! ohwell



Hey Twin! flowerforyou

If this is YOU we are speaking of....all things considered, slowly is my answer. :smile:


Yeah, its me and i am trying to go sloooowbigsmile

auburngirl's photo
Wed 05/14/08 03:18 PM
Do we need to talk??? laugh

Single_Rob's photo
Wed 05/14/08 03:51 PM
buy a pouch of beechnut, put in a big mouthful and if the earth sarts to spin go for it

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